Jump to content

jomegared

Members
  • Posts

    140
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Posts posted by jomegared

  1. Thanks Frosty, and yeah I know it is a HUGE move anyone can agree, however he went through with his interview at the end of March and had his Visa in hand, only to tell me two weeks after he got it that he didn't think he loved me enough to move here and that he didn't have the same feelings for me as he use to. #######!! We have a 23 month old..He was just here to visit in March and never mentioned anything about not having any feelings for me anymore. He even left some things here at my house and advised me that he would have to give his job a months notice and that he would be here the middle of May. It's all so crazy...I was devestated!!

    Oh I'm so so sorry to hear that. All this time.....

    So what now? I mean are you trying to calm his nerves at all?

    Yea my lady arrived. It took a lot of pushing though.

    We were in this situation as well, she told me the same things.

    Im just so sorry to hear this.

    How is it looking now? I mean he has 6 months to think about it right?

    That could be a good thing.

  2. Well it's a year later, guessing everyone got their approvals and are happily married or soon to be. Just thought i'd check in:)

    Well, we got our visa in December. She is still not here! AHHHHHHHH. Driving me mad.

    My gal just wanted to enjoy her family and her country without the stress of the visa process.

    She wanted to take it all in one last time before she moves for good. We have until June for the visa, but I think she'll come

    sooner. Hopefully April. Anyway, she loves her job, her family, and her country, more so than the US.

    I completely understand. But I still miss her.

    Anyway, we have the visa. That's all i car about.

    What keeps me going is remembering how good we were together.

    And how good we will be.

    Cheers.

    Thanks for the update Kim.

    Hang in there.

  3. If it was an automatic, I'd really be interested.. but I never learned to drive a stick shift :P

    lol, completely understandable. I remember when my parents bought me my first car (a real piece of work, but a car nonetheless) it was a STICK!!

    I was like, NOOOOOOOOOOO. I don't know how to do it. Sure enough though, after jerking around forever I got it. If it meant getting rid of her car my

    little lady would teach you! lol.

    Thanks anyway.

    Enjoy Casa!

    PS..Be sure to go eat at the port!

    AH..MA...Zingggggggggggg.

  4. CONGRATS TO YOU!! We are waiting on our interview letter. How can I check if they received my last set of paperwork? We sent it off at the end of October and he called and got his medical set up for November 24th. He's done that and now we have not heard anything since the medical. Who should we call and can we chek online to see if anyone has looked at it?

    I would just email and ask.

  5. Medical has been completed. It wasn't nearly as terrible as I feared it would be. :) I'm so relieved to have it out of the way.

    Now, just waiting for the interview date.

    Congrats!! My fiance had his medical on November 24th. So now we wait for the interview as well...this is ridiculous....how long does it take for us to get an interview....in March it will be a year since we started....I thought they said the process took 6 months?

    hahahaahaha cough sorry

    last march i was told 3 months by my lawyer. took 9 for the noa2. now i have to wait another 4-6 months for an interview at my consulate. Looks like it will take more than 12 months for me to get to my beloved in chicago.

    oh did i mention..patience is most definatly not one of my virtues....

    Well I hope that in the end it will be!

    Think of all you have been through now, you two will always have this struggle to tell to your kids someday to teach them the lesson of patience and perseverance!

    Hang in there Kimbear! I'm praying for you. You two will be together soon inshallah.

  6. ok you having a baby together living with him that long is more than a proof i been there so i know they will give it to him trust me you dont need to be nervous

    Ok, for starters, having a baby with someone is not proof of a valid relationship. I am not trying to be mean here I am just trying to help.

    Second, living with someone for 6 months is not proof either. If I was the interviewer I would be questioning these things.

    1. You met online. (NOT A BAD THING....I am just saying the time line is weird)

    2. The time line.

    -----You met online talked for 5 months then went and he proposed. Am I understanding that write?

    3. He is a man. A man from Morocco. He will have to overcome immense obstacles at the interview. My fiancee interviewed last Tuesday and they were very very harsh on the men.

    All the women got the visa's that day and I'm not so sure how many of the men did.

    4. You have visited twice. (This looks very good.)

    Because of the amount of fraud that comes out of Morocco, they are very hard on men.

    You will just have to be prepared for the tone of the interview. You could have someone really nice. So finger's crossed.

    However, how is his English? Is it good? Bad? So-so? The evidence we had in our success was pictures with each other's families.

    This was incredibly important. Also, we compiled HUNDREDS, of emails, skype logs, msn logs, and receipts from the phone calls.

    The more the better.

    Maybe even contact your congress person to check on the status of the interview. If its soon, start now.

    They take time. Remember, Casa is just one of those consulates you need to prepare for. So good luck.

    I wish you the best!

  7. Hey Jomegared...whats the news? Such suspense here!!!

    Sorry sorry.

    So, its good. Monday came around and they said, COME TOMORROW. So midnight on Monday my gal starts looking over the paperwork.

    FINALLY she realizes the Bio wasn't filled out by our lawyer so she scrambles, calls me, and we get it done. 1am she finally sleeps. 6 30am her

    time I call her and wake her up. She goes, sits down with the interviewer and he says......

    "So tell me about this arrest."

    From there she begins to explain what happened and how she ended up overstaying her student visa.

    He says,

    "You know this makes you ineligible to receive a visa right?"

    She proclaims, "Yes I do and it was my fault for being naive of the law."

    He glances over her evidence, looks at a couple pictures and just lets Hanane talk about us.

    He says he doesn't doubt the validity of our relationship, but he needs to check with Homeland Security about her.

    "I'll call you in a couple days."

    The interview itself took twenty minutes.

    She was in the waiting room before it for over 2 hours which for CASA is pretty short.

    Needless to say fell asleep while waiting. lol. Cutie. Anywho....

    Two days go by and im flippin my ######.

    He calls her today and says the story checks out, you were under the limit to define an overstay can you come pick up your visa?

    To which Hanane replies.....

    "No, actually I'm kinda busy right now with work. Can I come tomorrow?"

    "Oh...little miss Hanane is busy. Never have I called someone to come pick up a visa, and they told me no! Sure you can come tomorrow." He said.

    Thank god. So many ups and downs.

    Such a process. Be sure to look for some videos I'm going to make about immigration when reform hits next year.

    Thanks all for your support. You are close. Very close, and it will all be worth the wait.

    Much love.

    J

  8. It sounds to me like she could be testing him. Just call everyday, email everyday and do not stop. Casa only has phone hours from 3 to 4 pm their time so keep that in mind when you call.

    Even then, they rarely answer. I email them constantly and they reply very quickly. Then again I have had a senator contact them multiple times. Also, do as stated above, call the State Department and ask what is going on with your case.

    It seems to me however, that they did not exactly deny him because they would give him a piece of paper stating so.

    Hang in there, and I know its impossible, but just try to relax a little until you get some news.

    Remember, this is their job. It is their job to be rough and flush out the frauds.

    So just be persistent and I'm sure they will see that you evidence is looked at and you case is considered appropriately.

    Until then, EMAIL EVERYDAY!!!

    Good luck to you.

  9. Tonight their was a conference that took place talking about the Immigration Reform law that needs to be passed in the new year to help illegals get their papers!!!! If you interested in helping call Bob Inglis at 202-225-6030 and leave a message to him saying you support the Immigration Reform law.

    Change needs to happen and with every ones help it can happen.

    Yes, I think theirs nothing wrong with illegals getting theirs papers if they pay their taxes and stay out of trouble. I think they have a right to work and reach for happiness like any body elese. It doesn't matter where you were born or where you are from, we all have a right to reach happiness.

    This is absurd. First they should be arrested, deported, and THEN, they could apply to get in like the rest of us.

    They should be forced to suffer the agonizing wait that those of us who are trying to legally enter the country do.

    I pay taxes. I'm an American citizen, so what? They broke the law. Period. Immigration reform is absolutely necessary to make it easier for people to legally

    enter the country. NOT GIVE PAPERS TO ILLEGALS.

×
×
  • Create New...