HappyDancer

Eeeeeekkkk! I was about to ask about Ben!

He is sooo ADORABLE! COngrats!

So... Who does this lil man look like?

Wooohoo!!! thank God!!!

Good luck!!!

Which state will you be going?

I would suggest you go cyber window shopping re the wedding costs. Everything will be easier especially when you SO gives you a hand with the planning. Me and my fiance are planning to get married about 6 weeks after I get there. I will DIY mostly everything that has to do with the wedding stuff like invites, thank you cards, favors, decoration, flowers etc.

Try to get your wedding dress ready before heading to the US. I will have my wedding outfit all ready before my flight.

Good luck!

Cheering for you sis!

Amen again!

YAY!!!

Sorry for being absent most days people. I am swamped at work. I am overly stressed over so many people who just gossipy and nothing to do with their boring lives at work. It's annoying more than anything.

I will tender my resignation on Thursday, effective May 15.

Boof - congrats and wishing you a wonderful life ahead!

Cuchita - hang in there. I too have the same fears and fiance knows this. I showed him the thread for Steph and her story. I always tell him to be careful as he drives 45 mins one way to work every day and always pray to God to keep him and all our families to be safe all the time. I do struggle as well, leaving my family as my mom is still under meds for her kidney stones, adding to diabetes and an enlarged heart. It's not easy. I have been taking care of them for how many years now and I just can't have it in my heart to rest my mind. It is driving me insane. I never realized it was going to hurt this bad leaving them behind. Back a few months ago, all I could think about was how to be with fiance. Now, I thought it ends there. Life's a game. You win some, you lose some. Let's keep praying and keep the faith.

Fred - hang in there buddy. I keep praying for wonderful outcome soon. *hugs*

Mara - news on your refiling?

Miss you all! Have a great week everyone!

Good luck and God bless!!!

Praying for boof!!! News!

Charles - be nice! It's lenten season.

Long overdue but CONGRATS anyway!

We shall try to shut our mouths on that.

OMG Len!!! YOU are a certified makeup junkie!!!

I am currently on Clinique, Body Shop and ELizabeth Arden for skin care.

makeup:

Body Shop

Clinique

Elizabeth Arden

Estee Lauder

MAC

Smashbox

Don't really wear them all the time but by officemates love it when I give them a makeover. Oh the boredom at work.

I read that thread Dani... I tried my best not to cry yesterday...

Ooopps... Back to the topic. Let us not start a flame war.

Let's just help out the OP.

I beg to disagree Zen. Some people do want to have good and meaningful conversations even with people they hardly even know. I know that because I am that way. I do not have any reasons why I should be nervous about it and feel that it's wrong. I guess, the only thing that bothers the OP is because this other girl told her about her fiance talking to her recently and when she did talk to her fiance, he denied it.

My question, if i were the OP, would be:

What was the context of the conversation?

What are my proof that she is not lying and just trying to cause trouble between me and my fiance?

What kind of relationship did my fiance have with this woman that my radar went off?

I believe in a woman's gut feel. But what are the chances that my gut feel is right/wrong this time?

chatting with other people (opposite sex, and not relatives or friends known to your partner) means looking for options, meaning partner is not sure about you or himself...if you don't feel comfortable about this, it's best to talk about it with him as early as now...maybe he doesn't think you're unconfortamble so you have to let him know

I have a feeling that since you do talk everyday, her English skills are above average. That, however, does not mean her confidence level is good. A lot of the girls I interviewed with were pretty nervous. But keep in mind that that day - only one out of the 20 something got a white slip coz she was not prepared with all the necessary documents (she was messed up with her organization) and not all of the applicants have great english at all. That should be encouraging. Let her know that most of the COs are actually very nice. You have to carry yourself in a proper manner. It's ok to be nervous, but there's no reason for her to be scared.

Good luck! She will do just fine!

Sounds like the same thing to me. Looks like she is trying to push a wedge between you and your fiance. Well, tell this girl good luck. We'll see where she can bring this to.

OK, so she was a previous online friend of your fiance's, and now she searches for you on Facebook just so she can tell you that she is chatting with him and then she leaves it at that? Sounds to me like she is jealous and is trying to cause trouble between the two of you.

By the way, what brands of skincare/makeup do you people use?

Fortune Cookie Message for the day: End your workweek well. Be sure to wish VJ a wonderful weekend!

Love you all!

CONGRATS AGAIN TO Mae!

Oh well... that's so much better than what I thought!

OP: Keep your head up and bring your life back!

You are going to have the divorce whether she likes it or not. I certainly hope you keep all the records of her infidelity. She does have a job and I am not really well versed how Immigration will take that since she can support herself, she might opt to adjust status by herself. The catch - she needs to present evidence why she is adjusting independently and that involves her proving she is a victim of domestic violence and some others. I would have thought about you filing a medical report on her hitting you - that wouldn't look very good on her case.

She needs to get deported I agree... But it's as easy as it looks.

Good luck my friend and hopefully you get your life in great order ASAP. Good riddance to the wench.

Hmmm... Nag iisip pako. My fiance's always been the kind of guy who's full of surprises.

Craziest thing was probably the fact that he's given up everything just to be free to marry me. He was married when we met and I was in a relationship with my ex-fiance then.

The best surprise was when he sent me the soft copy of our chat transcripts since day 1. I had no idea he was saving all our conversations since we met at work and we had a professional relationship. Now it's probably at least 4000 pages.