Yes, it sounds like he is abusive. You will spend every day hoping things will change, that maybe this time he won't put you down, insult you, or whatever. Maybe this time he will be nice or respectful. Maybe this time you won't "screw up" so he will love you. Maybe you can be the perfect person he wants you to be so he will treat you right. You can go on for years hoping until you end up going to sleep every night crying because you are so miserable. Then you will realize that if this is what marriage is supposed to be like, that you would rather be alone for the rest of your life than be married. But believe me, this is NOT what marriage is supposed to be like.
I agree. I'm glad I'm not married to dane. Marriage should not be like "time" done in prison. LOL. I feel sorry for you dane. Hope your "time" goes quickly. Ha ha...
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