LotofPatience

Okay guys,
I have re-arranged the list and is going to the guide now.
Secondary Evidences of the bona-fide marriage
Though USCIS and Consulate are liberal to the petitioner's and beneficiary's marital relationship from certain countries, it is stricter to some other countries. So, if you feel you need more evidences, please use the samples below.
Some of them may not be applicable to you. Also, if you have any other evidence that is not listed, please feel free to add it.
USCIS defined secondary evidences
1) Documentation showing joint ownership or property
2) Lease showing joint tenancy of a common residence
3) Documentation showing co-mingling of financial resources
4) Birth certificate(s) of child(ren) born to the petitioner and the beneficiary
5) Affidavits sworn to or affirmed by third parties having personal knowledge of the bona fides of the marital relationship
6) Any other relevant documentation to establish that there is an ongoing marital union
Sample evidences
Asset purchase documentation such as home, car etc. under both names such as joint titles, joint names in car registration
Joint loans together in mortgage, auto etc.
Lease of the home, car etc. under both names
Joint bank account in petitioner's and/or beneficiary's country
Stocks, mutual funds, retirement funds documentation together
Credit, Debit, ATM card details under both names
Money transfer documentation that shows spousal support
Life Insurance Policy under both the petitioner and the beneficiary names
Will prepared by the petitioner and/or the beneficiary showing other as beneficiary
If marriage happened in prior year, income tax filing together
Joint church tax statements
Joint invoices - utility bills such as phone, electricity, water, gas, internet, cable TV etc.
New born child's birth certificate, passport etc.
New born child's hospital records that shows both parents names and expenses incurred together
Petitioner and beneficiary's child(ren)'s school records, school report cards etc.
Baptism certificate of child(ren) of the petitioner and the beneficiary
Notarized affidavits from parents, relatives etc. to show that they knew and participated in the marriage
Third party letters with date, name, relationship, contact phone#, address etc., those who attended the marriage mainly from parents, relatives, friends etc.
Personal notarized affidavits that describe how the relationship is evolved like first meeting, who arranged the meeting, how long you knew each other before marriage, how is the relationship until now etc.
All the dated trips of the petitioner and/or the beneficiary to meet each other - passport stamps, plane tickets, boarding passes etc.
Tickets, invoices, boarding passes of honeymoon trip(s) that shows both persons' name together with the date
Hotel receipts, Rental car receipts, Gift receipts or any other miscellaneous receipts of the expenses incurred between the petitioner and the beneficiary
Wedding ring and other wedding related gifts' receipts
Auto Insurance Policy under both the petitioner and the beneficiary names
Health Insurance Policy under both the petitioner and the beneficiary names
Dated pictures together - Before marriage, Wedding Album, pictures taken in every occasion
Marriage invitation card
Marriage documentation of the religious ceremony from church, mosque, temple etc.
Phone logs
Chat logs
Emails
Greeting cards such as Christmas cards, Anniversary cards, Birthday cards etc.
Joint memberships like Sams, Costco, AAA, fitness etc.
Driver's license, State ID that shows the same address
Invitation of any function or ceremony stating both names
Wedding program order of service/event
Junk mails received under both of you at the same address
Magazine subscriptions under both names
Pet adoption records with both names
Loto

Let me just do a small write up for IR1/CR1 folks to prove the bona-fide marriage relationship.
All are welcome to add their own points here. Some items listed here may not be applicable to everybody.
Primary Evidence of the bona-fide marriage
Original marriage certificate between the petitioner and the beneficiary issued from the official agency of the country
Secondary Evidences of the bona-fide marriage
1) Documentation showing joint ownership or property
2) Lease showing joint tenancy of a common residence
3) Documentation showing co-mingling of financial resources
4) Birth certificate(s) of child(ren) born to the petitioner and the beneficiary
5) Affidavits sworn to or affirmed by third parties having personal knowledge of the bona fides of the marital relationship
6) Any other relevant documentation to establish that there is an ongoing marital union
1) All the trips of the petitioner and/or the beneficiary to meet each other - like passport stamps
2) Auto Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
3) Health Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
4) Life Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
5) Will prepared by the petitioner and/or the beneficiary
6) If marriage happened in prior year, income tax filing together
7) Pictures together - Before marriage, Wedding Album, pictures taken in every occasion
8) Marriage documentation in the religious ceremony such as from church, mosque, temple etc.
9) Phone logs
10) Chat logs
11) Emails
12) Greeting cards, Marriage invitation cards etc.
13) Hotel receipts, Rental car receipts, Gift receipts or any other miscellaneous receipts of the expenses incurred between the petitioner and the beneficiary
14) Money transfer documentation that includes spousal support
Loto

Let me just do a small write up for IR1/CR1 folks to prove the bona-fide marriage relationship.
All are welcome to add their own points here. Some items listed here may not be applicable to everybody.
Primary Evidence of the bona-fide marriage
Original marriage certificate between the petitioner and the beneficiary issued from the official agency of the country
Secondary Evidences of the bona-fide marriage
1) Documentation showing joint ownership or property
2) Lease showing joint tenancy of a common residence
3) Documentation showing co-mingling of financial resources
4) Birth certificate(s) of child(ren) born to the petitioner and the beneficiary
5) Affidavits sworn to or affirmed by third parties having personal knowledge of the bona fides of the marital relationship
6) Any other relevant documentation to establish that there is an ongoing marital union
1) All the trips of the petitioner and/or the beneficiary to meet each other - like passport stamps
2) Auto Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
3) Health Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
4) Life Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
5) Will prepared by the petitioner and/or the beneficiary
6) If marriage happened in prior year, income tax filing together
7) Pictures together - Before marriage, Wedding Album, pictures taken in every occasion
8) Marriage documentation in the religious ceremony such as from church, mosque, temple etc.
9) Phone logs
10) Chat logs
11) Emails
12) Greeting cards, Marriage invitation cards etc.
13) Hotel receipts, Rental car receipts, Gift receipts or any other miscellaneous receipts of the expenses incurred between the petitioner and the beneficiary
14) Money transfer documentation that includes spousal support
Loto

Let me just do a small write up for IR1/CR1 folks to prove the bona-fide marriage relationship.
All are welcome to add their own points here. Some items listed here may not be applicable to everybody.
Primary Evidence of the bona-fide marriage
Original marriage certificate between the petitioner and the beneficiary issued from the official agency of the country
Secondary Evidences of the bona-fide marriage
1) Documentation showing joint ownership or property
2) Lease showing joint tenancy of a common residence
3) Documentation showing co-mingling of financial resources
4) Birth certificate(s) of child(ren) born to the petitioner and the beneficiary
5) Affidavits sworn to or affirmed by third parties having personal knowledge of the bona fides of the marital relationship
6) Any other relevant documentation to establish that there is an ongoing marital union
1) All the trips of the petitioner and/or the beneficiary to meet each other - like passport stamps
2) Auto Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
3) Health Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
4) Life Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
5) Will prepared by the petitioner and/or the beneficiary
6) If marriage happened in prior year, income tax filing together
7) Pictures together - Before marriage, Wedding Album, pictures taken in every occasion
8) Marriage documentation in the religious ceremony such as from church, mosque, temple etc.
9) Phone logs
10) Chat logs
11) Emails
12) Greeting cards, Marriage invitation cards etc.
13) Hotel receipts, Rental car receipts, Gift receipts or any other miscellaneous receipts of the expenses incurred between the petitioner and the beneficiary
14) Money transfer documentation that includes spousal support
Loto

There are 2 service centers named CSC and VSC. CSC employs 1010 I-130 adjudicators and VSC employs 505 I-130 adjudicators.
In the U.S, every year there are 750,000 I-130 petitioners say all are USC petitioners. They send their package to Chicago Lock box. TLA for it, let's say CLB. CLB checks the load of each SC and forwards it to them. Say 500,000 went to CSC and 250,000 went to VSC.
Always at a particular time, 10 employees in CSC and 5 employees of VSC are on vacation since they are humans. Now let's do a math again. Balance employees in CSC is 1000 and in VSC 500.
A Quiz - How many petitions each CSC and VSC employee gets for an equal distribution?
Ummmmm... Nobody answers. Let me calculate. CSC employee gets 500 and VSC employee gets 500.
Some of the employees in each SC are hardworking. What does that mean? They don't smoke, don't go to pantry so often and do not discuss about their dogs and cats at office. They process 5 petitions a day. Those hardly working employees process 4 petitions a day.
Now another quiz! How many working days in a month? Take out 4 Sat, 4 Sun and 1 or 2 holidays. Let's assume 20 working days.
During this process, some name checks are initiated. This is really not a spelling check. First name, Last name, DOB etc. are fed into another system and they get an output. Some names bleed, some not. Sometimes, some innocent names also bleed. Bleeding names will be hospitalized to get some more cure. Non-bleeding ones come back to the SC.
Ok! Now out of non-bleeding ones, some missed to include a previous divorce decree, some included a copy of marriage certificate which not clearly readable, so on an so forth. Now the employee is interested to see those originals. They issue another sweet TLA named RFE. Some petitioners will respond immediately to this RFE. Some may be on vacation or busy getting some of the documents from various sources.
Ok, final quiz! How many months it takes for a petition to be processed? Let's take a ball park.
Hard working employee gets 500 petitions and 20 working days in a month and process 5 per day. To process a petition on an average takes 5 months! Oh boy! This doesn't mean the first petition is processed on day 1. Since previous petitions are in his/her queue. Hence the term - recurring process!
Hardly working employee gets 500 petitions and 20 working days in a month and process 4 per day. To process a petition on an average takes more than 6 months! Oh geez!
Finally they take a cumulative average and put in this website: https://egov.uscis.gov/cris/processingTimesDisplay.do
Loto
Footenote: This work out is purely hypothetical for an illustrative purpose!

Let me just do a small write up for IR1/CR1 folks to prove the bona-fide marriage relationship.
All are welcome to add their own points here. Some items listed here may not be applicable to everybody.
Primary Evidence of the bona-fide marriage
Original marriage certificate between the petitioner and the beneficiary issued from the official agency of the country
Secondary Evidences of the bona-fide marriage
1) Documentation showing joint ownership or property
2) Lease showing joint tenancy of a common residence
3) Documentation showing co-mingling of financial resources
4) Birth certificate(s) of child(ren) born to the petitioner and the beneficiary
5) Affidavits sworn to or affirmed by third parties having personal knowledge of the bona fides of the marital relationship
6) Any other relevant documentation to establish that there is an ongoing marital union
1) All the trips of the petitioner and/or the beneficiary to meet each other - like passport stamps
2) Auto Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
3) Health Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
4) Life Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
5) Will prepared by the petitioner and/or the beneficiary
6) If marriage happened in prior year, income tax filing together
7) Pictures together - Before marriage, Wedding Album, pictures taken in every occasion
8) Marriage documentation in the religious ceremony such as from church, mosque, temple etc.
9) Phone logs
10) Chat logs
11) Emails
12) Greeting cards, Marriage invitation cards etc.
13) Hotel receipts, Rental car receipts, Gift receipts or any other miscellaneous receipts of the expenses incurred between the petitioner and the beneficiary
14) Money transfer documentation that includes spousal support
Loto

Let me just do a small write up for IR1/CR1 folks to prove the bona-fide marriage relationship.
All are welcome to add their own points here. Some items listed here may not be applicable to everybody.
Primary Evidence of the bona-fide marriage
Original marriage certificate between the petitioner and the beneficiary issued from the official agency of the country
Secondary Evidences of the bona-fide marriage
1) Documentation showing joint ownership or property
2) Lease showing joint tenancy of a common residence
3) Documentation showing co-mingling of financial resources
4) Birth certificate(s) of child(ren) born to the petitioner and the beneficiary
5) Affidavits sworn to or affirmed by third parties having personal knowledge of the bona fides of the marital relationship
6) Any other relevant documentation to establish that there is an ongoing marital union
1) All the trips of the petitioner and/or the beneficiary to meet each other - like passport stamps
2) Auto Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
3) Health Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
4) Life Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
5) Will prepared by the petitioner and/or the beneficiary
6) If marriage happened in prior year, income tax filing together
7) Pictures together - Before marriage, Wedding Album, pictures taken in every occasion
8) Marriage documentation in the religious ceremony such as from church, mosque, temple etc.
9) Phone logs
10) Chat logs
11) Emails
12) Greeting cards, Marriage invitation cards etc.
13) Hotel receipts, Rental car receipts, Gift receipts or any other miscellaneous receipts of the expenses incurred between the petitioner and the beneficiary
14) Money transfer documentation that includes spousal support
Loto

Let me just do a small write up for IR1/CR1 folks to prove the bona-fide marriage relationship.
All are welcome to add their own points here. Some items listed here may not be applicable to everybody.
Primary Evidence of the bona-fide marriage
Original marriage certificate between the petitioner and the beneficiary issued from the official agency of the country
Secondary Evidences of the bona-fide marriage
1) Documentation showing joint ownership or property
2) Lease showing joint tenancy of a common residence
3) Documentation showing co-mingling of financial resources
4) Birth certificate(s) of child(ren) born to the petitioner and the beneficiary
5) Affidavits sworn to or affirmed by third parties having personal knowledge of the bona fides of the marital relationship
6) Any other relevant documentation to establish that there is an ongoing marital union
1) All the trips of the petitioner and/or the beneficiary to meet each other - like passport stamps
2) Auto Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
3) Health Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
4) Life Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
5) Will prepared by the petitioner and/or the beneficiary
6) If marriage happened in prior year, income tax filing together
7) Pictures together - Before marriage, Wedding Album, pictures taken in every occasion
8) Marriage documentation in the religious ceremony such as from church, mosque, temple etc.
9) Phone logs
10) Chat logs
11) Emails
12) Greeting cards, Marriage invitation cards etc.
13) Hotel receipts, Rental car receipts, Gift receipts or any other miscellaneous receipts of the expenses incurred between the petitioner and the beneficiary
14) Money transfer documentation that includes spousal support
Loto

Let me just do a small write up for IR1/CR1 folks to prove the bona-fide marriage relationship.
All are welcome to add their own points here. Some items listed here may not be applicable to everybody.
Primary Evidence of the bona-fide marriage
Original marriage certificate between the petitioner and the beneficiary issued from the official agency of the country
Secondary Evidences of the bona-fide marriage
1) Documentation showing joint ownership or property
2) Lease showing joint tenancy of a common residence
3) Documentation showing co-mingling of financial resources
4) Birth certificate(s) of child(ren) born to the petitioner and the beneficiary
5) Affidavits sworn to or affirmed by third parties having personal knowledge of the bona fides of the marital relationship
6) Any other relevant documentation to establish that there is an ongoing marital union
1) All the trips of the petitioner and/or the beneficiary to meet each other - like passport stamps
2) Auto Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
3) Health Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
4) Life Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
5) Will prepared by the petitioner and/or the beneficiary
6) If marriage happened in prior year, income tax filing together
7) Pictures together - Before marriage, Wedding Album, pictures taken in every occasion
8) Marriage documentation in the religious ceremony such as from church, mosque, temple etc.
9) Phone logs
10) Chat logs
11) Emails
12) Greeting cards, Marriage invitation cards etc.
13) Hotel receipts, Rental car receipts, Gift receipts or any other miscellaneous receipts of the expenses incurred between the petitioner and the beneficiary
14) Money transfer documentation that includes spousal support
Loto

Let me just do a small write up for IR1/CR1 folks to prove the bona-fide marriage relationship.
All are welcome to add their own points here. Some items listed here may not be applicable to everybody.
Primary Evidence of the bona-fide marriage
Original marriage certificate between the petitioner and the beneficiary issued from the official agency of the country
Secondary Evidences of the bona-fide marriage
1) Documentation showing joint ownership or property
2) Lease showing joint tenancy of a common residence
3) Documentation showing co-mingling of financial resources
4) Birth certificate(s) of child(ren) born to the petitioner and the beneficiary
5) Affidavits sworn to or affirmed by third parties having personal knowledge of the bona fides of the marital relationship
6) Any other relevant documentation to establish that there is an ongoing marital union
1) All the trips of the petitioner and/or the beneficiary to meet each other - like passport stamps
2) Auto Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
3) Health Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
4) Life Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
5) Will prepared by the petitioner and/or the beneficiary
6) If marriage happened in prior year, income tax filing together
7) Pictures together - Before marriage, Wedding Album, pictures taken in every occasion
8) Marriage documentation in the religious ceremony such as from church, mosque, temple etc.
9) Phone logs
10) Chat logs
11) Emails
12) Greeting cards, Marriage invitation cards etc.
13) Hotel receipts, Rental car receipts, Gift receipts or any other miscellaneous receipts of the expenses incurred between the petitioner and the beneficiary
14) Money transfer documentation that includes spousal support
Loto

Let me just do a small write up for IR1/CR1 folks to prove the bona-fide marriage relationship.
All are welcome to add their own points here. Some items listed here may not be applicable to everybody.
Primary Evidence of the bona-fide marriage
Original marriage certificate between the petitioner and the beneficiary issued from the official agency of the country
Secondary Evidences of the bona-fide marriage
1) Documentation showing joint ownership or property
2) Lease showing joint tenancy of a common residence
3) Documentation showing co-mingling of financial resources
4) Birth certificate(s) of child(ren) born to the petitioner and the beneficiary
5) Affidavits sworn to or affirmed by third parties having personal knowledge of the bona fides of the marital relationship
6) Any other relevant documentation to establish that there is an ongoing marital union
1) All the trips of the petitioner and/or the beneficiary to meet each other - like passport stamps
2) Auto Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
3) Health Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
4) Life Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
5) Will prepared by the petitioner and/or the beneficiary
6) If marriage happened in prior year, income tax filing together
7) Pictures together - Before marriage, Wedding Album, pictures taken in every occasion
8) Marriage documentation in the religious ceremony such as from church, mosque, temple etc.
9) Phone logs
10) Chat logs
11) Emails
12) Greeting cards, Marriage invitation cards etc.
13) Hotel receipts, Rental car receipts, Gift receipts or any other miscellaneous receipts of the expenses incurred between the petitioner and the beneficiary
14) Money transfer documentation that includes spousal support
Loto

Let me just do a small write up for IR1/CR1 folks to prove the bona-fide marriage relationship.
All are welcome to add their own points here. Some items listed here may not be applicable to everybody.
Primary Evidence of the bona-fide marriage
Original marriage certificate between the petitioner and the beneficiary issued from the official agency of the country
Secondary Evidences of the bona-fide marriage
1) Documentation showing joint ownership or property
2) Lease showing joint tenancy of a common residence
3) Documentation showing co-mingling of financial resources
4) Birth certificate(s) of child(ren) born to the petitioner and the beneficiary
5) Affidavits sworn to or affirmed by third parties having personal knowledge of the bona fides of the marital relationship
6) Any other relevant documentation to establish that there is an ongoing marital union
1) All the trips of the petitioner and/or the beneficiary to meet each other - like passport stamps
2) Auto Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
3) Health Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
4) Life Insurance Policy under both the Petitioner and the Beneficiary names
5) Will prepared by the petitioner and/or the beneficiary
6) If marriage happened in prior year, income tax filing together
7) Pictures together - Before marriage, Wedding Album, pictures taken in every occasion
8) Marriage documentation in the religious ceremony such as from church, mosque, temple etc.
9) Phone logs
10) Chat logs
11) Emails
12) Greeting cards, Marriage invitation cards etc.
13) Hotel receipts, Rental car receipts, Gift receipts or any other miscellaneous receipts of the expenses incurred between the petitioner and the beneficiary
14) Money transfer documentation that includes spousal support
Loto

Fianceevisa,
Previous 221g will NOT be an issue. That's totally a different visa issue and that chapter is closed.
There are some red flags that you need to overcome, because it is a very rare situation for an Indian to go for a mixed marriage like this. Parents' disapproval is not an issue. Language is also not an issue since you can coomunicate in English with her. However, you need excessive evidence to show the "bonafide relationship" with your fiancee to overcome some red flags (Age difference and mixed race).
These excessive evidence must be in a progressive way how the relationship is evolved. Gather all documents from day 1 until the interview such as online meeting details, her visit (passport stamps), chat history, phone history, hotel receipts, vacation details, gift details, greeting cards in all occasions, mingling with her family if possible, just to name a few.
Start with K1 Finace visa by filing I-129F as Anh Map suggested. If there is any issue, get married and file I-130 for IR1/CR1 path.
Good luck!
Loto

Once NVC receives your package, they need to enter it into their system - 10 to 14 days
Then they need to review it, SIF and CC - 10 to 14 days
Interview scheduling depends on the workload of your Consulate.
I saw that yours in London Embassy - If yes, another 1 to 1.5 months time after NVC CC.
Loto

BTW, our upcoming shopping complex in India is getting over in the next month, friends
Pic is attached. Final touches are going on, Elevator installation is in progress...
Loto

MB, now USC process is bit faster (average 5 months for most ASC) compared to our time in the past. It took around 10 or 11 months for me in 2007.
Loto

I bet when svenkatc comes back to the U.S in the beginning of March, this thread will cross 500 pages (Indigo - default settings )
He'll be unable to catch up the pending pages since he'll be busy with lovely Divya He may be cursing me - What the heck? I am done here
Loto

well with NOA2 and networking since ther is lot of corruption w/ out it u hold a slim chance to get things done on time yet I took 21 business days for us.
Basically the district police sends written request to regional police. So, hubby offered to take the request to regional police thn the regional police took couple of days n again he offered regional police to deliver paperwork back to district police. After tht a day or two passes by again n long wait at police station throughout the day not a very good place to be get bitten by mosquitoes etc.
Then, police superintendent finally signs but now clerk who is suppose 2 mail to passport office takes time by delaying it futher by day or two.
Finally, it reaches passport office they take another week to open the damn mail n to process another 2 days.
Since thy don't give in person its another week to for them to courier n thn finally u receive it at home.
Pointers. Start this process couple of weeks b4 NOA2 arrives n its a must to have some sort of connection n its must bear extra expenses such as pen 4 them to sign, photocopies of your docs apparently the police sold all the plain paper that govt give thm, n lastly n most important of all have PATIENCE to tolerate ther ####### n mosquito bites n be prepared 2 c drama of ppl tht come at police station.
Getting PCC was 1 of worst part of this process. Thank God I wasn't ther bc I don't havt tht much patience.

SAVE database will be updated in 15 working days after POE. That's 3 calendar weeks. That's why I told you to hold 3 weeks after POE.
It is nothing but the POE information transmission to process the SSN.
Loto

Congrats Debby,,,,,
Congrats Kruz_patz, founder of , NVC FILERS-FOR OCTOBER - 2010, the greatest-hottest thread the world has ever know..

Good Tany
~~~~~Rant begins~~~~~
I expected at least 3 to 6 inches snow from yesterday night. But today is mostly sunny in my area. So, my plan to make a snow man is completely screwed up! So, what would I do during my this free slot? Only thing I can do is just to pray, please bring the weekend so fast! But, I heard some people who are still in NVC hate weekends! So, for them, I pray again to bring Monday so fast
~~~~~Rant ends~~~~~
Loto

Malvika, Since there is no wink after hot and chilli, I would presume it is regular paratha and some red sauce. Malvika, you're close to Jackson heights
Now, if you add wink over there, still NY is a good option I think somebody posted some bed or pillows in the previous page (It is wink!)
Loto

Now I got it, cutiezoe
Your employer applied EB based GC for you. These are the steps:
1) Employer will file a Labor certification for you with Dept. of Labor here first
2) Employer will file I-140 - employment based petition for you
3) Since you are outside the U.S, there is no Adjustment of Status. So, it will be routed through NVC to the Consulate for Consulate interview - EB based GC.
Since your PD is not current, now you are stuck in 3rd stage, but already completed first 2 stages.
Loto

Happiness is fulfilled when the entire family of this thread are re-united. So, I wish to see your family re-union as well
Thanks agynyame!
Loto