STEPHnRIA

I know there were stories like that and I still ask why there are mothers who abandon their children. But she won't be this emotional if this child is for "greencard purpose" only. I just want to answer the question that I don't think she married you for greencard. She loves you and reading from your post, I know you are a good man and you love her. So I hope she comes back to you so you will have the chance to save your marriage.
About the fertility, you don't go through intensive fetility test right away. I went through fertility procedures after a year of not getting pregnant. First, the doctor requested for transvaginal ultrasound, I have polycystic ovaries. But before recommending any procedures, the doctor also had to check the husband, which is sperm count. But anyway, there are different stages and not all fertility procedures mean the expensive one like "invitro". Your wife probably wanted to start with the fertility procedures right away because sometimes even if you have the money, the problem is the age of the woman. So its also important to know right away before its too late.
And another thing, I had a miscarriage before. I was supposed to have twins but the other twin died on the fourth week. I thought I was going crazy. I cried for a long time, I think for like 3 months. It was so hard, I can't even find the right words to explain it. It was a good thing my parents and my sisters were there. But that time, I hated and resented my ex husband because I felt like he didn't care. I know how your wife felt but what made it worse was her parents or her own family were not there. She relied on you but you were working long hours. She had the reasons to feel alone. So fighting and provoking you was her way to get your attention.

She wants to have a baby with the US Citizen husband. She is willing to go through fertility testing. She wants a family...and she is a suspect of fraud. Wow! Think again...