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16 hours ago, SinghSaab1 said:

I kind of did do this. 

Got a hotel resort thing set up. Everything was good. She got mad at me for not letting her mom and dad come to our room at 4 am. Why didnt I let it? Well lets just say being a grown man with a grown woman, I could figure out how to uber eats medicine or ask the front desk, let alone we had just finished being intimate. She threw a fit and I told her to lower her voice to where she called 911. Thankfully I recorded it all. She just told the police she had a panic attack and had not taken her meds. 

She doesnt drive or have much independence. I can def try again but I know how she is. She thinks her mother is God. I am not being cynical in this. She legit thinks her mom is God's gift to earth. Nothing against the lady but she wants me to continually just please her mom. If her mom sneezes, she expects me to call her mom and tell her to go to the doctor. While i am indeed a caring person and have extended my care to them, this is turmoil. I know what I described isnt normal nor acceptable. My hope is her family stops being in denial, help me out to get her help, and give this marriage a chance. 

Lying to immigration? Hell no. Will never happen on my watch. She is my wife and if she wishes to come to the USA there is only one way to legally come in obtaining a visa that leads to a green card. 

The last paragraph, that’s why. But I get now that you need to keep repeating this to yourself. Also, I would get pissy too, if my husband is not including me in his priorities as important as taking his mom to pilgrimage, and I am not medically diagnosed, oh wait, diagnosed by my family and spouse. Just like your beneficiary, baby-child, 4 pages I still need to read something good about that woman and I read plenty of good things about you.  But here is me giving unsolicited marital advise. Back to the main topic: CR1 needs to be filed by you, and as pushbrk stated earlier, given the timeline it processes, everything else, including the medical comes up later, way later. File the paperwork to be taken serious. I rest my case. 

I wouldn’t disclose your financial situation at this point since there is sponsorship support that is needed for later step, the nvc. USCIS had pretty transparent guidelines about what emergencies count. Maybe just to sit down and talk, basically we know that we want to be together and are aware of obstacles we need to overcome, and let’s get through this together, it is what it is? Something along those lines. 

51 minutes ago, Lovers123 said:

Because the only treatment is that I need to be with her (I'm the medicine for her).. in order for her to heal. If im not with her for a long time, who knows what will happen to her.

You need to be more supportive of each other. Do not shoot yourself in the foot down the road, with this becoming a permanent codition on her paperwork. If she magicaly heals, everytime you are around, make sure you book a trip any time medicine is needed. Otherwise, be more supportive of each other through this agony of waiting we all are going through believe or not. I do wish you a faster process then ours from bottom of my heart, but please do not sabotage yourselves with this nonsense. 

11 minutes ago, Nurettin said:

I'm sorry for the confusion. We're getting married next month so I'm asking ahead. From what I have gathered, a spousal visa is the way to go.

Congratulations! Yes it is. When you research Syria spousal visa timelines, there are quite a few members interviewing in either Istanbul or Ankara, I am sure they can chime in. I was trying to include link, alas, no success. 

If he is your fiance then you cannot go for CR1 visa. Your process would go under K1-visa. If your have an option to go for spousal visa, go that route since the waiting time is the same, plus you have additional prolonged wait once you do arrive in the US to adjust status and recieve paperwork. That is the first thing you need to clear, and then dig through threads, I am sure there were and are plenty of people with a similar situation. 

I never suggested for you to lie to immigration, or neither has anyone one of us. Let’s get straight. Canada is not over seas, you have no kids or other arrangements keeping you from not coming more often, because if you were able to get married and enter while covid measure were in full force in Canada, what’s stoping you now? Don’t give them, or her, even grounds to contemplate the visitors visa since you’ll be there often enough, so no need for added layer of suspicion and mistrust, especially at this stage of your marriage and the fact that you haven’t even filed the cr1 petition.And you do not need to discuss your itinerary or your daily and weekly agenda with your inlaws once over there, you are a married couple, no need for chaperoning, and do not stay in the hotel down the street. You are two adults, married adults. Make your own decisions, do not involve the whole village, both of you. And if that doesn’t work, as Boiler previously stated you need a different type of legal help, something not offered here. 

Is there a way for you to spend time with her without close presence of her family members? A significant time together, even if it is in intervals? Just to book some spot in Canada and go? So you find out on your own, without their input? 

You have to schedule the interview on your own with the embassy. Read the thread that Crazy cat posted. It give you all the details and steps necessary. 

The Boss of Plains

Also, how did she obtain a b2 visa if the home country authorities are seizing passports? 

You also mentioned in your original post that her parents are old and ill and nobody from the family is really there for them, and that was a primary reason for you applying for the US job location in the first place, do I have this correct. So you need to come and take care of that too, because those are your wife wishes. Did you also try to explain that to the local embassy, her parents situation so they push the DCP, because that was the reason for the US job? And the home country situation? 

It’s probably one of the Balkan countries, but why just not come clean, dude? People here are really willing to help. 

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Hopefully yours takes even sooner.

Disregard that. It takes between 11 - 13 months. Check the timelines. Ours took 11 months. 

10 minutes ago, Rocio0010 said:

Why worry about something that hasn't happened yet?

And if it did, you have no control over it.

True that. Thank you. Let’s hope for the best. 

9 hours ago, Gigizaza said:

Oh god 😨 when is the shutdown 😣😢

Shutdown, as is policy makers failing to enact legislation to fund federal goverment by the end of the fiscal year ( Sept. 30th), as in : birocracy’s perpetual quarel over who gets the money. Not dramatic as it may sound in other parts of the world, but some gov. services get suspended. Mainly concerned about NVC and embassies, since they are DoS, meaning all non essential services, local workers will be furloughed, laid off, meaning longer queue for interviews. But’ will see, it is what it is. 

18 minutes ago, JeanneAdil said:

but immigration will use it for an excuse

 

longest shutdown was 21 days under Clinton 1995/96

 

• U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) is a fee-generating agency; accordingly, it does not rely primarily on government funding. During past shutdowns, USCIS offices generally continued to operate; however, slowdowns and processing delays can be expected due to reduced staff, particularly in instances when USCIS adjudicators rely on other government functions to render decisions.

Thank you, that is what I thought. 

Congratulations! Onwards to NVC, and further! 

Good evening, morning, afternoon, night, fellows

What impact will the potential Gov. shutdown have impact on us, particularly NVC, embassies? I am of understanding that USCIS will not due to it being funded by fees mostly? 
Thanks, and sorry if I am in the wrong tread

Maybe it will help to see things from different perspective, seeing the bigger picture. May he be the best thing that happened to your family, since he already is a family and has access to your most treasured :  your daughter and your grandchild. 

2 minutes ago, Sudowpa2 said:

I was able to get the document. 

 

The reason mbassy recieved it 6 days ago, but still under refused. 

 

Just waiting for them to issue thr visa.

 

I wish there was a database to show 221g tracking. How long someone had to wait just for a simple document missing 

Best of luck and hopefully soon, sooner then you think and hope

Can someone just “ shade” the seal on the county clerk copy and email i to you? It works in administration processing abroad when wet seal required. 

You will know in two weeks If what you have upploaded as additional evidence is sufficient, since it will be reviewed in due time( please check the nvc case review times and count from there) In the meantime try to find a joint sponsor. Also, divorce decree should be county clerks office copy. Mine , the e-filed JOD ( everything was settled out of court, before covid) was not sufficient. 

You can also compare timelines of members who are interviewing in the embassy, since that will be the longest wait.