Scalpel

Williams33,
I'm livid that you closed this thread because you figured "This topic/issue requires the assistance of an immigration attorney." What a convenient excuse! First of all, I see too many threads on many forums on this website where the topic of discussion clearly require the assistance of an immigration attorney. Why aren't those getting closed too? Might there be a double standard? Hmm...I wonder. I challenge you to find me a clause in the TOS that states that topics that require expert help must not be discussed.
But I suspect the real reasons why you closed that thread are:
1. Just to make yourself feel "important" and "powerful"
2. You probably don't have an immigration problem and you have zero empathy for those who do!
3. Because you can't stand your "authority" being challenged as it was by w8inglongtime.
I hope those who crowned you king realize just how power-drunk you are. And what better way to show more of your "authority" than by promptly closing this thread as well. And then terminate my account and ban my IP for good measure.

Williams33,
I'm livid that you closed this thread because you figured "This topic/issue requires the assistance of an immigration attorney." What a convenient excuse! First of all, I see too many threads on many forums on this website where the topic of discussion clearly require the assistance of an immigration attorney. Why aren't those getting closed too? Might there be a double standard? Hmm...I wonder. I challenge you to find me a clause in the TOS that states that topics that require expert help must not be discussed.
But I suspect the real reasons why you closed that thread are:
1. Just to make yourself feel "important" and "powerful"
2. You probably don't have an immigration problem and you have zero empathy for those who do!
3. Because you can't stand your "authority" being challenged as it was by w8inglongtime.
I hope those who crowned you king realize just how power-drunk you are. And what better way to show more of your "authority" than by promptly closing this thread as well. And then terminate my account and ban my IP for good measure.

Williams33,
I'm livid that you closed this thread because you figured "This topic/issue requires the assistance of an immigration attorney." What a convenient excuse! First of all, I see too many threads on many forums on this website where the topic of discussion clearly require the assistance of an immigration attorney. Why aren't those getting closed too? Might there be a double standard? Hmm...I wonder. I challenge you to find me a clause in the TOS that states that topics that require expert help must not be discussed.
But I suspect the real reasons why you closed that thread are:
1. Just to make yourself feel "important" and "powerful"
2. You probably don't have an immigration problem and you have zero empathy for those who do!
3. Because you can't stand your "authority" being challenged as it was by w8inglongtime.
I hope those who crowned you king realize just how power-drunk you are. And what better way to show more of your "authority" than by promptly closing this thread as well. And then terminate my account and ban my IP for good measure.

I beg to differ. What you termed "messy" contained many valuable advice and potential solutions to our problem that many good people on this website have offered freely and openly. Granted there may be one or two off-topic digressions but I was able to sort the fluff from the meat. If you are in a situation that threatens to tear your family apart or end a career you've spent more than 12 years building, like we're in, I bet you won't describe these potential solutions as "messy". But hey, one man's trash is another man's treasure.
I won't bother to start a new thread. There is no new information to add. It won't be a productive use of my time. And who says it won't turn "messy" too. It will also be asking too much from those who have already read between the lines, cleverly sized up the situation correctly and made valuable contributions. Besides, starting yet a new thread (on a topic that's already beaten to death) might further annoy the gods, mods and kings who obviously are pissed with me already.
I beg to differ. What you termed "messy" contained many valuable advice and potential solutions to our problem that many good people on this website have offered freely and openly. Granted there may be one or two off-topic digressions but I was able to sort the fluff from the meat. If you are in a situation that threatens to tear your family apart or end a career you've spent more than 12 years building, like we're in, I bet you won't describe these potential solutions as "messy". But hey, one man's trash is another man's treasure.
I won't bother to start a new thread. There is no new information to add. It won't be a productive use of my time. And who says it won't turn "messy" too. It will also be asking too much from those who have already read between the lines, cleverly sized up the situation correctly and made valuable contributions. Besides, starting yet a new thread (on a topic that's already beaten to death) might further annoy the gods, mods and kings who obviously are pissed with me already.

I beg to differ. What you termed "messy" contained many valuable advice and potential solutions to our problem that many good people on this website have offered freely and openly. Granted there may be one or two off-topic digressions but I was able to sort the fluff from the meat. If you are in a situation that threatens to tear your family apart or end a career you've spent more than 12 years building, like we're in, I bet you won't describe these potential solutions as "messy". But hey, one man's trash is another man's treasure.
I won't bother to start a new thread. There is no new information to add. It won't be a productive use of my time. And who says it won't turn "messy" too. It will also be asking too much from those who have already read between the lines, cleverly sized up the situation correctly and made valuable contributions. Besides, starting yet a new thread (on a topic that's already beaten to death) might further annoy the gods, mods and kings who obviously are pissed with me already.
I beg to differ. What you termed "messy" contained many valuable advice and potential solutions to our problem that many good people on this website have offered freely and openly. Granted there may be one or two off-topic digressions but I was able to sort the fluff from the meat. If you are in a situation that threatens to tear your family apart or end a career you've spent more than 12 years building, like we're in, I bet you won't describe these potential solutions as "messy". But hey, one man's trash is another man's treasure.
I won't bother to start a new thread. There is no new information to add. It won't be a productive use of my time. And who says it won't turn "messy" too. It will also be asking too much from those who have already read between the lines, cleverly sized up the situation correctly and made valuable contributions. Besides, starting yet a new thread (on a topic that's already beaten to death) might further annoy the gods, mods and kings who obviously are pissed with me already.

Wow. This in part explains why I'm trying to gather as much information as possible before we eventually go to a lawyer. Lawyers have screw many people up. I've heard of lawyers missing deadlines, messing up their clients' names, giving outdated information, not coaching for immigration interviews etc. Don't get me wrong, complex immigration issues require competent legal representation and lawyers play a valuable role in this process. However, I will only go to a lawyer that is highly recommended...and even then I will still do my own research and not just hand my case over to the lawyer and go home, sit back, relax and hope the lawyer will handle everything perfectly.

True, very true. I have filed an official complaint with the owners of the website. I'm hoping they will reopen the thread and crack down on this kind of moderator-abuse. If there is too much censure on this website then I will join immigrate2us. In fact, I will join today.

Williams33,
I'm livid that you closed this thread because you figured "This topic/issue requires the assistance of an immigration attorney." What a convenient excuse! First of all, I see too many threads on many forums on this website where the topic of discussion clearly require the assistance of an immigration attorney. Why aren't those getting closed too? Might there be a double standard? Hmm...I wonder. I challenge you to find me a clause in the TOS that states that topics that require expert help must not be discussed.
But I suspect the real reasons why you closed that thread are:
1. Just to make yourself feel "important" and "powerful"
2. You probably don't have an immigration problem and you have zero empathy for those who do!
3. Because you can't stand your "authority" being challenged as it was by w8inglongtime.
I hope those who crowned you king realize just how power-drunk you are. And what better way to show more of your "authority" than by promptly closing this thread as well. And then terminate my account and ban my IP for good measure.

Williams33,
I'm livid that you closed this thread because you figured "This topic/issue requires the assistance of an immigration attorney." What a convenient excuse! First of all, I see too many threads on many forums on this website where the topic of discussion clearly require the assistance of an immigration attorney. Why aren't those getting closed too? Might there be a double standard? Hmm...I wonder. I challenge you to find me a clause in the TOS that states that topics that require expert help must not be discussed.
But I suspect the real reasons why you closed that thread are:
1. Just to make yourself feel "important" and "powerful"
2. You probably don't have an immigration problem and you have zero empathy for those who do!
3. Because you can't stand your "authority" being challenged as it was by w8inglongtime.
I hope those who crowned you king realize just how power-drunk you are. And what better way to show more of your "authority" than by promptly closing this thread as well. And then terminate my account and ban my IP for good measure.

Williams33,
I'm livid that you closed this thread because you figured "This topic/issue requires the assistance of an immigration attorney." What a convenient excuse! First of all, I see too many threads on many forums on this website where the topic of discussion clearly require the assistance of an immigration attorney. Why aren't those getting closed too? Might there be a double standard? Hmm...I wonder. I challenge you to find me a clause in the TOS that states that topics that require expert help must not be discussed.
But I suspect the real reasons why you closed that thread are:
1. Just to make yourself feel "important" and "powerful"
2. You probably don't have an immigration problem and you have zero empathy for those who do!
3. Because you can't stand your "authority" being challenged as it was by w8inglongtime.
I hope those who crowned you king realize just how power-drunk you are. And what better way to show more of your "authority" than by promptly closing this thread as well. And then terminate my account and ban my IP for good measure.

Williams33,
I'm livid that you closed this thread because you figured "This topic/issue requires the assistance of an immigration attorney." What a convenient excuse! First of all, I see too many threads on many forums on this website where the topic of discussion clearly require the assistance of an immigration attorney. Why aren't those getting closed too? Might there be a double standard? Hmm...I wonder. I challenge you to find me a clause in the TOS that states that topics that require expert help must not be discussed.
But I suspect the real reasons why you closed that thread are:
1. Just to make yourself feel "important" and "powerful"
2. You probably don't have an immigration problem and you have zero empathy for those who do!
3. Because you can't stand your "authority" being challenged as it was by w8inglongtime.
I hope those who crowned you king realize just how power-drunk you are. And what better way to show more of your "authority" than by promptly closing this thread as well. And then terminate my account and ban my IP for good measure.

I beg to differ. What you termed "messy" contained many valuable advice and potential solutions to our problem that many good people on this website have offered freely and openly. Granted there may be one or two off-topic digressions but I was able to sort the fluff from the meat. If you are in a situation that threatens to tear your family apart or end a career you've spent more than 12 years building, like we're in, I bet you won't describe these potential solutions as "messy". But hey, one man's trash is another man's treasure.
I won't bother to start a new thread. There is no new information to add. It won't be a productive use of my time. And who says it won't turn "messy" too. It will also be asking too much from those who have already read between the lines, cleverly sized up the situation correctly and made valuable contributions. Besides, starting yet a new thread (on a topic that's already beaten to death) might further annoy the gods, mods and kings who obviously are pissed with me already.
I beg to differ. What you termed "messy" contained many valuable advice and potential solutions to our problem that many good people on this website have offered freely and openly. Granted there may be one or two off-topic digressions but I was able to sort the fluff from the meat. If you are in a situation that threatens to tear your family apart or end a career you've spent more than 12 years building, like we're in, I bet you won't describe these potential solutions as "messy". But hey, one man's trash is another man's treasure.
I won't bother to start a new thread. There is no new information to add. It won't be a productive use of my time. And who says it won't turn "messy" too. It will also be asking too much from those who have already read between the lines, cleverly sized up the situation correctly and made valuable contributions. Besides, starting yet a new thread (on a topic that's already beaten to death) might further annoy the gods, mods and kings who obviously are pissed with me already.

Williams33,
I'm livid that you closed this thread because you figured "This topic/issue requires the assistance of an immigration attorney." What a convenient excuse! First of all, I see too many threads on many forums on this website where the topic of discussion clearly require the assistance of an immigration attorney. Why aren't those getting closed too? Might there be a double standard? Hmm...I wonder. I challenge you to find me a clause in the TOS that states that topics that require expert help must not be discussed.
But I suspect the real reasons why you closed that thread are:
1. Just to make yourself feel "important" and "powerful"
2. You probably don't have an immigration problem and you have zero empathy for those who do!
3. Because you can't stand your "authority" being challenged as it was by w8inglongtime.
I hope those who crowned you king realize just how power-drunk you are. And what better way to show more of your "authority" than by promptly closing this thread as well. And then terminate my account and ban my IP for good measure.

Williams33,
I'm livid that you closed this thread because you figured "This topic/issue requires the assistance of an immigration attorney." What a convenient excuse! First of all, I see too many threads on many forums on this website where the topic of discussion clearly require the assistance of an immigration attorney. Why aren't those getting closed too? Might there be a double standard? Hmm...I wonder. I challenge you to find me a clause in the TOS that states that topics that require expert help must not be discussed.
But I suspect the real reasons why you closed that thread are:
1. Just to make yourself feel "important" and "powerful"
2. You probably don't have an immigration problem and you have zero empathy for those who do!
3. Because you can't stand your "authority" being challenged as it was by w8inglongtime.
I hope those who crowned you king realize just how power-drunk you are. And what better way to show more of your "authority" than by promptly closing this thread as well. And then terminate my account and ban my IP for good measure.

I don't think so. On the contrary; if her ROC petition gets declined, which is unlikely to begin with, her new husband can file a new petition for her. She's here to stay.