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Nah, I scanned it and send to our lawyer thru email. . and its all fine.

God bless us.

what did you scan ? the G325a or the Divorce Decree ?

Just to let everyone know that I am over her, there is no point mourning over this loss, she is not worth the pain and grief, so I woke up today feeling very happy to know that I was spared with the problems.

thanks everyone

That's what I wanted to hear from you! Treat yourself to a cold beer and a giant juicy burger.... Take your time in getting back into the swing of things.... You will come out of all this as the winner. Good Luck to you Jason!

Thanks !

Just to let everyone know that I am over her, there is no point mourning over this loss, she is not worth the pain and grief, so I woke up today feeling very happy to know that I was spared with the problems.

thanks everyone

Thanks everyone you guys are the Greatest !!!

Sorry to hear about this. I think the reasons are somewhat hilarious and very shallow.

But, let's see what's the time can do for both of you. Who knows,after couple of days or weeks or months she will realize that despite of her physical judgment to you she will find herself that she still loves you. If she misses you, that means somehow you have touched her heart that she even herself hasn't aware of that because of she was occupied of thinking you're fat.

Tell her that you are willing to lose some weight.

Give it some shots for your relationship. Good luck.

My finacee and I got into a agruement.

When I told her to lay it all on the table she was honest enough to tell it all but in a bizarre way.

She came up with a list:

1. I turn her off with my looks.

2. She said that I am overweight.

3. She has forced herself to love me the entire time.

4. She really wants to help her family thats why she looked for an American

5. She can no longer take the fact that she was lying to me

6. She said im too fat for her.

So I ended it just a few minutes ago.............................

OUCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Weight loss is easy.

Stupidity is Forever.

You can change.

She can't.

You don't need to change.

She does.

There's only one loser in this scenario, and it isn't you.

Point well taken

thnx

Sorry to hear about this. I think the reasons are somewhat hilarious and very shallow.

But, let's see what's the time can do for both of you. Who knows,after couple of days or weeks or months she will realize that despite of her physical judgment to you she will find herself that she still loves you. If she misses you, that means somehow you have touched her heart that she even herself hasn't aware of that because of she was occupied of thinking you're fat.

Tell her that you are willing to lose some weight.

Give it some shots for your relationship. Good luck.

My finacee and I got into a agruement.

When I told her to lay it all on the table she was honest enough to tell it all but in a bizarre way.

She came up with a list:

1. I turn her off with my looks.

2. She said that I am overweight.

3. She has forced herself to love me the entire time.

4. She really wants to help her family thats why she looked for an American

5. She can no longer take the fact that she was lying to me

6. She said im too fat for her.

So I ended it just a few minutes ago.............................

OUCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sounds like a good idea but she is also using me for a meal ticket to help out her family.

Well its been a couple of days and Im just taking it one day at a time.

I just tell myself why should I care ? she is there in the Philippines right now probably enjoying herself so why should I suffer.

thanks again everyone

God Bless.

The best thing to do is to move on and let God bring justice to your life. She doesn't deserve a good guy like you.

Remember, there's always a rainbow after rainy days. Cheer up!

Thanks !!!

and Thanks again everyone !!!

I love you all !!!

im not going to deny it but im hurt but i know i should go on.............

I keep on thinking how i thought that she was the one. The fun times in Cebu and happiness was all part of a plan she had.

So sad.

is this normal for me not to fell sad right now but only to feel ANGER ?

Thanks for the care and support everyone.................... Im sad but also happy at the same time, I can see that what she was better now then finding out later. You guys are great !! my online family.

thanks so much

This is what i look like..........

Well, I'm not advocating the following, but I can tell you that if it were me (and I AM fat), that I'd be getting rip-roaring drunk right now and then going' out in the yard/field/vacant lot and kicking the sh!t out of something.

But maybe that's just me.....

I thought about doing that but the last thing i need is to get arrested on a Sunday.

Jason, I PM'd you.... Keep your head up Bro!

thanks bro and thanks everyone for everything !!!

I am sorry to hear that.. It really hurts to hear such words especially if you love somebody so true. Hmmm.. she might just be stressed? Or you think she didn't really love you? Hope you could still patch things up.. I do not know how your love story started but just in case, think that some things are not meant to be.. There are certain things that could break us into pieces but will eventually turn us into a better person..

Keep the faith..

I dont think this number she pulled on my can be patched up. Those are damaging words and Its forever with me, what she just did scarred me for life.

Ok.. I do understand.. I agree with what you said, it is better that you have known the truth now than find it out later.. Perhaps, there is somebody out there for you. Somebody who will love you with no conditions. Who will love you for who you are not for what you are nor what you can be. I remember this quote and if it would help you then please bear it in your mind..

"Sometimes we would meet few "WRONG PEOPLE" for us to appreciate "THE RIGHT ONE" when that time comes.

Believe me, when you meet the woman who is destined to be your life time partner, you would realize her value more because of this incident.

Good Luck...

thanks !!!

I dont know where to go from here, what to do, its as if like i am going to be going nuts, going to lose my mind. What do i do ?

I am sorry to hear that.. It really hurts to hear such words especially if you love somebody so true. Hmmm.. she might just be stressed? Or you think she didn't really love you? Hope you could still patch things up.. I do not know how your love story started but just in case, think that some things are not meant to be.. There are certain things that could break us into pieces but will eventually turn us into a better person..

Keep the faith..

I dont think this number she pulled on my can be patched up. Those are damaging words and Its forever with me, what she just did scarred me for life.

My finacee and I got into a agruement.

When I told her to lay it all on the table she was honest enough to tell it all but in a bizarre way.

She came up with a list:

1. I turn her off with my looks.

2. She said that I am overweight.

3. She has forced herself to love me the entire time.

4. She really wants to help her family thats why she looked for an American

5. She can no longer take the fact that she was lying to me

6. She said im too fat for her.

So I ended it just a few minutes ago.............................

OUCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am sorry to hear that but that's not LOVE because LOVE is unconditional..Hope you will find your true happiness someday

thanks

but its better i find out now then later so i look at it as a blessing in disguise

My finacee and I got into a agruement.

When I told her to lay it all on the table she was honest enough to tell it all but in a bizarre way.

She came up with a list:

1. I turn her off with my looks.

2. She said that I am overweight.

3. She has forced herself to love me the entire time.

4. She really wants to help her family thats why she looked for an American

5. She can no longer take the fact that she was lying to me

6. She said im too fat for her.

So I ended it just a few minutes ago.............................

OUCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

what does this mean ?

I keep hearing this on the the filipino channel and not sure what it means exactly

someone please translate ?

TULDUKAN ?

It's all about letting each other have their own space and their own identity... Plan a time of the day or night where it is your time(meaning both)... Make that time your special time... Right now you both are apart, but you can still have that special time for each other.. When you two are living together here, set aside a few hours a night just for the two of you..... Don't ever let it get to the point of smothering her... It will drive her away from you... Relax and let her be herself... Good Luck to you!!!

thanks I will do that exactly

Okay so I tried the once or twice a week approach on Yahoo and whenever I log on it I see her online and I just cant help but BUZZ her, another thing is that for some reason I get Jealous when she is chatting with her friends instead of me.......................... What is happening to me, why am i like this.

ooppsss...to be honest, thats a thumbs down never ever be too needy..maybe u need to take a break, you know...find some other things that gives in to ur interests.. sports, going to the gym, hang out with some of ur friends.. i know how you feel cus iv experiences the same thing..but when i was starting to feel this "y he is spending more time with his friends than me?" feeling, i stopped, breathed in and out and told my self..."dont be needy" if you want to talk to her while shes talking to her friends online, tell her that you'll wait til she finish so both of u can talk alone

some tips: give your partner enough space to live her/his own personal life.

yeah I know what you are saying and i value your advice. This girl is just turning me into a nut, im so in love with her that my life turns upside down everytime I think of her.

I totally understand the feeling, but I think there's a different between loving someone and 'wanting' someone. Like the wise saying, "if you love someone, set them free." If you let it consume you, it will in the end ruin the relationship. The long distance can really play a number on you, but like the other person said, you've got to have a life outside of the relationship, especially because of the distance...or you'll go nuts. Perhaps talk to a counselor?

No need to talk to a counselor, you guys already have good counseling

Okay so I tried the once or twice a week approach on Yahoo and whenever I log on it I see her online and I just cant help but BUZZ her, another thing is that for some reason I get Jealous when she is chatting with her friends instead of me.......................... What is happening to me, why am i like this.

ooppsss...to be honest, thats a thumbs down never ever be too needy..maybe u need to take a break, you know...find some other things that gives in to ur interests.. sports, going to the gym, hang out with some of ur friends.. i know how you feel cus iv experiences the same thing..but when i was starting to feel this "y he is spending more time with his friends than me?" feeling, i stopped, breathed in and out and told my self..."dont be needy" if you want to talk to her while shes talking to her friends online, tell her that you'll wait til she finish so both of u can talk alone

some tips: give your partner enough space to live her/his own personal life.

yeah I know what you are saying and i value your advice. This girl is just turning me into a nut, im so in love with her that my life turns upside down everytime I think of her.

Okay so I tried the once or twice a week approach on Yahoo and whenever I log on it I see her online and I just cant help but BUZZ her, another thing is that for some reason I get Jealous when she is chatting with her friends instead of me.......................... What is happening to me, why am i like this.

Is it just me or have all of you gone thru this phase.............

In the beginning of my relationship I would chat with my Finacee for hours on YAHOO and as of lately I have been running out of things to say and in fact I think i am boring her.

I am starting to miss the OLD SCHOOL way of no TEXT MESSAGING or YAHOO IM, just phone calls once a week and letters that way when we do chat there is alot to talk about.

so tell me all............ Is it just me or have any of you gone thru this phase ?

that's normal. me and my fiance have been in a relationship for 3 years and 7 mos now and we talk everyday [normally 5x a day (1-2 hours per conversation)]. we normally run out of topic so sometimes it's total silence or we just keep repeating 'i love u' to each other because we have nothing else to talk about. there are instances also when we have we have been talking for hours already then i started asking him stupid questions to make him mad just so we'll have something to talk about but now i stopped doing that because i realized that it's useless to argue over petty stuffs. we are already used to this set up that if we don't talk for a day we tend to miss each other so much. it sounds chessy but it's true. just try to find ways to keep the fire burning even if you are far away from each other.

Good advice...........i'll take that thought.

Anyone one else with more suggestions.

Is it just me or have all of you gone thru this phase.............

In the beginning of my relationship I would chat with my Finacee for hours on YAHOO and as of lately I have been running out of things to say and in fact I think i am boring her.

I am starting to miss the OLD SCHOOL way of no TEXT MESSAGING or YAHOO IM, just phone calls once a week and letters that way when we do chat there is alot to talk about.

so tell me all............ Is it just me or have any of you gone thru this phase ?