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    Questions about divorse / Please help

    in K-3 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures

    Posted

    Mrs. Scott thank you for the reply. Here are the facts.

    There was never any abuse outside of a few arguments, which are arguments not abuse. One week upon her entering into the US I had to move back to the west coast (at the time she met me on the east coast) we were to meet at the airport to fly back and she never showed up. I could not stay so I had to go. I spoke to her the following day and she stated that the east coast reminded her of her country so she wanted to stay a bit longer before meeting me on the west coast. I said ok. During her time on the East coast she befriended a family from the EU. At some pont she decided she did not want to be married to me and stared getting advice from them as to how she could go about this. They informed her if she showed abuse on my part she could stay and not be deported back by ICE. I learned this through several conversations with her. She then told me if I wanted to ever see her I would first have to get her her green card. I said I did not marry out of her citizenship but out of love and I would not do that. I then decided that the marriage would not work, based again off the conversation, and filed for divorse. She aoided the paperwork 4 times and upon the fith time, which she again sidestepped she filed a restraining order against me for harrasment as I am told. (note the first four ties were done through mail and the fith through a person I knew that tried to serve her.) I have not spoken to her since Feb of this year. The family she is living with has informed another person that her sponsporship has been transftered to them and is no longer with me. I have contacted Homeland Security and have given them her information. They said they are currently investigating the situation. It has been over 3 months now. I just want this all over. I want a divorse that all so that I can continue my life.

    Those are the facts.

    Regards.

    P.S she has been in the US since Feb on a K-3. I have not filed her green card paperwork, however I am under the suspicion that it has been done without my knowing for she has all the papework with my info on it. Social Security numbers etc. etc.

    Hello all, I come with bad news. My wife has found the green card more important than the marriage itself and I am now faced with getting a divorse. If anyone can help me with the following questions it would be greatly appreciated.

    Please note my wife is now in the U.S and has not ived with me since her arrival.

    1. I married my wife in her country (E. Europe) I am not sure how or where to file the divorse papers. Looking at the papers they state to file in the same county as the marriage however the marriage was never in the U.S

    2. I have neve registered the marriage in the U.S what type of record do they have of the marriage?

    3. My wife is stating that I am not her sponsor, however I was upon her coming to the U.S (she is here on a K-3) I was under the assumption that sponsorship was non-transferable?? (I have never signed any papers authorizing anything of the sort)

    4. My wife is trying to also prove neglect on my part so that she can stay in the country. She has already filed and been granted a restraining order against me for a year??? Is it that easy to do? I have never done anything against her in any way and this again, is nothing more than an abvious attempt to dis-credit me as a person to show neglect so she can stay in the U.S

    5. Any solid advice would be appreciated. I am not financially in the position to hire an immigration attorney so I thank you all for anything you can provide me with regarding information partaining to my situation.

    Respectfully,

    Bucur

    Bucur,

    I think your wife is playing mind games. If she is here on a K-3, then YES, you are her sponsor. Why did you two not live together? How could she file a restraining order against you? Did you threaten her? I'm sure that a VJ member can give you answers, but you must disclose all details. This just isn't adding up.

    One thing that is for sure is that the K-3 visa will expire thirty days after your divorce is final. The only exception is if your wife can prove that she has been neglected. Please read the information below-

    The USCIS only admits K-3 spouses for a two-year period. The USCIS may grant extensions of K-3 visas in two-year increments if the marriage-based I-130 visa petition, the adjustment of status application, or the immigrant visa petition is still awaiting adjudication.

    A K-3 visa holder's authorized stay will expire thirty days after any of the following events:

    a. The USCIS denies the I-130 visa petition filed by the United States citizen petitioner on the K-3 visa holder's behalf;

    b. The USCIS denies an adjustment of status application filed by the K visa holder; or

    c. If for some reason, the K-3 visa holder decides to apply for an immigrant visa at the appropriate United States consulate abroad, the consulate denies the immigrant visa application.

    d. Termination also will automatically occur 30 days after the divorce of the K-3 spouse from the United States citizen petitioner.

    SEE ITEM D.

    I hope that this information helps!

    Questions about divorse / Please help

    in K-3 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures

    Posted

    Hello all, I come with bad news. My wife has found the green card more important than the marriage itself and I am now faced with getting a divorse. If anyone can help me with the following questions it would be greatly appreciated.

    Please note my wife is now in the U.S and has not ived with me since her arrival.

    1. I married my wife in her country (E. Europe) I am not sure how or where to file the divorse papers. Looking at the papers they state to file in the same county as the marriage however the marriage was never in the U.S

    2. I have neve registered the marriage in the U.S what type of record do they have of the marriage?

    3. My wife is stating that I am not her sponsor, however I was upon her coming to the U.S (she is here on a K-3) I was under the assumption that sponsorship was non-transferable?? (I have never signed any papers authorizing anything of the sort)

    4. My wife is trying to also prove neglect on my part so that she can stay in the country. She has already filed and been granted a restraining order against me for a year??? Is it that easy to do? I have never done anything against her in any way and this again, is nothing more than an abvious attempt to dis-credit me as a person to show neglect so she can stay in the U.S

    5. Any solid advice would be appreciated. I am not financially in the position to hire an immigration attorney so I thank you all for anything you can provide me with regarding information partaining to my situation.

    Respectfully,

    Bucur

    Wife left please help. Looking for answers. Important

    in Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits

    Posted

    I called and spoke to USCIS and asked some general questions about this, not giving names or case numbers of course. There reply was very simple "She has broken the K3 Agreement and is now subject to deportation" That was the end of the conversation, I know they are the brick wall response team so no worries there.

    I have a friend from Russia she was the one that told me that they check. She said people come to check all the time on the validity of her marriage, they see if pitures are there, if clothing from both are there etc. she has already had two friends deported becasue they could not show there marriage to be true.

    Outside of that if her status is revoked im also assuming she would be living like an illegal immigrant yes? Thus not able to apply for an identification card, licence, job, doctor visit, etc. that her name will be flagged... and once caught and sent back she will be denied any visa in the future...

    I on the other hand dont want this, I love my wife alot and want to mend this but I am not able to get ahold of her etc.

    regards,

    Bucur

    Recently my wife was granted the K3 visa (we are married). She made it to the USA but is now re-considering her role as my wife having been befriended by several people that have told her there would be no consequence to her being on her own.

    The answers to your questions depend on whether you've filed for AOS or not. I will give you answers based upon the NOT having yet filed for AOS scenario. I see she's only been here 4 weeks, so I'm thinking you may not have yet filed.

    What will happen to her is I say ok, and let her run wild throughout the US?

    Nothing per se, but once her K3 visa expires she will have to return to her home country.

    I am told that if she is not married to me she has to go back to her country, she has only been here for 4 weeks.

    Not true, but she will have to go back to her home country once her visa expires, or risk being out of status and accruing unwanted out of status time.

    I have been told that sponsorship is not transferable is this true? if I file divorce will she be deported?

    Sponsorship is not transferable...but she will not necessarily be deported if you file for divorce. Deportation in the case of divorce is quite a hot topic here on VJ, and you'll get differing opinions, but basically if you can prove that the marriage was entered into for immigration benefits, you have the option to inform ICE(Immigration and Customs Enforcement)....as to whether they will take the time to find her and deport her, not sure, but I see it as a slim chance.

    I have been told they will check to see if we are living under the same roof, if shes not there her visa will be revoked..??

    Nobody is going to come to your house to check and see if you're cohabiting....once you file for AOS, you may have an interview during which USCIS will try and determine if you marriage is true and valid.

    Does anyone know the answers to these questions? Does anyone know what the "True" consequences are for this type of behaviour?

    What do you mean the "True" consequences? What will likely happen, or what should happen? These are two different scenarios....what will likely happen is nothing....you wife will be able to do her thing during the validity of her visa (though I'm not sure what that would be if she's not employment authorized) and once her visa expires she is recommended to leave the country...but may elect not to and face those consequences at a later date. You in the meantime will need to file and obtain a divorce and heal your broken heart. That is what will likely happen....I will not comment on what should happen, because everyone has an opinion as to that and an argument may ensue.

    Can someone please let me know the consequences of her actions if she decides to take this route..

    Thank you.

    Bucur

    (My answers to your questions are in red, above)

    I'm sorry for your heartbreak. Perhaps there is still hope and the situation can be patched up?If so, do all things possible to attain that....but if not, look into the procedures to a divorce and hard as it may be, go that route.

    Take care,

    -P

    Wife left please help. Looking for answers. Important

    in Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits

    Posted

    Recently my wife was granted the K3 visa (we are married). She made it to the USA but is now re-considering her role as my wife having been befriended by several people that have told her there would be no consiquence to her being on her own.

    What will happen to her is I say ok, and let her run wild throughout the US?

    I am told that if she is not married to me she has to go back to her country, she has only been here for 4 weeks.

    I have been told that sponsorship is not transferable is this true? if I file divorse will she be deported?

    I have been told they will check to see if we are living under the same roof, if shes not there her visa will be revoked..??

    Does anyone know the answers to these questions? Does anyone know what the "True" consequences are for this type of behaviour?

    Can someone please let me know the consequences of her actions if she decides to take this route..

    Thank you.

    Bucur

    129F - I130 pending.. can wife come on tourist visa to see me?

    in K-3 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures

    Posted

    Fraud? The fact that it takes so long, and that the gov draggs there feet in regards to allowing my wife to see her husband (me) should be against the law as well.

    Hi there,

    I think she should wait, excepted you are in a kind of life or dead emergency, and maybe just ask the embassy if she is allowed to enter the US with a tourist visa while her case is pending. Anyway the first step will be for you to ask at the USCIS if this is possible and then go from there.

    Good luck!

    129F - I130 pending.. can wife come on tourist visa to see me?

    in K-3 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures

    Posted

    Ok THank you all for the responses. I spoke to my wife and she will be going to the Embassy in Romania and asking to apply for a tourist visa to come and visit me here in the US. Our 129F and I-130 are currently pending... will this be a red light to them, does anyone know. Will they automatically deny her tourist visa becasue I, her husband is here and they are afraid she might not go back to Romania? Does anyone know about this as well?

    Any help is always appreciated.

    Regards,

    Bucur

    How to get info on a non-received NOA1

    in K-3 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures

    Posted

    Hello all,

    just wanted to pass this info on to you.

    I filed my I-130 paperwork last month on the 4th, to date I have not received an NOA1. I decided to call and this is what took place.

    I called USCIC and told them it had been over 4 weeks and no NOA1, they then transfered me to a man who took my social nnumber, last name and first. he then verified the date in which they received my paperwork, then also gave me the date of approval. He said I should have received my NOA1 last month on or no later than the 17th! I explained to him I had not received it, then requested another copy. He then told me that he could not issue another copy until the original was sent back by the postal service.... hmmm what if there was another breakdown and it made it here but the postal system failed etc. He said I would have to file another batch of papers... Ok... Now what. I asked for another solution, that that would not work for me, he paused for a moment and said ok, here's what I can do. He gave me the receipt number of the NOA1.

    I then went to the USCIC site and entered the receipt number in and registered for my account there for tracing purposes. My paperwork immediateely showed up. I then typed a cover letter explaining the details of my unfortunate situation and included it with my "I-129F" paperwork and sent it off. The man said that should work, because they will cross reference the info anyway.

    So there ya have it, my problem, solution, and forward action.

    Respectfully,

    -Bucur

    California & Vermont are backed up.

    in K-3 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures

    Posted

    I just got off the phone with USCIS and they informed me that for some reason California and Vermont have been hit with an over whelming amount of visa requests. They stated to me that they are backed up and running roughly 45 days behind per app.

    Just wanted to let everyone know.

    Regards,

    -B

    I concur. I am still trying to get the NOA1, thus my call in to them. I live here in California and I drive down the street and see people (illegal immigrants) with 5 kids, no car, no job and living off the state...but enjoying there stay here in sunny California, then I go home and get dis-appointed because the process (legal) to get my "WIFE" here takes so long and is stressfully with fingers crossed the whole time. Where is the happy medium...

    Sorry had to get that out, it's been bothering me for some time.

    -B

    IRS and my Finances

    in K-3 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures

    Posted

    Hi,

    I have a question, and perhaps one of a kind here in the posts as I tried to find info in respect to it with no avail.

    I am married to my wife who is currently in Romania. I have begun filing the paperwork.

    I-130 received, check cashed.

    waiting for NOA1.....

    I was told today however by a friend that because I have not filed my taxes with the IRS in a few years, due to not making enough money etc. and the fact that I am very low on money that they will deny the approvals on either my 1-130 or my 1-129. I hope this is not the case. My parents have stated that they will sponsor her and give there financial info to back her into the country but I dont even know if that is an option.

    Can anyone help shed some light on this subject for me please. I hope I am not penalized for not having alot of money.

    Looks like I might have to move to her country to be with her if this is the case.

    Thanks for any help.

    Respectfully,

    -B

    It's been almost 4 weeks and no NOA for my first filing of the I-130

    in K-3 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures

    Posted

    first, you need to trace through your courier if USCIS has received your documents, if yes, the you should be in the right track. waiting for NOA1 can really be thrilling and exhausting. then, check your bank if your check has been encashed, if yes, get hold a copy of it and look at the back side of the check. the receipt number is usually printed there.

    hope this helps.

    I mailed a money order so I cant track a check, and It was sent standard mail so I cant track there either... Is there a number I can call or is my time line on the right track "somewhat" Is there a way to track it online?

    Thanks.

    -B

    -------------------------------

    Timeline.

    April 4th - Sent I-130

    ....waiting for NOA

    You should've used signature confirmation and/or delivery confirmation when sending money orders. There's no way to track it online or calling USCIS if you don't have the case receipt number.

    Thank you for this, it jarred my head to look at my paperwork. There is where I was also storing the receipt for the "Money Order" in small type there was a 1-800# and a receipt number as well for the money order. I called the automated system and it tracked my money order. It stated that the money order was cashed on the 18th, 4 days ago from this posting. Perhaps next week will be the week I get the NOA1. I wont hold my breath.

    Thanks again,

    -B

    I-130

    April 5, 2007--------Sent I-130 Package to TSC

    April 22, 2007--------TSC Cashed my Money Order

    Currently waiting for NOA1.............

    It's been almost 4 weeks and no NOA for my first filing of the I-130

    in K-3 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures

    Posted

    first, you need to trace through your courier if USCIS has received your documents, if yes, the you should be in the right track. waiting for NOA1 can really be thrilling and exhausting. then, check your bank if your check has been encashed, if yes, get hold a copy of it and look at the back side of the check. the receipt number is usually printed there.

    hope this helps.

    I mailed a money order so I cant track a check, and It was sent standard mail so I cant track there either... Is there a number I can call or is my time line on the right track "somewhat" Is there a way to track it online?

    Thanks.

    -B

    -------------------------------

    Timeline.

    April 4th - Sent I-130

    ....waiting for NOA

    Info regarding I-130

    in K-3 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures

    Posted

    Hello, I filed the I-130 two weeks ago and after speaking with a person somewhat knowledgeable in the process I was asked to look at question #22 on the I-130. #22 asks if the relative will apply for adjustment of status in the US. I looked at the question and realized that I did not fill it out, it was left blank. I am worried now that this will stop the form process or delay it on some way. I was told that I should have answered it to adjust status in US .... I am extremely upset at myself and bummed to say the least. Is there anyone that has also done this that can provide me with some type of explanation as to "what now?"

    Any info is greatly appreciated.

    Respectfully,

    Brian.

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