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    Daphne . got a reaction from MarJhi in K1 Visa processing but family situation horrible (need advice)   
    Time to put on your big boy/girl pants and take control of your life! I know it’s easier said than done and there might be some cultural things happening here but again, you are an adult. Get a new job, see if you can crash at a friend’s house until you find a room, etc. If your partner is financially stable enough, they can also support you for the time being. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from PVR Bound in K1 Visa processing but family situation horrible (need advice)   
    Time to put on your big boy/girl pants and take control of your life! I know it’s easier said than done and there might be some cultural things happening here but again, you are an adult. Get a new job, see if you can crash at a friend’s house until you find a room, etc. If your partner is financially stable enough, they can also support you for the time being. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from PVR Bound in K1 Visa processing but family situation horrible (need advice)   
    OP can try to visit using their Esta, but that’s about it.. They won’t be able to ‘stay’ until the I-129f is approved. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from PVR Bound in K1 Visa processing but family situation horrible (need advice)   
    Continue looking for another job to become financially independent enough to be able to move out of your parents’ house. That will at least give some relief during the wait.
     
    I understand how difficult it is to be caught in the middle (your parents disapproving of your relationship) but at the end of the day you are an adult and this is your choice. They are very likely afraid of losing you, you are planning to move to a new country. They might just be showing it in a very unpleasant way. 
     
    There is no way to be able to live in the US until your K1 is approved, so focus on improving your situation during the wait. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from Unlockable in K1 Visa processing but family situation horrible (need advice)   
    Continue looking for another job to become financially independent enough to be able to move out of your parents’ house. That will at least give some relief during the wait.
     
    I understand how difficult it is to be caught in the middle (your parents disapproving of your relationship) but at the end of the day you are an adult and this is your choice. They are very likely afraid of losing you, you are planning to move to a new country. They might just be showing it in a very unpleasant way. 
     
    There is no way to be able to live in the US until your K1 is approved, so focus on improving your situation during the wait. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from SalishSea in Same Sex K1 Visa experience   
    I understand, but the marriage will happen in the US, where it is legal and the staff at the Embassy will treat it accordingly
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    Daphne . got a reaction from SalishSea in K1 Visa processing but family situation horrible (need advice)   
    Time to put on your big boy/girl pants and take control of your life! I know it’s easier said than done and there might be some cultural things happening here but again, you are an adult. Get a new job, see if you can crash at a friend’s house until you find a room, etc. If your partner is financially stable enough, they can also support you for the time being. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from Dashinka in K1 Visa processing but family situation horrible (need advice)   
    Time to put on your big boy/girl pants and take control of your life! I know it’s easier said than done and there might be some cultural things happening here but again, you are an adult. Get a new job, see if you can crash at a friend’s house until you find a room, etc. If your partner is financially stable enough, they can also support you for the time being. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from Dashinka in K1 Visa processing but family situation horrible (need advice)   
    OP can try to visit using their Esta, but that’s about it.. They won’t be able to ‘stay’ until the I-129f is approved. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from Dashinka in K1 Visa processing but family situation horrible (need advice)   
    Continue looking for another job to become financially independent enough to be able to move out of your parents’ house. That will at least give some relief during the wait.
     
    I understand how difficult it is to be caught in the middle (your parents disapproving of your relationship) but at the end of the day you are an adult and this is your choice. They are very likely afraid of losing you, you are planning to move to a new country. They might just be showing it in a very unpleasant way. 
     
    There is no way to be able to live in the US until your K1 is approved, so focus on improving your situation during the wait. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from FENIX-VIJAY in Same Sex K1 Visa experience   
    I understand, but the marriage will happen in the US, where it is legal and the staff at the Embassy will treat it accordingly
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    Daphne . got a reaction from OldUser in Timeframe between marriage and filing 130/485   
    There is no official timeframe and also no benefit to waiting. Do it as soon as you have the marriage certificate.
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    Daphne . got a reaction from kiwibean in K1 Visa processing but family situation horrible (need advice)   
    Continue looking for another job to become financially independent enough to be able to move out of your parents’ house. That will at least give some relief during the wait.
     
    I understand how difficult it is to be caught in the middle (your parents disapproving of your relationship) but at the end of the day you are an adult and this is your choice. They are very likely afraid of losing you, you are planning to move to a new country. They might just be showing it in a very unpleasant way. 
     
    There is no way to be able to live in the US until your K1 is approved, so focus on improving your situation during the wait. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from powerpuff in K1 Visa processing but family situation horrible (need advice)   
    Continue looking for another job to become financially independent enough to be able to move out of your parents’ house. That will at least give some relief during the wait.
     
    I understand how difficult it is to be caught in the middle (your parents disapproving of your relationship) but at the end of the day you are an adult and this is your choice. They are very likely afraid of losing you, you are planning to move to a new country. They might just be showing it in a very unpleasant way. 
     
    There is no way to be able to live in the US until your K1 is approved, so focus on improving your situation during the wait. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from OldUser in Asylum and Marriage   
    Did you already know her before she entered the US? When did you meet her? Even if you met her the day she entered the US, discussing marriage (especially in her circumstances) seems VERY hasty.. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from Dashinka in Are Canadians with B2s granted 6 months per entry or 6 months per 365 days? (merged)   
    UP TO 6 months per entry, but that is not a guarantee and also doesn’t mean that somebody can stay for 6 months, leave and come back for another 6 months. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from SalishSea in Asylum and Marriage   
    Did you already know her before she entered the US? When did you meet her? Even if you met her the day she entered the US, discussing marriage (especially in her circumstances) seems VERY hasty.. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from Cathi in Asylum and Marriage   
    Did you already know her before she entered the US? When did you meet her? Even if you met her the day she entered the US, discussing marriage (especially in her circumstances) seems VERY hasty.. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from Cathi in Loophole for Visiting While I-129f Pending?   
    Don’t do any of this, not a good plan! 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from Ontarkie in Asylum and Marriage   
    Did you already know her before she entered the US? When did you meet her? Even if you met her the day she entered the US, discussing marriage (especially in her circumstances) seems VERY hasty.. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from OldUser in Are Canadians with B2s granted 6 months per entry or 6 months per 365 days? (merged)   
    UP TO 6 months per entry, but that is not a guarantee and also doesn’t mean that somebody can stay for 6 months, leave and come back for another 6 months. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from Mandeloon29 in Are Canadians with B2s granted 6 months per entry or 6 months per 365 days? (merged)   
    UP TO 6 months per entry, but that is not a guarantee and also doesn’t mean that somebody can stay for 6 months, leave and come back for another 6 months. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from Allaboutwaiting in Are Canadians with B2s granted 6 months per entry or 6 months per 365 days? (merged)   
    UP TO 6 months per entry, but that is not a guarantee and also doesn’t mean that somebody can stay for 6 months, leave and come back for another 6 months. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from Shwee in Asylum and Marriage   
    Did you already know her before she entered the US? When did you meet her? Even if you met her the day she entered the US, discussing marriage (especially in her circumstances) seems VERY hasty.. 
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    Daphne . got a reaction from Lemonslice in Loophole for Visiting While I-129f Pending?   
    Don’t do any of this, not a good plan! 
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