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  1. Oh forgot to update you guys that the Judge did include Cruelty as Grounds of Divorce on the Divorce Decree. I guess he decided to put it on there in the end. #Thankful👏🙏
  2. Hi Guys, I have a friend who has been waiting for his Visa interview in the Dominican Republic for over 10 years now because his parents who are greencard holders sponsored him and he included his daughter in the application. They had an interview scheduled for 2020 but the embassy closed a month before their interview. They haven't gotten a new interview date yet. Is this normal? I thought the embassy in DR was open now.
  3. Anyone reading this now and in the future who finds themselves in my shoes... Don't listen to the naysayers, most of whom are non/recent US Citizens/Greencard holders. Fight your good fight and seek justice... And leave the rest to God. Karma is also a B so hit all angles and let them land where they may... I appreciate those who directly addressed the question I asked by encouraging me to send the documents and see what happens... Your hearts and minds are in the right place. 👏🙌. I'm out to handle my business, with God's help... He gave me a brain and strength for a reason... Cheers to All and wish me well...😁
  4. It's not vengeance, it's justice. God doesn't fight or avenge alone... He uses people. How do you know me doing my part is not part of His plan?... God has been with me every step of the way thus far: - Almost US$900 in child support - Full custody of kids - Cruelty divorce ruling - One more fight pending... Giving criminals and abusers a pass like many of you are encouraging is very narcissistic so spare me with that mess.... Don't ever sit on your butt and wait for God to show up; do your part and give God something to work with... So I disagree with your take on "vengeance."
  5. Everyone's case is different. You're encouraging me to give it up. I'm not frustrated or in pain. That/how I feel should not be of anyone's concern as I did not make that an issue here because it's not.... I love fighting for justice and I will continue to do that, no matter the outcome. I can't be demoralized by others cases whose circumstances and fight was different from mine. No one ever knows how things will end. The least one can do is try... I'm not losing anything for trying. I will lose everything by not trying. Because in the end, my peace of mind will be in knowing that I fought for my rights until the end, no matter what. There's never a regret in giving something/fight your all, even if it doesn't work out and you don't win... I will always be my best advocate. I have taken eveey advice with a grain of salt....
  6. I disagree. I'm better off with him being denied. I have submitted so much proof to the USA government of the cruelty and fraud and now divorce court. If they ignore that, I will make my case in court as to why I'm not supporting my abuser to live a good life because the US government failed to do its job. And plus, no one here has heard of anyone being asked to enforce the affidavit of support, especially in the pandemic era. So chances of that happening is Zero. So yes, I disagree with giving him a pass... Abusers should never be given a pass for wrecking havoc in other people's lives.
  7. Right. I'm covering all grounds; leaving no stones unturned. I will also submit all the evidence and proof uses in divorce court that lead to the cruelty divorce judgement. I have been subpoenaed to testify in his criminal case.
  8. Honestly, I don't really care what he does. I just don't want him getting his papers through me after everything that has happened. He can stay here illegally all he wants. I will still collect a big child support check. I just want to make sure that I'm protected both financially, physically and immigration wise if I ever end up marrying another foreigner. This was my first marriage ever. I don't want my record tainted.
  9. People who like to post what you posted in your last sentence are fear mongering. I'm not afraid or threatened by this scare tactic of reporting this to USCIS in fear of getting personally accused of fraud. You mentioning this is a clear scare tactic because its not warranted. You can report and prove your innocence. My case is cut and clear....
  10. I believe he already applied to remove but has been stalled by the pending issues, based on what he said during the trial. If he vacates his removal of conditions application, I will be good and happy with that also.
  11. Thank you All for your input. As long as I'm responsible for the immigration affidavit of support, this case will be my problem (for those saying to leave the immigration part alone). If the first application is all that mattered then why have another application for removal of conditions. There's a reason for that.... Greencard is awarded based on moral aptitude so the cruelty grounds of divorce, and arrest etc., matter in the grand scheme of things from what I am reading. So thanks to those confirming that. He was arrested and spend 3 months in jail. Yes he has a pending criminal case. The cruelty divorce ruling was another safety net that I pursued. I'm not depressed or suffering anxiety. I'm happy I'm divorced from an abuser. But I am seeking justice and to make sure that he's the least of my problems down the line. And that I won't have blood on my hand if he ends up doing this to another person or killing them. So I'm leaving no stones unturned. So yes, will not let it rest for as long as my future and my kids future will be affected... Will send the documents.
  12. Hi guys, I posted before about my case. US Citizen who sponsored now ex-husband as of today. We are in the State of Maryland. The Judge ruled that it was indeed based on Cruelty that the immigrant husband subjected me to. However, the Judge said that the ground of divorce are not mentioned on the divorce document. I thought the Divorce creed mentions that because immigration officers would want to know the real reason for the divorce. The ex-husband filed for divorce to remove conditions and has a pending criminal case of domestic abuse. I counter-filed his divorce saying it was not based on mutual agreement but cruelty which I was able to prove in divorce trial today. So if cruelty grounds of divorce won't be mentioned on the divorce document, how would immigration know? I'm going to send immigration the divorce hearing/trial transcript where the judge ruled Cruelty as the grounds of divorce. But it sucks that the divorce document won't have that. I live in Montgomery County, Maryland. Has anybody ever heard of this? Please advise on how to handle this because I want immigration to know the truth about this marriage and the grounds of divorce. I thought EVERY divorce creed that immigration gets has Cruelty/real reason for divorce noted. This one will just say Absolute Divorce granted or something like that...
  13. My ex-spouse (to be) entered the USA on a marriage visa early 2019 and got arrested for domestic violence abuse and went to jail for a few months before he (possibly) applied for removal of conditions and before he filed for divorce while separated, how will this affect his removal of conditions if his criminal case is still pending in court (he is being charged by the State for 3 criminal charges) and the divorce is not final yet either as it's contested and awaiting divorce trial. Will USCIS still process his application (if he filed one), deny it or put it on hold if the legal process for criminal charges and divorce are still pending taking long to be resolved due to court scheduling and delays? Is he considered out of status since he was supposed to remove towards end of last year? I am not sure if he has applied for removal of conditions yet; do you think he did/wise to do under his circumstances? What are the chances of him actually getting approved for a permanent greencard under this circumstances? He has also been reported to USCIS for all sorts of domestic abuse etc. How do you foresee this realistically ending, immigration wise for a greencard and US Citizenship? Safety concerned abused spouse, with children involved.
  14. Don't stress it. It is never really enforced. What public funds can a husband rack up anyway that the government will come after you for a refund?
  15. If you get full/physical custody, you can file for child support. That money could offset the aos/sponsorship cost and you could make back all the money you spend on him and relationship etc. Apparently the binding sponsorship is hardly ever enforced so you probably have nothing to monetarily worry about.
  16. Oh, and I was advising her on another strategy, where she has control, to get to the same/similar results... All hope is not lost, sister. . Fight for your rights 💪🏿 😉
  17. It's not my personal experience that men cheat. It's common knowledge. I have never even cared to look at my partner's phones. It was never an issue for me. I know how to pick my battles. Some battles are useless to fight and a waste of time. However, we are talking about marriage here, not just dating. In a marriage, cheating alone is not enough grounds for divorce, unless it becomes abusive and dangerous....
  18. He offered to pay you back the $10K?! That's great.... Make sure he really does... That way, you won't hold that over his head forever.... And then level the playing field. Recuperate your money and time... Don't walk away empty handed. Never let anyone get away with using you. Fight til the end....💪🏿
  19. Girl, he's gotten lucky with that automatic 10 greencard. Too bad for Covid19 delays.. If your life is not in danger, stick it through and get your money's worth or back. Don't make it easy for him through divorce. Keep collecting more evidence so that when you do get divorced, you can get part of your money via alimony. If you get pregnant, make sure you become the primary caregiver and fight for full/physical custody and take his behind to child support and make sure you get him to pay a lot in child support. I would never advice anyone to file for divorce based on cheating/assumed cheating. Most men will cheat. Pick your battles and fight the ones you can win. You leave him for this, chances are you will never stay married. But if your life is ever in danger, then yes, leave the marriage and if he threatens your life and gets physical, call the police and maybe his behind can get deported. Play your cards right and fair. Only then will you get true justice. #karma
  20. I know it's her business. I'm not judging, I'm advising, based on experience. I'm looking out for her. I hope it works out for her but she can't say no one here tried to look out for her if she ends up in a terrible situation.
  21. How did you guys meet? Was he incarcerated when you met? Why would you want to marry a convicted criminal? You might make your life harder.... Will he be able to get a decent job and support you? What if he becomes a repeat offender?.... I petitioned a sick Narcissist & Ant-Social PD man to come to the USA, he got arrested and I refused to help him get out of jail. Some red flags should not be ignored.....
  22. Ok cool, thank you! She is gathering her evidence based on the list you kindly shared and more. We will start the application process next week and hope for the best 🙏.
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