Kerege

No we are 37...age isnt the problem rather your same age couple or younger and older Nigeria is nigeria and they will be judgmental regardless just because they are nigerian

Dont worry about the age plenty of people have age differences. Definitely dont lie. But yes that will be fine I gave 3 trips under my belt too and we got engaged officially after being together 4 months got married 6 months after that and I went back a yr after that waiting in the process not knowing it would take so long. Just get married take pictures show proof and make sure she can financially be approved to bring you and most if all at the interview answer the questions right and honestly. 

Dont worry about the age plenty of people have age differences. Definitely dont lie. But yes that will be fine I gave 3 trips under my belt too and we got engaged officially after being together 4 months got married 6 months after that and I went back a yr after that waiting in the process not knowing it would take so long. Just get married take pictures show proof and make sure she can financially be approved to bring you and most if all at the interview answer the questions right and honestly. 

Dont worry about the age plenty of people have age differences. Definitely dont lie. But yes that will be fine I gave 3 trips under my belt too and we got engaged officially after being together 4 months got married 6 months after that and I went back a yr after that waiting in the process not knowing it would take so long. Just get married take pictures show proof and make sure she can financially be approved to bring you and most if all at the interview answer the questions right and honestly. 

Dont worry about the age plenty of people have age differences. Definitely dont lie. But yes that will be fine I gave 3 trips under my belt too and we got engaged officially after being together 4 months got married 6 months after that and I went back a yr after that waiting in the process not knowing it would take so long. Just get married take pictures show proof and make sure she can financially be approved to bring you and most if all at the interview answer the questions right and honestly. 

Dont worry about the age plenty of people have age differences. Definitely dont lie. But yes that will be fine I gave 3 trips under my belt too and we got engaged officially after being together 4 months got married 6 months after that and I went back a yr after that waiting in the process not knowing it would take so long. Just get married take pictures show proof and make sure she can financially be approved to bring you and most if all at the interview answer the questions right and honestly. 

Listen imma straight up tell you. Yall are better off getting married in Nigeria instead of doing k1. They deny k1 easily and you cant fight for it because your not married. With the age gap and short time frame the CO may deny the petition because he chooses too. Idk if you watch 90 day fiance but michael and angela on the show same situation hes young shes older they denied him. My husband is nigerian we got married and files cr1/ir1  it takes longer but it's better to wait through this process than yo do k1 wait almost 1nyr get denied have to get married then apply for cr1/ir1 and wait 2yrs. If yall love each other I say next time she comes get married let her come back and file then she can come back to visit you again. And the waiting will build yalls relationship history

Ok thanks will do 

thank you so much your message gives me some hope. I think people should be aware that this can happen its so unfair to be approved then have to go through this stress .its so alamrnng to see refused of status after it being updated. do you know how I will know for sure if ive been refused.  Thank you once again for your help . 

Do it yourself. I was going to use them too but I'm cheap and its cheaper to do it yourself. Get familiar with the forms. I printed out a copy and wrote it in so I could make corrections before I typed and printed. Its not hard at all. It just seems a little intimidating. I sent loads of pics. Please send more than 10.  I printed out the first middle and last pages of our text for each month which was at the time was 6 months worth. I printed pics of screenshots if us on video calls I printed out call logs. All this is 6 months worth of info at the time I was filing. I sent copies of my tickets. my stamp ins and outs from my passport. We dont have a joint bank yet but I sent in financials of what I send showing family support. I sent 2 affidavits from my daughter and a friend. I sent in marriage license and divorced decree. Wedding invitation. With a cover letter stating all the evidence I submitted. After all that it was a pretty tall stack. I mailed it with the cheapest fastest mail delivery by the second day after mailing I recieved my text and email that they have received my petition. And now ive been waiting 11 months for a noa2. You can do this leave nothing unsigned reading over the application many many times before u send it. 

You should call or go to your local immigration office. I have a friend who was waiting for a long time it wasn't until she needed to travel and went there and found out they had lost her file but since her and her husband had a kid already they just gave her what she needed. So maybe they have lost your file.