Sorry!!!!!! just sticking my .02 cents in.
"You people and those people" are your husbands people and any kids that may come from your union will share the same blood line. Throughout your topic you seem to make negative statements about your husband's countrymen, and through your post in general . Maybe you should re-think your views on "those people" and where you fit inside of the equaton and learn to be a little more open-mind when it comes to conducting business in other countriesespecially your husbands.
Outside of that, I hope everything works out for you and your husband.
LA80 & girlish_51: Congratulations! I have my fingers crossed for that update too We are surely moving. I am so done with all this process. With my Accounting degree entering the toughest phase, I honestly have no patience for immigration woes anymore.