G&A

Great thread and input Michele but...
I am very concerned with what officers had told you on two occasions. DO NOT GET MARRIED THERE. IT IS A VIOLATION.
I recently started a new thread here and was advised by many members here that is perfectly ok and legal to get married in the US as long as the person leaves afterwards, and then files for a K-3. I know the officers are concerned that people get married, hang around and then adjust status.
I would love to get something in writing that tell me a visitor to the US can marry as long as they LEAVE the US after the marriage.
I would like to hear opinons and mostly REAL experiences from folks here on VJ.
thanks.

I also vote for pinning this! I wish I had known before sending my packet. One thing I kept hearing about was sending utilities and other things addressed to both of us. It was time consuming to dig all that stuff up out of the basement, and it turns out it was unnecessary!
I wonder if the papers I sent from my children to my husband (handmade birthday cards, for example - with plenty of "I love you"s) would help show their relationship with him. I half joke that if we get picked for an interview, all I need to do is take one of them with me - especially the youngest, who likes to crawl up onto his shoulders, sit there, and pick at his hair (or sit on his lap and pick at his hair - he's got long, thick, curly hair). I did send pictures of him with them, as well as ones of all five of us.
It never occurred to me to send copies of the kids' school contact cards with him listed, but I think I sent copies of medical bills with his name (as guarantor, with them listed as the patient) on them.
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