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Sounds like this man may already have all the paperwork necessary to come back into the USA on his own. ( Visa ) I can almost guarantee you that he's coming back and soon but not to your place. Cancel his return flight and let him pay for his return !!! Especially since he says he's not coming back , he shouldn't need a round trip ticket.
I have heard of people saying that only to return to the
U.S. to live as single even if they are still married.

Hello Poster,
I can relate to what your saying because I consider myself to have been used by a visa opportunist. He loved me
and wanted to work what ever misunderstanding out until our AOS was filed, then he became a nitemare to live
with. These people trying to post the blame on you are people that have no ideal of what a greencard seeking
is willing to do, please ignore them.
The first year in any marriage, especially living together brings about many discoveries about each other, someone
that truly loves you ( in my oppinion ) for you won't be willing to give up so easy on their marriage, especially when
she now has you bending over backwards to save your marriage. Unfortunately that's where alot of Americans
find themselves when they bring people from other Countries here into America. The fact that she's from Canada
don't give any leverage towards her wanting to get that American Visa. After I divorced my Nigerian husband I
had met a Laywer from Canada telling me that he always wanted to marry an American and come live here with
his wife. He went further to say that the pay in America is much more then what Canada offers. Ofcourse that was
all I needed to hear, he didn't know who he was talking too, ( a now well educated woman on visa fraud ) we
hadn't talked about me being involved in the visa process and having a taste of a fraudlent marriage yet.
Just the fact that you say she doesen't want to attend counseling with you say volumes to me. You like me did all
the right things to make her able to stay here and so like others have told you; she doesen't need you anymore, but
I'm now lookin at what your saying; it's only been a year and she is ready to throw your marriage in the trash and
flush it down the toilet heck you and her probably enjoyed the long distance dating longer then the marriage.
You went thru spending lots of money, visits to her, and sponsoring her and within one year she's ready to say good
bye, in my eyes it does sound suspect of fraud, but what alot of Americans don't realize is once you sponsor that
person and send in the AOS, they are now dealing with immigration independant of you. They now have lots of
options they can use to stay here in the states and don't need you anymore, so we find ourselves bending over
backwards for them and totally kissing their behinds while they continue to abruse us. Many already knew what
they were gonna do before they came into this Country courtesy of the petition filed by you. They know when it's
safe to end the marriage.
Please greeve, and let her go on, because there is really nothing you could do at this point to keep her with you.
that's something that alot of Americans don't know going into these relationships with aliens, too many of us don't
so our homework because where too busy in love.
Unless you can show immigration proof of a fraudlent marriage she has already beat you, all you can do now is
protect your assets, and let her go on, because it sounds like she clearly wants out and she will eventually leave
anyway this is just my thought, but once again I want too caution you that you shouldn't blame yourself, sounds
like to me that your were dealing with a woman that knew what she wanted and how to get it, just let God deal
with her and he will if she used you for a visa.
I wish you all the best in time of need.

You said that the American Embassey helped her gain statis back into America? I'd request to get a copy of what she told homeland suecurity .
Gear up buddy; she isn't no where done with you. And it's not gona br pretty,