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Moonie

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  1. I have also been looking but, I am going to wait to buy one when we can actually set a date. I was thinking about marrying in Hawaii and having a beach wedding, the weather is always good there. But all that depends on MONEY. lol

  2. I haven't gotten any comments about him using me for a green card I guess because he is from Australia? :huh: But I do know maybe 2 of my friends don't respect this relationship or see it as a real thing because we are not able to be together now. They have big doubts which I can understand. I didn't talk to one friend for like 3 weeks because she wanted to fix me up with a guy that she deemed to be better looking. :angry: I told her that was very disrespectful. :angry:

    I just ignore people and I keep my circle of trust and info very tight.

  3. Although marriage is about love and committment it is also a legally binding CONTRACT you have to realistic about certain things. There is noting wrong with taking precautions. I know plenty married couples who have a separate bank account doesn't mean you don't trust your spouse or you are being shady but you never know what will happen in the future and that separate savings account may be your saving grace. You having a prenup can stop you from being homeless or staying on your mom's couch. It isn't about controlling someone like a dog it is about preparing for a a future that could possibly not be that bright.

  4. Hey Moonie! Good luck, the time goes fairly quickly and this is a great site to come to if you need info or are feeling a bit lonely. :)

    We have been going 7mths now and are getting towards the end of our visa process. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. lol One thing is for sure...if you can get through this you can get through anything in your married life. It has definitely made our relationship stronger.

    Where is your fiance from is Australia? I am from Melbourne.

    Cheers

    Lyndel

    He is from Melbourne actually. Cool city. I enjoyed it except for the random rain. LOL It was a bit chilly when I went. If I could afford it, I would visit him again. :)

  5. I checked my account today and the check cleared for the petition. :dance: So I fill like something has been accomplished. I know we have a long way to go but it is a start.

    I sent pictures of us together and my passport showing when I was in Australia. My phone bills are scarrrrrrrrrry so we have proof of that for sure. LOL I am excited. (L)

    My phone bills were scary also but then I started buy phone cards. So in the end I had phone bills and phone cards because we couldn't talk enough :blush: . Our K 1 journeney took 7 months even with visits in between the journey felt like forever. Please let the VJ family help you with support and advise they are wonderful!!! GOOD LUCK!!! May your Journey be swift.

    I use both :whistle: We send a lot of text messages also. I just can't go one day without talking to him in some shape or form. I am really enjoying this site. :yes:

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