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14 minutes ago, Angelalfred said:

Which evidence should I provide in terms  of lease agreement and utility bills as my husband and I live with my in-laws And they are the ones that pay all the bills. They will also be acting as our joint sponsors for my I-30 adjustment of status.

With my wife and I,   my lease is in my name only and was not going to have a new one written up to add her  name to it.  ALL utilities are still in my name and most times utilities only list one person as the addressee.  We had no problems with the AOS interview.  You just explain like you did her as you would not be the first ever under those circumstances.  What we did is show joint mingled checking and savings accounts,   had mail that was delivered to her name at out address, and of both names (like Christmas cards) addressed to the both of you,  I added her to vehicle registrations and titles, and made her a co-owner of the LLC.  I also had her named as a user of some of the credit cards as well.  It shows trust, honesty and stability.  Her employment and her insurance is addressed to our address.  Just keep those things as well.  Best of luck! 

25 minutes ago, Mingmazz said:

Today NVC ask for w2/1099 form. What is that mean? I already submitted all tax file and it's all accepted. Is that mean re submit tax file ? How long NVC takes for review again? Guy help me out.

Copies of your filed taxes are just your word on what you made.  What they want is an employee provided W2 that shows what you made. The 1099 is a form that is issued by a company when you are not an 'employee" but they paid you a certain sum, without taking taxes or anything out of it.  I guess the NVC needs proof of what you filed for verification.

10 hours ago, JFH said:

You met 15 months ago but your child is 10 months old? Was she very pre-term?

 

 

10 mo old, plus 9 mo. pregnancy, was conceived 19 months ago.  hummm

31 minutes ago, payxibka said:

Your last name on the box will suffice 

Maybe in Boston where the OP is from.  Here in Az,  I don't even have a name on our mailbox (street mailbox), not even the street, the the number.  I get mail for people who owned this place 12 years ago, and other mail.  Our Post office says EVERYTHING addressed to this address, regardless of the name, gets delivered.  LOL.  

20 hours ago, Mike&Lulu Burton said:

This morning I found 3 emails from her, all of them go to the spam so he was not able to see them, she tells him she got his text that says the following:

Hi sandy, I am sorry I haven’t communicated better. I am stuck and unsure of myself. I miss you and want to be with you but the reality is that I am married for better or worse. To continue to entertain the thought of being with you is unfair and unrealistic to us both.

First off, with the spam emails,   I used one of those dating sites, years ago, and to this day, I get a couple hundred sex spam emails in a yahoo account that I use as a spam magnet and just going in and deleting the 1000 spams every month or so.  So that is not an issue for you or your hubby, that's the past. 

Secondly, not knowing him, I would be likely to bet that he will be very defensive when "caught", and instead of owning up, he may try to switch the blame on you for violating his privacy.  He had a thing with this woman, and possibly others prior to you two getting married,  so that is in the past as well.  However, he does not seem to want to "let go". of Sandy,  Some women, on the other hand can be relentless when trying to make that man hers.

I only quoted the above part, the text he sent, and my first reaction was that maybe he is still seeing Sandy on the side, and knows, or suspects you are reading his emails, and sent that text for your eyes to read.

I'm no psychologist,  but I think men and women also, cheat for the same underlying reason,  Self assurance that they are still desirable to someone other than their spouse.  It's an Ego issue, and Sandy knows how to play on that.  

Maybe one day you will say to him,  "How's Sandy doing?"  I'd love to hear the "Who?" as his mind stalls to come up with the next answer.

Best of luck, sorry you have to go through this but it sounds to me (from the text) that he feels trapped in a marriage he does not want to be in. But know, it would be Sandy's cheater afterwards. 

57 minutes ago, kayden123 said:

does anyone know if we could just go to a different cfo and start over? 

 

I heard good things about cfo cebu from my search.

 

She is going back again tomorrow morning and i pray it works out.

My wife went through Cebu, not a problem at all.  With all those trips, if she doesn't get  her sticker the next visit, I'd  be asking to speak to a supervisor or director or someone higher up.  Or another person a least.  I think there is a problem with the person she has to talk with each time. They should inform your Fiancee of EVERYTHING she needs at one time not pick and choose when where and what.    Best of luck and hope it goes through this next visit.   

5 hours ago, Timona said:

Been wondering this for a while. Been seeing a new wave of people (from another immigration site) who come over on B visas and right off the plane, file asylum. I think this asylum is a placeholder for them to stay till they figure it out. Soon, thereafter, they marry a citizen and as soon as they get their GC from marriage to a citizen, their first destination is their country of birth.

They then withdraw asylum application. 

 

Here's my question: why would you go back to a place from which you sought asylum from? So it became safe all of a sudden as soon as you got your GC? 

several years back, I seen a nighttime airport video, a couple hundred people getting off a plane on the tarmac, single file line.  The kicker is it was a FedEx plane.  So FedEx carries people too?  Smuggling.  Oh, and they boarded a fleet of buses to destinations unknown.

16 hours ago, TBoneTX said:

This sucks even for native-U.S. applicants.

How can one be overqualified to do a good job?

Say to the interviewers (or in the cover letter), "Tell you what:  if I'm doing TOO good a job for you after 90 days, you can terminate my employment on that basis."

I think many employers, who look at a resume and see you have 2 BS degrees, they think you will move on the first chance you get.  And for some, they think you are smarter than the interviewer and looking to get their job.  

8 minutes ago, jess78 said:

he is taking esl class now, it just hard for him, he needs to start from zero. like people said in the post, he already own half of the house then do i still to add his name on the deed.

As others stated, he already "owns" half the house, so adding him to the deed will change nothing in that regards, but adding him to the deed would appease immigration.  If, what you worry about, about the house in case you two get divorced after his ROC,  you can, at least go to divorce court and argue the fact that you payed 100 percent of everything, and  petition the court to give you most, and buy out the other.  Hopfully you will never have to go down that road!  Best of luck to the both of you. 

23 hours ago, jess78 said:

Hi everyone, I received a RFE on my I-751 like 2 months ago and due day is this month. Rfe only ask for deed and mortgage in both our name.  I bought a house after we were married. The house deed and mortgage is on my name and it was my solo asset because I was the one who got the loan and making the monthly payments. My husband does not work because he can not speack english really well, so I am taking care of all our spent. I just want to protect myself. I have friend who's wife left him after getting 10 year card and get half of his asset like money and house everything but her wife did not contribute to their spent at all my friend paid everything. And I really do not this happen to me. So how can I proved the rfe when I do not have it. Thanks

I won't pretend I know your life, but just wanted to chime in after reading all the comments.  Yes, Cal, like many states, what's yours is yours, whats his is his, BEFORE marriage, after that it is equally shared tangibles, including RE.    I can understand your concerns though.  I am not sure an "after marriage" contract would supersede state law.    Since he can not speak English much, I wonder what he has being doing for the past couple of years, since you said you are supporting the both of you.  Since you bought a house in CAl, and he is not earning, I assume also you have a good income, and NOT paying the mortgage from a trust fund you inherited prior to marriage.  Is there classes you can send him to to learn English to help find work.  I Mean, about every Hotel I;ve stayed at in Vegas etc, it is rare to find a housekeeper who speaks English at all.  Granted, they speak Spanish, and if I am not mistaken,  Brazil speaks mainly Portuguese.  If he is driving around,  has a license, perhaps one could start some small llc business he can run and work at to earn.  Cal is probably the hardest to do business in without being a millionaire!  All that red tape.    Anyways, best of luck to you and hope you find answers that you can live with.  

18 hours ago, Orangesapples said:

True, but that's not the case for white collar jobs which is what OP is looking for. 

Didn't catch the white collar. My wife is over qualified for most openings around here and she didn't want to "not" list her abilities and degrees.  And if you don't list them, you have big time gaps in the time-frame.  She is basically working now for her insurance.

16 hours ago, Mamuu said:

Hi members..How long did it take you to settle and find a job here..I'm in texas.Came through cr1.its been 2 months two weeks and not been successful getting a job.

It's a bit frustrating!

https://www.facebook.com/jobs 

or https://geo.craigslist.org/iso/us/tx  or https://www.ziprecruiter.com or https://www.headhunter.com/

Sometimes, a lot of people are hiring, but don't do anything but put a sign in their window and they look for those who hit the streets looking.

32 minutes ago, Jorgedig said:

Read it again.  It in no way says what you state it says.

It actually said there was an outbreak and they closed the school early but.. 100 percent had been vaxed.

1 hour ago, Cathi said:

 

 

Please cite your source. I'll wait...

https://www.smithsonianmag.com/innovation/spiky-patch-could-invisibly-record-vaccination-history-under-skin-180973809/

https://www.foxnews.com/health/whooping-cough-outbreak-texas-catholic-school

1 hour ago, Jorgedig said:

You have no idea what you are talking about.

The ID Marker or the Whooping cough?  I'll be glad to post the article, one from Fox, the other MIT.

11 minutes ago, Emily975 said:

um.... no. If you want to go to Philippines (or anywhere else outside of US) you need your passport (either Philippino or US - wherever you are citizen). You do NOT need to update your DL to RealID, as long as you have another valid form of federally recognized ID - and as an immigrant you should have (at least) 2 - your country's passport and Green Card.

I have to admit, I have not done much reading on it as yet, just saying what the clerk at motor vehicles stated.    So, If I want to go in to a federal building,  such as USCIS,    I don't need the RealID, just my DL and Passport? 

4 hours ago, geowrian said:

We can’t even get a national ID due to people being concerned about being tracked. As a result we have an SSN - a number with a name and no description of the individual, photo, etc. - that is used in its stead.

 

 

Actually the "national id" of sorts,  goes into effect in 2020.  If you do not have the star on your DL,  You can not board an airplane, go in to any federal building.  My DL  needs to be updated in 2020 if I ever want to get back to the Philippines.  Or take a slow boat.

17 hours ago, Ontarkie said:

Now I'm sure their are plenty of crazy stories out there by ppl who live in the US but thankfully this is not true. No such tracking in vaccines. 

They don't need a vax to track you,  your cellphone works perfectly for that, even if it's turned off.  A lot of manufacturers are now making it were the battery can not be removed.  To Prevent tracking?  or to make them throwaways when the battery gets old? 

17 hours ago, payxibka said:

Liquid chip technology? 

What they are working towards, is ID markers for VAx.  I tiny micro marker on the skin, invisible to the eye, and only shows up with a certain color light.  The purpose is said to identify those who have their shots, and those who have not.  Orwellian at the least!  I read that 100 percent of those in this one school who got vaxed for Whooping cough GOT Whooping cough.  I think it was that, but whatever, it was a total failure!  I don't have a personal lab to analyze  ingredients but it's getting far worse then just Mercury and Formaldehyde .

14 hours ago, AliceFL said:

We met outside USA and fell in love... I decided to leave all my life behind to start this new life with him... so we applied for k1 visa... everything was beautiful... I got here and between 90 days we got legally married... but things started to get difficult living together in the same house... so he decided for the divorced... after a lot of stress I had to moved from his house... 

and then started living in different house we realized that we still love each other... we have our independence and life is much easier now. 

so we are trying to be together again. (it's normal to happen)

 

So... the USCIS its about to schedule our interview... 

 

We wanna go and explain everything... can we be denied?

I check in pretty much daily for the past 2 years, I read, I try to educate myself.  This case is becoming typical,  K1,  marriage, divorce. or separation.   Most times, I think, is not a fraudulent plan, but 2 people falling in love on line, meeting, and then filing, getting married, and all hell breaks loose, where they can't seem to actually live together as husband and wife.  Arguments on money mostly.  They fail to recall what it was that they fell in love with in the first place.  They forget that part of "Till death do us part"..   I feel sorry for those who try and fail, and encouraged by those to try and succeed.   For those men out there, all I have to say is "A Happy Wife is a Happy Life!".. for those who can not comprehend with your own egos,.  Best of luck.  There are differences in culture for sure, learn and be strong.  I actually enjoy Rice, Fish, Egg for breakfast!  I love a partnership, which is what marriage is to be.  For those who fall in love on line,  deal with it and make it grow once it is not on line, but in person. 

2 hours ago, Vancedia said:

Hi! So I live in California wih my husband and four weeks ago we filed my adjusment of status, I came in to the country with a K1 visa. I know the process for the AOS  can take a long time but it's been four weeks and I haven't received my first NOA. So I don't know if they got my package. Since today is saturday I'm waiting until monday to call and ask but as it is right now I will like to hear if anyone has a case like mine. I'm feeling a litlle bit discouraged and thinking that my process is going to take a long time. 

Ours took 2 weeks for an NOA.  But that was last year as well.  Did you get a tracking number that it was delivered?

2 hours ago, Frider said:

If you applied 9/30/18, and your interview is scheduled 1/23/20, you have been waiting almost 16 months by my calculation.

What about 1/23/19?

6 hours ago, Nitas_man said:

Child support is not listed on either the payor or recipients taxes

 

Ok,  you're right!  I swear it was, but must have been on some other form where it lists "income", and "ie"  monies from Child support as an option.  When my late wife was in Hospice,  I applied for SSI, but it was only a few bucks, and they contacted Welfare and covered all her care and meds.  I think that is where I seen it.  I sure surprised me to get it!

1 hour ago, Pooley said:

I do get child support for both children since I have them the majority of the time, however, I didn't list any child support because I didn't see anywhere to list that. 

Listed as "other income" on your taxes, which helps have enough money to show support of a household of 4.

46 minutes ago, missileman said:

4 is correct.

If the Ex claims one child on his taxes, then one would assume he is supplying child support to the OP,  and as 4 is claimed, than the OP include any monies paid to Child support as income to offset the higher income needed?