JeanLovesTracy

I have been to the US Embassy in Manilla twice with my now wife and she also went once by herself. I was beyond frustrated and actually mad as we were denied three times.....Yeah I am that guy. I talked to several employees  and security guards and three of them told me it is like in America ...what do you call them a speed trap? Everyone here today approx 1500 people paid $160 US do the math they said. As a US citizen I am not even allowed at the window to plead my case. She by the way was in an expensive nursing school getting straight As' and owned a boarding house....denied. I agree with others save your money. Nobody would wave their  tourist Visa shouting hip hip hooray, but you could tell who was granted a tourist visa. As stated earlier..either very old or very rich. Sorry but this process is what it is and my opinion if they change immigration.. the 1.8 M  Dreamers good for them ,the rest of us 
Screwed.. no more chain migration, meaning sons, daughters mom, dads...NO
makes me too sad this was a melting pot of nations.
Rant over

One of the above posters touched on a very important question one of which me and my fiancé have discussed.
Does he/she want you to move there to their home country? My fiancés country is considered a developing nation by economic standards, yet their GOP has been 6-8 % the last five years compared to our anemic 1%. Yet she would prefer I move there to live with her, but I still have children to raise and she accepts and understands.
That to me atleast puts to sleep any motivation for a better life/ green card seeker. I am not judging because who amongst us does not want a better life for themselves or their family? I just think if the original poster can get into that level of conversation with her BF it could alleviate many doubts.
Good Luck

Yes see the latest episode of 90 day fiancé, it did not end well for either party

I agree with previous posters, if (0 day would follow me and my fiancé the audience would die from boredom, which is perfectly fine by me bc the only drama I like is on the screen. As to commenting on peoples looks and behavior, that is why I follow this thread. You can see by my pic I am an average looking guy, but I am very confident in myself and my fiancé thinks I am a 10, so therefore I care nothing what random keyboard warriors think of my appearance or behavior and yes people do like to watch train wrecks ...soo on that note....All Aboard

One of the above posters touched on a very important question one of which me and my fiancé have discussed.
Does he/she want you to move there to their home country? My fiancés country is considered a developing nation by economic standards, yet their GOP has been 6-8 % the last five years compared to our anemic 1%. Yet she would prefer I move there to live with her, but I still have children to raise and she accepts and understands.
That to me atleast puts to sleep any motivation for a better life/ green card seeker. I am not judging because who amongst us does not want a better life for themselves or their family? I just think if the original poster can get into that level of conversation with her BF it could alleviate many doubts.
Good Luck

I agree with some of the above posts, but it shocks me still how many VJ posters here have little if no money. This process is not cheap easy or fast.
OP you have been given a rare second chance. I myself would not pass it up and from the quote you sent earlier of your fiancé email, I wouldn't call her fluent in English and this case is not simple. You being there with the letters, notarized from your ex wives may get your love a visa.What has changed in the few weeks since her interview? Put yourself in the COs position.
I think you have some things to think about....this process is not cheap. I know everyone has limits , but a flight to Manila in two weeks wouldn't be one of mine, maybe see if she can reschedule latter to get things squared away with work leave and a cheaper flight
Good Luck

Congratulations to you both, now it gets fast

very nice