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Putting your USB into their computer would get them terminated.  

Both of those prior posters are wrong. If you can prove that your marriage was in good faith, you can file to remove conditions from your green card anytime before it expires. The shorter the marriage, the more proof you need but it's do able. 
Is your green card still valid or has it expired? If it's expired, I believe that then you have no legal path to stay.

Both of those prior posters are wrong. If you can prove that your marriage was in good faith, you can file to remove conditions from your green card anytime before it expires. The shorter the marriage, the more proof you need but it's do able. 
Is your green card still valid or has it expired? If it's expired, I believe that then you have no legal path to stay.

First things first, pull your affidavit of support. If you don't, you can be held legally liable if she receives means tested benefits for years (depends on her and her work ethic). Besides if she really burned you that bad, you probably wouldn't mind wrecking her happily ever after like she did yours. No affidavit = no green card = bye bye (in theory). After you do that, than worry about getting a divorce. But be aware, if she figures out that she actually does need you, she might be willing to say or do whatever it takes to get you back or to make a VAWA claim stick. After you pull the affidavit, then file for divorce.

You don't show, I believe it's game over. But do everyone else who's waiting for an interview the favor of withdrawing your affidavit. That will result in her interview slot being freed up for someone else who might actually deserve their green card.

Good grief girl!  The embassy is not playing games with you.  There are requirements for the K-1 and both of you have not fulfilled the requirements.  I am going to be rather blunt about this.  It does not matter that you and your fiancé feels you've provided enough to the embassy.  What matters is what the embassy requires.  As others have stated, you don't have any recourse but to provide what is asked.  Emotions are running high and that's why you feel like you are being picked on.  From what I've read here, the best advice I could give is that you should seriously just cut your losses.  Financial problems are typically the biggest reasons behind failed relationships.    

While you wait for the K-1 or EAD, utilize the time to create an American style resume, have her go to English classes to learn lingo, find volunteer opportunities for her (there's a great post by Darnell I believe talking about volunteering at your local Chamber of Commerce), connect her to the local workforce center for mock interviews. It's three months so you can accomplish a lot in that time. And if she chooses not to get a job right away after getting authorized at least she'll be totally ready when she chooses. We, unfortunately, didn't do any of those things so when my husband got his EAD we started from scratch and it took a while to land anything. So he started out as a landscaper. 

Your relationship actually puts her ROC into a complicated mess. As stated above, her ROC was filed as a joint petition which means that basically she's claiming that her marriage is ongoing in good faith. Having a boyfriend already makes proving a good faith marriage much harder. If I do my math right, she probably applied for ROC when she was at least 8 months pregnant... And if she got pregnant at the very start of cheating on her husband with you, that means that at most she only had her green card 16 months before moving on to you. And as much as we'd like to think that children are good evidence, all it proves is that you had sex. And if one of her children turn out to be illegitimate, that would make me question the paternity of ALL her kids. So you getting a paternity test will cause a headache for your girlfriend if USCIS finds it... Even if that child turns out not to be yours. And if her husband finds out that she's cheating, she'll most likely have to divorce him and file with a waiver because if not, she needs him to show up at the interview and swear it is a good faith marriage... Not something I'd be too happy to do if I'd just found out my wife was a cheater and my children might not actually be mine.

Your relationship actually puts her ROC into a complicated mess. As stated above, her ROC was filed as a joint petition which means that basically she's claiming that her marriage is ongoing in good faith. Having a boyfriend already makes proving a good faith marriage much harder. If I do my math right, she probably applied for ROC when she was at least 8 months pregnant... And if she got pregnant at the very start of cheating on her husband with you, that means that at most she only had her green card 16 months before moving on to you. And as much as we'd like to think that children are good evidence, all it proves is that you had sex. And if one of her children turn out to be illegitimate, that would make me question the paternity of ALL her kids. So you getting a paternity test will cause a headache for your girlfriend if USCIS finds it... Even if that child turns out not to be yours. And if her husband finds out that she's cheating, she'll most likely have to divorce him and file with a waiver because if not, she needs him to show up at the interview and swear it is a good faith marriage... Not something I'd be too happy to do if I'd just found out my wife was a cheater and my children might not actually be mine.

Your relationship actually puts her ROC into a complicated mess. As stated above, her ROC was filed as a joint petition which means that basically she's claiming that her marriage is ongoing in good faith. Having a boyfriend already makes proving a good faith marriage much harder. If I do my math right, she probably applied for ROC when she was at least 8 months pregnant... And if she got pregnant at the very start of cheating on her husband with you, that means that at most she only had her green card 16 months before moving on to you. And as much as we'd like to think that children are good evidence, all it proves is that you had sex. And if one of her children turn out to be illegitimate, that would make me question the paternity of ALL her kids. So you getting a paternity test will cause a headache for your girlfriend if USCIS finds it... Even if that child turns out not to be yours. And if her husband finds out that she's cheating, she'll most likely have to divorce him and file with a waiver because if not, she needs him to show up at the interview and swear it is a good faith marriage... Not something I'd be too happy to do if I'd just found out my wife was a cheater and my children might not actually be mine.

UPDATED LIST. Congrats to all who have been approved. CSC please have patience, lets support each other. Sorry if I have missed anyone, but going thru 20 pages has taken me 2 hours. If I have missed you, it may be due to no timeline. California Service Center (45 applicants, 1 approved - 2%) VJName.............Date of I-751.....NOA1 Date....Biometrics.....Approved FROMPHWITHLOVE.......08/30/16........09/01/16......10/13/16......--/--/-- TONY23...............09/01/16........09/13/16......--/--/--......--/--/-- THAIRI...............09/01/16........09/06/16......10/11/16......--/--/-- MECHANICALSHASTA.....09/01/16........09/16/16......11/03/16......--/--/-- 9/26/17 Infopass stamp exp 9/25/18 TEXANS_99............09/01/16........09/06/16......10/14/16......--/--/-- 9/22/17 Infopass stamp exp 9/21/18 DIMPLES2x............09/01/16........09/02/16......--/--/16......--/--/-- COLGIL...............09/06/16........09/08/16......10/31/16......--/--/-- PUNTER13.............09/06/16........09/09/16......10/14/16......--/--/-- TEE328CEE............09/07/16........09/16/16......10/12/16......--/--/-- 4444510..............09/08/16........09/09/17......10/12/16......--/--/-- NADESHDA.............09/09/16........09/13/16......10/12/16......--/--/-- ARDALLAS.............09/09/16........09/12/16......10/11/16......10/25/17 (Approved with N400) KETTLEFISH...........09/09/16........09/13/16......10/13/16......--/--/-- 3/08/17 Infopass exp 12/8/17 YVY23................09/09/16........09/13/16......11/01/16......--/--/-- 10/26/17 Infopass BING2K...............09/11/16........09/14/16......10/13/16......--/--/-- 10/12/17 Infopass exp 10/12/18 DGREENING............09/12/16........09/15/16......10/14/16......--/--/-- SARAH&MARC...........09/12/16........09/24/16......10/14/16......--/--/-- TDCK83...............09/12/16........09/17/16......--/--/16......--/--/-- FAY2017..............09/13/16........09/24/16......10/12/16......--/--/-- FRALIFAY.............09/13/16........09/19/16......10/17/16......--/--/-- 10/16/17 Infopass exp 4/16/18 CDNRN................09/13/16........09/16/16......11/03/16......--/--/-- OZGIRL1981...........09/13/16........09/16/16......10/13/16......--/--/-- 09/25/17 Infopass exp 6/25/18 HARAMI...............09/14/16........09/20/16......10/11/16......--/--/--(BIO EARLY-DIFF STATE 10/04/2016) SADSTORIES...........09/14/16........09/16/16......11/01/16......--/--/-- 9/20/17 Infopass (joint to divorce) MAYDE................09/14/16........09/16/16......11/01/16......--/--/-- ZULUWETA.............09/14/16........09/15/16......--/--/16......--/--/-- HANAMERICANA.........09/14/16........09/15/16......10/12/16......--/--/-- KCMO.................09/16/16........09/19/16......11/03/16......--/--/-- JIMLEEN..............09/16/16........09/16/16......10/13/16......--/--/-- SIDELCAMPEADOR.......--/--/--........09/21/16......10/18/16......--/--/-- FRIENDLYUSA..........09/17/16........09/23/16......10/12/16......--/--/-- BRUNOGAVA............09/--/16........09/20/16......--/--/16......--/--/-- CLWA.................09/20/16........09/23/16......12/16/16......--/--/--(BIO letter not sent or lost by USPS.) VICKY86..............09/20/16........--/--/--......--/--/--......--/--/-- BOMZY............... 09/22/16........09/27/16......11/20/16......--/--/-- LALA1................09/23/16........--/--/16......--/--/16......--/--/-- NOWAY123456..........09/23/16........09/26/16......--/--/16......--/--/-- MDX81................09/24/16........--/--/16......--/--/16......--/--/-- KETSUBAN.............09/26/16........09/28/16......11/14/16......--/--/-- 10/30/2017 Infopass QP2017...............09/26/16........10/26/16......11/08/16......--/--/-- BFP Xx...............09/27/16........10/03/16......11/07/16......--/--/-- WINGNUTFISH..........09/27/16........11/03/16......--/--/16......--/--/-- (Filed again 11/01. lost by USCIS) BECKEPAUL06..........09/28/16........09/30/16......11/08/16......--/--/-- FARIHAK..............09/28/16........10/03/16......11/08/16......--/--/-- SUNGTORY.............--/--/--........09/22/16......11/07/16......--/--/-- LILIDEYAN............09/30/16........10/21/16......11/08/16......--/--/-- 10/18/17 Infopass exp 4/18/18 Vermont Service Center (40 applicants, 35 approved - 87.5%) VJName.............Date of I-751.....NOA1 Date....Biometrics.....Approved ROBM913..............08/24/16........09/02/16......10/03/16......08/11/17 YASHMIN..............09/01/16........09/06/16......10/03/16......08/08/17 BABY-PIE.............09/01/16........09/06/16......10/04/16......07/31/17 USMAN104.............09/06/16........09/09/16......10/14/16......08/11/17 HOLMDEL..............09/06/16........09/12/16......10/17/16......09/13/17 B&G..................09/09/16........09/17/16......10/14/16......08/07/17 MASSBOY617...........09/09/16........09/12/16......10/11/16......08/15/17 AMITS................09/11/16........09/14/16......10/11/16......08/31/17 A&L2017..............09/12/16........09/19/16......10/17/16......09/28/17 DWMSKL...............09/12/16........09/15/16......10/20/16......08/21/17 SURGFORCE............09/12/16........--/--/--......--/--/--......08/11/17 TAandNA..............09/13/16........09/20/16......10/20/16......08/07/17 TANIAC...............09/13/16........09/20/16......10/21/16......10/13/17 AUTRE VIE............--/--/--........09/13/16......--/--/--......08/28/17 (Divorce waiver) AVAYA................--/--/--........09/14/16......10/--/16......10/30/17 02/--/17 Infopass exp 02/--/18 BLABLY...............--/--/--........09/15/16......10/19/16......09/15/17 (Divorce) STACKERIA............09/14/16........09/16/16......10/17/16......08/15/17 JOHNDOE82............09/14/16........09/16/16......10/17/16......08/18/17 (walk-in/rescheduling) BEGINNING777.........09/14/16........09/20/16......10/14/16......08/28/17 CATHYMAC.............09/14/16........09/26/16......10/27/16......--/--/-- DUDEINTRIBECA........09/15/16........09/19/16......10/17/16......09/11/17 SARAH___NICHELLE.....09/15/16........--/--/--......--/--/--......08/31/17 TRAVELER101..........09/16/16........09/20/16......10/19/16......--/--/-- (BIO EARLY 10/14/2016) JPTL85...............09/16/16........09/19/16......10/18/16......08/24/17 INGRID28.............09/17/16........09/20/16......10/20/16......10/23/17 CANGREJA.............--/--/--........09/22/16......10/18/16......09/26/17 DINOSAUR2013.........09/19/16........09/22/16......10/17/16......10/06/17 AKG25................09/19/16........09/23/16......10/24/16......--/--/-- ARPIT25..............--/--/--........09/23/16......10/24/16......10/06/17 ANLY8872.............--/--/--........09/23/16......11/04/16......10/12/17 TVF..................09/19/16........09/19/16......--/--/16......09/06/17 STEVE&ANNA...........09/19/16........09/22/16......10/18/16......08/21/17 MAGGIE&JAYSON........09/20/16........--/--/16......--/--/16......--/--/-- USA_DZA..............09/25/16........09/28/16......--/--/--......08/28/17 SCHULLEY.............09/26/16........09/30/16......10/31/16......08/23/17 STEFKE...............09/27/16........10/07/16......--/--/--......--/--/-- HEATHERANDTEZZ.......09/29/16........10/06/16......--/--/16......09/08/17 LILI13...............09/29/16........10/03/16......11/04/16......08/30/17 DANICA1..............09/30/16........09/30/16......11/01/16......08/31/17 DAROD85..............--/--/--........09/30/16......10/21/16......08/24/17 * Make sure that your VJ Text Editor setting is set to Rich Text Editor. * Go to the MOST RECENTLY POSTED VERSION of this list (go to the last post and scroll UP) and "Reply" to it, deleting the "quote" tags in your reply. * Please DO NOT change the font, font size, add colors, stuff like that. * Please PREVIEW before posting to make sure it is properly formatted. * Please check that you have not deleted anyone's NAME & DATA. 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So she doesn't have her green card yet? Do WHATEVER it takes to pull your affidavit of support... Get an infopass appointment, send a letter, call them. If you pull your affidavit then you don't have to worry about what to do at an interview. If you aren't successful doing that, tell her you aren't attending the interview and don't go. WHATEVER you do, do NOT lie.
 
I do have one question for you, why are you still married if it's been 10 months and she hasn't lived with you and doesn't intend to?

So she doesn't have her green card yet? Do WHATEVER it takes to pull your affidavit of support... Get an infopass appointment, send a letter, call them. If you pull your affidavit then you don't have to worry about what to do at an interview. If you aren't successful doing that, tell her you aren't attending the interview and don't go. WHATEVER you do, do NOT lie.
 
I do have one question for you, why are you still married if it's been 10 months and she hasn't lived with you and doesn't intend to?

So she doesn't have her green card yet? Do WHATEVER it takes to pull your affidavit of support... Get an infopass appointment, send a letter, call them. If you pull your affidavit then you don't have to worry about what to do at an interview. If you aren't successful doing that, tell her you aren't attending the interview and don't go. WHATEVER you do, do NOT lie.
 
I do have one question for you, why are you still married if it's been 10 months and she hasn't lived with you and doesn't intend to?

So she doesn't have her green card yet? Do WHATEVER it takes to pull your affidavit of support... Get an infopass appointment, send a letter, call them. If you pull your affidavit then you don't have to worry about what to do at an interview. If you aren't successful doing that, tell her you aren't attending the interview and don't go. WHATEVER you do, do NOT lie.
 
I do have one question for you, why are you still married if it's been 10 months and she hasn't lived with you and doesn't intend to?

So she doesn't have her green card yet? Do WHATEVER it takes to pull your affidavit of support... Get an infopass appointment, send a letter, call them. If you pull your affidavit then you don't have to worry about what to do at an interview. If you aren't successful doing that, tell her you aren't attending the interview and don't go. WHATEVER you do, do NOT lie.
 
I do have one question for you, why are you still married if it's been 10 months and she hasn't lived with you and doesn't intend to?

You don't show, I believe it's game over. But do everyone else who's waiting for an interview the favor of withdrawing your affidavit. That will result in her interview slot being freed up for someone else who might actually deserve their green card.

So she doesn't have her green card yet? Do WHATEVER it takes to pull your affidavit of support... Get an infopass appointment, send a letter, call them. If you pull your affidavit then you don't have to worry about what to do at an interview. If you aren't successful doing that, tell her you aren't attending the interview and don't go. WHATEVER you do, do NOT lie.
 
I do have one question for you, why are you still married if it's been 10 months and she hasn't lived with you and doesn't intend to?

So she doesn't have her green card yet? Do WHATEVER it takes to pull your affidavit of support... Get an infopass appointment, send a letter, call them. If you pull your affidavit then you don't have to worry about what to do at an interview. If you aren't successful doing that, tell her you aren't attending the interview and don't go. WHATEVER you do, do NOT lie.
 
I do have one question for you, why are you still married if it's been 10 months and she hasn't lived with you and doesn't intend to?

You don't show, I believe it's game over. But do everyone else who's waiting for an interview the favor of withdrawing your affidavit. That will result in her interview slot being freed up for someone else who might actually deserve their green card.

So she doesn't have her green card yet? Do WHATEVER it takes to pull your affidavit of support... Get an infopass appointment, send a letter, call them. If you pull your affidavit then you don't have to worry about what to do at an interview. If you aren't successful doing that, tell her you aren't attending the interview and don't go. WHATEVER you do, do NOT lie.
 
I do have one question for you, why are you still married if it's been 10 months and she hasn't lived with you and doesn't intend to?

First things first, pull your affidavit of support. If you don't, you can be held legally liable if she receives means tested benefits for years (depends on her and her work ethic). Besides if she really burned you that bad, you probably wouldn't mind wrecking her happily ever after like she did yours. No affidavit = no green card = bye bye (in theory). After you do that, than worry about getting a divorce. But be aware, if she figures out that she actually does need you, she might be willing to say or do whatever it takes to get you back or to make a VAWA claim stick. After you pull the affidavit, then file for divorce.

First things first, pull your affidavit of support. If you don't, you can be held legally liable if she receives means tested benefits for years (depends on her and her work ethic). Besides if she really burned you that bad, you probably wouldn't mind wrecking her happily ever after like she did yours. No affidavit = no green card = bye bye (in theory). After you do that, than worry about getting a divorce. But be aware, if she figures out that she actually does need you, she might be willing to say or do whatever it takes to get you back or to make a VAWA claim stick. After you pull the affidavit, then file for divorce.

You don't show, I believe it's game over. But do everyone else who's waiting for an interview the favor of withdrawing your affidavit. That will result in her interview slot being freed up for someone else who might actually deserve their green card.

Two things: one I work for the USPS and do some hiring... Different district than the OP. My comments in no way are meant to represent or speak for the Postal Service. But as a person, I would  like to apologize for the way the OP was treated. It sounds like they could have been treated with WAY more dignity and class. Second for corvusheart, the USPS doesn't turn applications over to the USCIS unless there's an actual investigation... Miss applying wouldn't trigger an investigation. We get so many applications that reviewing all those that have been withdrawn would slow the process and provide no real benefit to the postal service. If your husband had been hired, there's an actual background check that the Postal Inspectors run with the FBI. And if he would have marked that he was a citizen on that form, then there might have been follow up. But at the application stage of the game, I wouldn't be concerned at all.