Rafael+Felicia

I'm not doubting your relationship, neither do I have anything against your filing AOS, just said what I have read on this forum couples of time, maybe it's misinformation, but I never doubt anyone relationship. Good luck my friend

Smiles! That's a great way to say carry you load yourself... Heaven helps those who helps themselves

Was she ready to divorce her (so called ex), if yes, then you can seat down and talk about it. For the sake of your children.

Thank you guys.
Good luck to us all

My experience... It has its up and down, when you are sad for sitting down at home (as I have been doing since have been here) but when I look at my daughter and the smile on her face... I will say to myself... She has a better future. Things ain't what we all think it will be... As a Nigerian, most of your friends thinks money grows on tree and when you receive a call from home... The first question is "have you start working?" I have to explain the situation to them.
But overall, you know at the back of your mind, the children you are giving birth to are born of love and they have a future ahead of them.. If you train them well.
I was a logistic manager for 10 years and the boredom of not working can weigh one down.
We live in Canton MI and we just enjoy ourselves with whatever moment we find ourselves.
My wife tried to find me some local food, which of course cost more... But the pleasure she deprive from giving me a feeling of Nigeria put smiles on her face.
Do I miss home? Yes!!!
Do I wanna go back? If my wife and children will follow me back... Yes
Do I believe that things are gonna change soon? Of course... It's all time
Am I happy? Happiness is what you create from what faces you in life
Am I enjoying the US? You can not but enjoy the fact that the best people in your life is with you... Is not really the US, its the people and reason you are here that you can always and should always enjoy
And trust me... Your fiancé will enjoy it with time

My opinion... If he is still in India and you guys only talk on Skype and etc... It's a sign of things to come. I'm not saying you are been scammed (which is a possibility), but I'm saying if he goes out with another lady bcos he is bored... When he gets here, his boredom has just began and you will be surprised that he will go out with a friend of yours.
As other people as said... Have a genuine chat with him, plus I'm sure you know that in India there are arrange marriages, whether your fiancé loves the lady or not... He will bow to the pressure. And finally, take your time to see if that's really what you wanted, if his mom don't like/loves you now... It will be difficult to win her love later, which will affect the relationship in the future if there is one.
I know love is blind... But right now you can see

My experience... It has its up and down, when you are sad for sitting down at home (as I have been doing since have been here) but when I look at my daughter and the smile on her face... I will say to myself... She has a better future. Things ain't what we all think it will be... As a Nigerian, most of your friends thinks money grows on tree and when you receive a call from home... The first question is "have you start working?" I have to explain the situation to them.
But overall, you know at the back of your mind, the children you are giving birth to are born of love and they have a future ahead of them.. If you train them well.
I was a logistic manager for 10 years and the boredom of not working can weigh one down.
We live in Canton MI and we just enjoy ourselves with whatever moment we find ourselves.
My wife tried to find me some local food, which of course cost more... But the pleasure she deprive from giving me a feeling of Nigeria put smiles on her face.
Do I miss home? Yes!!!
Do I wanna go back? If my wife and children will follow me back... Yes
Do I believe that things are gonna change soon? Of course... It's all time
Am I happy? Happiness is what you create from what faces you in life
Am I enjoying the US? You can not but enjoy the fact that the best people in your life is with you... Is not really the US, its the people and reason you are here that you can always and should always enjoy
And trust me... Your fiancé will enjoy it with time

My opinion... If he is still in India and you guys only talk on Skype and etc... It's a sign of things to come. I'm not saying you are been scammed (which is a possibility), but I'm saying if he goes out with another lady bcos he is bored... When he gets here, his boredom has just began and you will be surprised that he will go out with a friend of yours.
As other people as said... Have a genuine chat with him, plus I'm sure you know that in India there are arrange marriages, whether your fiancé loves the lady or not... He will bow to the pressure. And finally, take your time to see if that's really what you wanted, if his mom don't like/loves you now... It will be difficult to win her love later, which will affect the relationship in the future if there is one.
I know love is blind... But right now you can see