morocco4ever

Wow, this is so sad. I don't come here often any more, but I read your post and had to say something.
Any marriage is a challenge, and add a different culture into the factor can make it even that much harder. But there is no excuse for his behavior. To an outsider it appears that he is only using you for conveniences. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but I have seen so many women fall into this trap. Then to top it off, you have a child together. That makes your decision much harder indeed.
Getting him out of the house is not exactly easy. He will try the "you brought me here, and now you throw me out with no place to go?" guilt trip. Personally I prefer to "get straight to the point" and tell him you want him gone. But that doesn't work for everyone.
I like the person that suggested that you do nothing for him. In fact, don't even have food in the house. Take you and your daughter some where else to get food. Don't give him money for anything. It would be interesting to see how long he has no where else to go when he isn't getting anything he desires from home.
Never forget, there are much worse things in life than growing up without a father in your life. Keep that in mind as you make your decision. He sounds like a total A$$ wipe!

Wow, this is so sad. I don't come here often any more, but I read your post and had to say something.
Any marriage is a challenge, and add a different culture into the factor can make it even that much harder. But there is no excuse for his behavior. To an outsider it appears that he is only using you for conveniences. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but I have seen so many women fall into this trap. Then to top it off, you have a child together. That makes your decision much harder indeed.
Getting him out of the house is not exactly easy. He will try the "you brought me here, and now you throw me out with no place to go?" guilt trip. Personally I prefer to "get straight to the point" and tell him you want him gone. But that doesn't work for everyone.
I like the person that suggested that you do nothing for him. In fact, don't even have food in the house. Take you and your daughter some where else to get food. Don't give him money for anything. It would be interesting to see how long he has no where else to go when he isn't getting anything he desires from home.
Never forget, there are much worse things in life than growing up without a father in your life. Keep that in mind as you make your decision. He sounds like a total A$$ wipe!

Was it a legal marriage, or an orfi marriage? That could make a significant difference.

lol.....just stopped in to see what's new. Apparently nothing. *waves*

painintheass!