My husband is nigerian, and yes has been here for a while as you can see in my timeline. He does not display those traits at all. Please don't make excuses for people who are behaving poorly, they will only do as much as you allow. You should be in a relationship where you do not feel abused and you feel open to expressing yourself. You should be able to talk to your husband because he should be your best friend. Ultimately someone who does not care about how much they hurt you is not one for you. Nigerian men can be loving and there is no one size fits all, there are several men from other nationalities who behave the same way. I wish you well and please understand that you only have one life to live, don't waste time and moments on someone who is not worth your time. Only you can determine that. You stated that this only started a year and a half ago, I don't know how long you have been together but if you did have some good times then perhaps, you guys can try to sit and figure out if being married is what you both want and establish boundaries of acceptable/unacceptable behaviors.
S&S got a reaction from believe in No bashing please...just curious...