Wicker Park

Well regardless with what this forum is for, the topic is somewhat interlaced with a K-1 visa and personal opinions and beliefs. Reading a few posts about the fiance purposely telling you about the child this late... is in a way a problem. You see when you lie about something, you cover it with more lies and more and more...and things become ridiculous enough, that when you are in love you will believe it anyway. What if she is in love with her "friend" and wants a child with him now because in the future she wants to bring him to the US? What if she loves the friend and wants to have a child with him but for you to be the husband? What if she drugged him?
Here is something you should definitely think about...and my take if she was in love with you and you guys had time off...why in the world is she having sex with anyone else?....she put herself in that situation. If she is not capable of pushing those types of "friends" away from her life because she is in love with you...what is going to happen next. Based on everything said from you it seems like a very strong emotional toll on you that you wont be able to handle...I wouldn't! A child from another man....especially during the time we both had mutual feelings towards one another...together or not during that time....I'd walk out the door. Don't take responsibility for something this deep. Financial problems or medical thats on issue....but a child from another man in her life...you will never be able to forgive her for doing this to you on you "break apart."

Well regardless with what this forum is for, the topic is somewhat interlaced with a K-1 visa and personal opinions and beliefs. Reading a few posts about the fiance purposely telling you about the child this late... is in a way a problem. You see when you lie about something, you cover it with more lies and more and more...and things become ridiculous enough, that when you are in love you will believe it anyway. What if she is in love with her "friend" and wants a child with him now because in the future she wants to bring him to the US? What if she loves the friend and wants to have a child with him but for you to be the husband? What if she drugged him?
Here is something you should definitely think about...and my take if she was in love with you and you guys had time off...why in the world is she having sex with anyone else?....she put herself in that situation. If she is not capable of pushing those types of "friends" away from her life because she is in love with you...what is going to happen next. Based on everything said from you it seems like a very strong emotional toll on you that you wont be able to handle...I wouldn't! A child from another man....especially during the time we both had mutual feelings towards one another...together or not during that time....I'd walk out the door. Don't take responsibility for something this deep. Financial problems or medical thats on issue....but a child from another man in her life...you will never be able to forgive her for doing this to you on you "break apart."

Well regardless with what this forum is for, the topic is somewhat interlaced with a K-1 visa and personal opinions and beliefs. Reading a few posts about the fiance purposely telling you about the child this late... is in a way a problem. You see when you lie about something, you cover it with more lies and more and more...and things become ridiculous enough, that when you are in love you will believe it anyway. What if she is in love with her "friend" and wants a child with him now because in the future she wants to bring him to the US? What if she loves the friend and wants to have a child with him but for you to be the husband? What if she drugged him?
Here is something you should definitely think about...and my take if she was in love with you and you guys had time off...why in the world is she having sex with anyone else?....she put herself in that situation. If she is not capable of pushing those types of "friends" away from her life because she is in love with you...what is going to happen next. Based on everything said from you it seems like a very strong emotional toll on you that you wont be able to handle...I wouldn't! A child from another man....especially during the time we both had mutual feelings towards one another...together or not during that time....I'd walk out the door. Don't take responsibility for something this deep. Financial problems or medical thats on issue....but a child from another man in her life...you will never be able to forgive her for doing this to you on you "break apart."

Well regardless with what this forum is for, the topic is somewhat interlaced with a K-1 visa and personal opinions and beliefs. Reading a few posts about the fiance purposely telling you about the child this late... is in a way a problem. You see when you lie about something, you cover it with more lies and more and more...and things become ridiculous enough, that when you are in love you will believe it anyway. What if she is in love with her "friend" and wants a child with him now because in the future she wants to bring him to the US? What if she loves the friend and wants to have a child with him but for you to be the husband? What if she drugged him?
Here is something you should definitely think about...and my take if she was in love with you and you guys had time off...why in the world is she having sex with anyone else?....she put herself in that situation. If she is not capable of pushing those types of "friends" away from her life because she is in love with you...what is going to happen next. Based on everything said from you it seems like a very strong emotional toll on you that you wont be able to handle...I wouldn't! A child from another man....especially during the time we both had mutual feelings towards one another...together or not during that time....I'd walk out the door. Don't take responsibility for something this deep. Financial problems or medical thats on issue....but a child from another man in her life...you will never be able to forgive her for doing this to you on you "break apart."