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    madtownguy got a reaction from Rob&Pan in How to ensure you have a clear lungs?   
    I'm afraid you're all wrong. TB and any other disease the US checks for can be easily cured with clorox bleach. Just one cup full cleans the system right up, nothing will show up on any xrays...
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    madtownguy got a reaction from Najee & Maan in visa denied...   
    Sounds to me like she still has a relationship with the kids Dad. They might be saving you from a mistake, possibly not, but she definitely was seeing him while talking with you in the beginning. I would hire an investigator and make sure before you spend more money and time she is being honest with you. It's pretty obvious why they denied it. You have to do what you think is best.
    For those worried about an upcoming interview, my wife wasn't asked any questions she could get wrong. We submitted no photos, she brought some the day of her interview and he didn't look at them. We did submit hundreds of pages of chat. She was told it was approved at the embassy and she would see her passport in the future. The guy was really cool and she answered a question wrong but it was so open ended, what do I like to do for fun? She couldn't possibly know with out living with me. She said fishing because of a photo, but I didn't even own a fishing pole. They aren't interrogating you, it's just a quick friendly conversation with everyone that I've heard of.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from Unlockable in wife wants me to support her family   
    Dude I'd throw out the divorce card, if she wants it then move on. You got a rotten egg in my opinion. Dowry's don't really happen anymore, if they tried to convince you of that their heart wasn't in the right place. I didn't send my wife a dime before she came to U.S., she only got money to help with visa process like $100 for hotel and photos and stuff. When my wife visits home she literally will spend under $100 in 3 weeks. Don't let her wrap you around your finger dude, there's too many fish in the sea. My wife pulls the live with friend card to get a job and make money, and I pull the just don't come back card because someone else will have your side of the bed in a few days. I don't play those drama games.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from Merrytooth in wife wants me to support her family   
    Dude I'd throw out the divorce card, if she wants it then move on. You got a rotten egg in my opinion. Dowry's don't really happen anymore, if they tried to convince you of that their heart wasn't in the right place. I didn't send my wife a dime before she came to U.S., she only got money to help with visa process like $100 for hotel and photos and stuff. When my wife visits home she literally will spend under $100 in 3 weeks. Don't let her wrap you around your finger dude, there's too many fish in the sea. My wife pulls the live with friend card to get a job and make money, and I pull the just don't come back card because someone else will have your side of the bed in a few days. I don't play those drama games.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from Ksenia_O in Married a wrong person!!!   
    You can file divorce from India if you really want. Odds are your partner will file once they get a clue. Sorry it didn't work out.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from marryingparis in Married a wrong person!!!   
    You can file divorce from India if you really want. Odds are your partner will file once they get a clue. Sorry it didn't work out.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from mallafri76 in HELP FAST.. we didnt get married now she is traveling   
    There's millions of illegals in our country, I doubt they care much about your fiance. When she murders someone let them know... Hopefully a day comes where that changes. I would just move on and forget about her, it'll just ruin your life if you dwell on making hers harder.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from JoBri in HELP FAST.. we didnt get married now she is traveling   
    There's millions of illegals in our country, I doubt they care much about your fiance. When she murders someone let them know... Hopefully a day comes where that changes. I would just move on and forget about her, it'll just ruin your life if you dwell on making hers harder.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from IcezMan_IcezLady in Help Needed Divorced and Trying to get married!!!   
    Devils advocate, they will scrutinize the person you are marrying also. They may not see you as the problem but your choice of a significant other and being duped. Not saying it couldn't be avoided. There's a chance you will have no problems at all though.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from Unshakable Faith in False claim   
    If he got married to a US Citizen and filed AOS it would be something that could cause a problem if they knew about it. Most likely they wouldn't. So many people here illegally use fake SSN's and get away with it when it comes time to adjust status. The system is a bit flawed, what he did was illegal but in court the defense of I had to do what I had to do to provide for my family in a liberal area will sometime suffice. Nobody here can tell you what the outcome will be for sure. But everyone will agree it's not a good idea.

    I've seen the opposite. It's a ####### shoot.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from Boiler in Living Conditions in Manila, Philippines Bad for Her   
    I totally agree, they were living before a significant other came into their life and didn't die. Asking for money just is a big no no, although I know a lot that do it and have success. But I would probably have to get after my wife with her spending once she got here if she was like that, I literally basically scream at my wife sometimes to use the credit card, she still won't listen if she thinks it's a waste of money. She got stuck in China for a delay and I told her she had to pay $200 and stay at hilton near the airport, instead she decided to go free from Air China with 1 hour bus trip to the hotel. I would much rather have a complaint my wife is cheap, than ridiculous in spending habits.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from Boiler in Living Conditions in Manila, Philippines Bad for Her   
    Seriously you are basically posting asking how to make money? If you can't afford to help her there's nothing you can do. I would be very careful, there's a lot of girls just looking for money, my wife never once asked me to send her money. When she visits the Philippines she literally spends under $100 USD for 3 weeks and that is with an unlimited credit card she can use anytime. IMO any girl complaining about needing more money is a huge red flag.
    Someone posted you're looking for help finding a better place, but if your GF has no job doesn't she have a ton of time to look for something like that?
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    madtownguy got a reaction from Unidentified in Living Conditions in Manila, Philippines Bad for Her   
    I totally agree, they were living before a significant other came into their life and didn't die. Asking for money just is a big no no, although I know a lot that do it and have success. But I would probably have to get after my wife with her spending once she got here if she was like that, I literally basically scream at my wife sometimes to use the credit card, she still won't listen if she thinks it's a waste of money. She got stuck in China for a delay and I told her she had to pay $200 and stay at hilton near the airport, instead she decided to go free from Air China with 1 hour bus trip to the hotel. I would much rather have a complaint my wife is cheap, than ridiculous in spending habits.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from Romet in Waiting for AOS - Lost UK Passport   
    Dude you lost your passport? You aren't in the system now, you're basically a Jason Bourne and will be hunted down by the government. That or you could just go get a new passport at your Embassy, or if that's too far I would guess they have travel dates. It shouldn't affect your AOS, it could slow it down if it is required at some point but you will just need to get one. Odds are you will get your green card in the mail and nobody will know about the passport. I would work on getting your replacement. Unless your address changed, no need to report to USCIS. Good luck.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from IcezMan_IcezLady in Take a Cruise while change of status pending   
    Things have changed, I would imagine ports have different degrees of difficulty. I can tell you my wife and I went with AP or advanced parole on a cruise once and we were detained in a holding cell for an hour while they figured out exactly what it was. I would bet that she isn't let back into the country. The ports are just guarded better now a days. I can't speak for all of them but in Cape Canaveral I'd say 99.9% they will hold her until deportation. It's not worth the risk IMO.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from Joshua@Tinz in Parents blocked her from coming   
    Yikes, I'm sorry OP but I will put money on problems in your next relationship too. With out even reading anything in this thread it's pretty common Asians have a bit of a dowry system, it doesn't totally exist anymore but in ways it still does. Also the bar girl thing is a red flag, there may be some who disagree, but with all the girls available in the world, you picked a prostitute to try and marry? I personally think there is a lot more to the story, I also would caution that you are trying to fix a mistake by doing things exactly the same way you did things that got you into the first mistake. There are many beautiful, kind, caring girls in the Philippines, but all women are crazy in every country all over the world so you have to be aware of that going into it. I think you are also better of meeting a girl in the mall or something rather than online, the girls online more often have hidden agendas.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from Cheezees in My father is blackmailing me   
    You should just ignore it. The FBI has far more important things to do than worry about family bickering. Anyone in the world could email and say bad things about you to USCIC, why don't you wait until after it happens to worry about something that will likely not happen and even if it does end up in the garbage bin.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from Unidentified in Is Facebook Really Needed?   
    FB is the devil, stay away from it as long as possible!
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    madtownguy got a reaction from cholakova in Overstay, help! Will my husbands visa be denied?   
    Yes there is a chance he won't be denied. Anything is possible. I don't understand why you guys got married and then he left the U.S. If he was still here it would make it easier on you. Maybe I missed something. Good luck.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from AKteacher in Broken hearted   
    Going to work in Pampanga would have been a red flag in my book. Most likely going to work as a bar girl. There's plenty more out there, just keep swinging.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from Cyberfx1024 in Broken hearted   
    I didn't say all girls are, but going there for work is odd as there are almost no jobs there. If a girl grew up there I don't see it as a red flag. My wife is from a village in Pampanga and she would say the same thing if she heard a girl going for work there. They tend to be working at the bars. It would also make sense in her change of attitude. As for what is wrong with a bar girl that is for everyone to decide on their own, I wouldn't be with a prostitute in a relationship under any circumstances. It may seem great but Pretty Woman was just a movie and odds are it will never work in real life.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from diwanrayan in my life is over , i just got released from jail, i'm innocent, husband he did it   
    Don't you have any family? Maybe they can get you a ticket to your country? Relationships don't always work, I would move on and try to get away from this drama as soon as possible. You are worried about what he might do or what might happen, just step away from the situation and move on.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from Shauna&Wael in Denied entry and sent back on the next plane.   
    They can do a heck of a lot more than that.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from Unidentified in Denied entry and sent back on the next plane.   
    They can do a heck of a lot more than that.
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    madtownguy got a reaction from Kim Mertens in Denied entry and sent back on the next plane.   
    They can do a heck of a lot more than that.
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