MrsOyetunji

I would like to chip in one advise here. when the CO asked whats your future plan, you don't need to talk much so as for you not to complicate yourself. short and genuine answer is enough. for example, if the CO ask me such questions. i would only say, my future plan is to get married , have a lovely kids ,always be there for my hubby and to grow old together till we die. that is all. but when you said to send u back to school,bla bla and so on it complicates matter. remember this in your next interview, be it spousal or any kind of visa. but for me, I would advise you to get married and then apply for CR-1 Spousal, because i have read about people who got denied on K1 and got married and then got approved for their spousal visa

Congrats..

Lets hope for the best and am pretty sure we will have more approvals very soon

Although am not very sure but i think the day starts counting from the day you receive the NOA1.

Congrats Gowon

you can file straight away

Posted Today, 11:06 AM
Nancan, on 04 November 2012 - 10:51 AM, said:
Feeling dumb as hell right now. Called my fiance last night to tell him about a horrible day at work, he said kinda short I'm in the shower I will call you back, so I never got to tell him why I was calling..... he didn't call me back. I understood he was getting ready for church , so I let it go. So this morning I text my fiance told him I had a horrible day at work yesterday, it was so bad i didn't get to study, but I promised I would go to church early today, asked what should I do. he wrote back, it's too early to have had such a bad day, all will end in praise. I thought, wow that didn't make sense. So I felt snubbed, not once from last night, but twice now. So I called my ex to discuss the work issue( he is a nurse like me.), who promptly began to tell me how dumb I was for beli
eving the intentions of my fiance, that it is almost assured that once he able to leave, he will do so. I have always disregarded what my ex would say because I felt an honest connection to my fiance and was/am head over heels in love with him and his kindness. To add insult to injury, the other day my fiances sister made fun of my weight in front of me to him and it hurt very much. I discussed it with him but it just made me feel a little doubt, even though he apologized for his sister's actions. So back to this morning, after speaking to my ex, I text my fiance and asked him to swear before God that his intentions are true, he has not responded, it's been over and hour. Am I being too sensitive? Am I watching the clock a little too closely? I'm feeling super stupid right now....
The whole situation sounds a little overly dramatic. All I will state is this: if you have doubts, trust your gut instincts. Nigeria is the #1 country in the world regarding fraud- or any kind. That said, it doesn't mean you're on that boat. Just do your research and use an objective eye for these issues. It's hard, but not impossible. Don't feel stupid; love is the worst delusion. We all suffer from being love sick at some point in our lives. Some, suffer all their lives.
I would say shut up your mouth for saying Nigeria is the #1 country in fraud. for your information my husband do have egyptian friends and many have duped him before and my husband is a Nigerian, that does not mean all egyptians are fraudsters neither does it mean all Nigerians are fraudsters. what about if another person said Egypt is a terrorist country, are we going to say they are incorrect, ofcourse they are. they are bunch of craps in Egypt, but i will be a fool to say because Egyptians are terrorist then someone's else relationship or marriage might be bad because of this. so if you don't know how to advise, is better you keep shut and don't say a damn word.
To Nancan, my advise to you is to check your heart, the country where your hubby come from or your fiance comes from does not matter,what matter is the type of person he is, I have read about a British who got married and divorced after months, likewise Americans getting married to fellow Americans and ending up in divorce.So country does not matter, it might be you are doubting him because of where he comes from, though there may be many bad things happening there but that does not mean all of them are bad. look into the situation very well, pray about it , as prayer is the key to solve all problems, check your heart very well to see if you truly love him, look at his behavior very well and see if he truly loves you. as have said earlier with prayers everything is simple. don't be mad because his sister made fun of you because of your weight, be proud of whom you are, having weight is not a bad thing, and as you have said, he apologized for what his sister did, so thats still fine. Unable to reply you does not mean that he is lieing, he may be lieing or may not. but is you that will know as your heart will never deceive you. Please look at the situation very well before you decide what you want to do. As nobody knows when you guys met, so don't let anybody give you a wrong advise, this is your life, you must face it by yourself and last time, be prayerful .

Posted Today, 05:53 AM
Congrats!!! By the way, it probably won't take 15 days to receive her visa. My Husband's only took 2 days! His interview was October 15th in Kiev also, and by Wednesday it was ready.
@ Aem915 ,your husband is a Nigerian and he got his visa in ukraine where he lives? please my question is, can a beneficial get interview in a third country even if he is not a citizen of the country but he is legal in that country ? my husband is also a Nigerian but he is legal and live in Russia,I contacted Russian embassy and they said yes he can have the interview at the Moscow Embassy, I just want to be all sure. sorry to disturb you Aem

Posted Today, 05:53 AM
Congrats!!! By the way, it probably won't take 15 days to receive her visa. My Husband's only took 2 days! His interview was October 15th in Kiev also, and by Wednesday it was ready.
@ Aem915 ,your husband is a Nigerian and he got his visa in ukraine where he lives? please my question is, can a beneficial get interview in a third country even if he is not a citizen of the country but he is legal in that country ? my husband is also a Nigerian but he is legal and live in Russia,I contacted Russian embassy and they said yes he can have the interview at the Moscow Embassy, I just want to be all sure. sorry to disturb you Aem