AstaMarisa

This is not really true. Without her husband signing forms G-28, G-325A, I-864, Murysa's application for her adjustment of status is not completed. I don't know how your wife got a bank account here just two days after her arrival. I guess Murysa doesn't have a SSN yet either.
That happens, the US citizen spouse takes control of the foreign spouse by refusing to file or delaying filing the paperwork, which they are supposed to do.

the 30 day military id is good. this is just while they check the story. And get any "paperwork" he claims to have for divorce. If I were him I would be worried. He is threatening you so you will stay off base. Stay in contact with the people who gave yo uthe military id, find out when it will become permanent. Talk to the provo office about his behavior. Him calling CPS is bad for him. CPS nearly always favors the wife or the mother. Your predicament is NOT something he wants CPS to get involved in. CPS WILL help you very, very much. When you explain you situation to them, he will be in more trouble then he wants.
He probably swore an oth that you and him were divorced. He is in deep trouble. JAG, security, and others probably WANT to talk with you and INTERVIEW you to know the situation. Keeping you away from base is HELPING him. Like others have said have someone with you. record on phone, mp3 recorder, or otherwise. Records his conversations. These will haunt him later. If this guy continues down this path with you, he will lose heavily in court in many ways. I hope it all works out for you and him in whichever way is going on. Make sure those who gave you the military id know how to find you, and know where you are. Work with the JAG, and Provo's office. as well as base security. If he has been saying he is divorced on base and is not, he could be in a peck of trouble....

I'm sure you would believe his side because that is what is going on right now. But actually his side is heard and mine is silent. That's why I'm still here with no papers.

Incorrect. If she takes the child without a letter SPECIFICALLY stating that he is permitting the child to relocate she can be charge with international child kidnapping. He can claim she was just going to "visit" with the child. Not to mention some airlines won't let you board without a current letter giving permission to travel with the child. He can also put a hold on the passport stating he's worried she's going to "run away" with the baby. Having a letter stating he knew she was moving with the child, and gave permission for it, protects her.

Svet, what Harpa is saying is that you need to file a VAWA petition. Based on what I and my wife have seen personally about your situation it certainly seems as though you would have a successful petition. I think you need to step back, relax, go through the VAWA petition forms and seek legal assistance. As Harpa mentioned, your "legal record" is a problem, but you will be able to explain yourself during the petition process.
http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/menuitem.eb1d4c2a3e5b9ac89243c6a7543f6d1a/?vgnextoid=b85c3e4d77d73210VgnVCM100000082ca60aRCRD&vgnextchannel=b85c3e4d77d73210VgnVCM100000082ca60aRCRD

I'm so happy for you. You've made the first major steps in the right direction by moving out and considering the divorce option. Don't let minor hiccups (like losing your military ID) get you down. It will get better from here on out. I wish you all the best.

I'm sure you would believe his side because that is what is going on right now. But actually his side is heard and mine is silent. That's why I'm still here with no papers.

i for one as you see in my timeline not have sveta here yet but was able get sveta on onr of my bank accounts maybe since i am good with my banker but there is ways if tried and a husband should be proud of his bride not so much show off but show her love and let her know he is not ashamed of her last i recall a married removes the words from mine to OURS

Если хочешь проверить русская я или нет, попроси свою жену позвонить мне. Только на скайп, потому что на мобиле денег нету, муж не заплатил. Достало если честно, 2 года терпела одного, пошла спросить как сделать документы, теперь опять виновата.
If so smart call me on skype (ask for name in message).
Honestly just ridiculous how people like to be mean. If you don't believe it why are you reading and answering?

Oh actually many people find it interesting, because when I came here I didn't speak at all. I mean AT ALL, I couldn't understand what people saying either. But I was young enough I guess, so it wasn't too hard for me to learn words from TV and use limited amount of words to explain almost everything with this limit. I also didn't have anybody to speak Russian to, so I had to learn or noone would understand me. I also had to go to hospital almost everyday talking to doctors (my son was born with the heart defect and he was in NICU for long time, and they didn't always have interpreter for me so... had to be strong and get into it). I also have a college degree so I use to learn new difficult things.. Well I don't know, I was just living here and learning from people. Thank you for your kind words and for helping.

are you even reading? When did I say I was 24 weeks? I was 38 weeks and I had to tell that I was 24 so they would let me go.
It's not an excuse, it is just something that I already said before. Read before blaming me for lying. If you don't wanna help, don't help. I
'm tired of explaining everybody why it was this way and how this happened especially to ppl who don't want to read what I'm saying.
P.S. I personally think that my situation got so bad so nobody believe me because nobody had this in their lives. But it's not why I'm here. Those who believe will give me advice and I still have a lot of questions. I don't want anybody to feel like I'm just trolling here that's why I'm answering all questions. Well most of them. I would answer more if I had time. Sitting here with 2yo and he needs attention too.

are you even reading? When did I say I was 24 weeks? I was 38 weeks and I had to tell that I was 24 so they would let me go.
It's not an excuse, it is just something that I already said before. Read before blaming me for lying. If you don't wanna help, don't help. I
'm tired of explaining everybody why it was this way and how this happened especially to ppl who don't want to read what I'm saying.
P.S. I personally think that my situation got so bad so nobody believe me because nobody had this in their lives. But it's not why I'm here. Those who believe will give me advice and I still have a lot of questions. I don't want anybody to feel like I'm just trolling here that's why I'm answering all questions. Well most of them. I would answer more if I had time. Sitting here with 2yo and he needs attention too.

Если хочешь проверить русская я или нет, попроси свою жену позвонить мне. Только на скайп, потому что на мобиле денег нету, муж не заплатил. Достало если честно, 2 года терпела одного, пошла спросить как сделать документы, теперь опять виновата.
If so smart call me on skype (ask for name in message).
Honestly just ridiculous how people like to be mean. If you don't believe it why are you reading and answering?

Get your arrest record from the police first and than you will see if you need to put it or not. Because if they just put you in the car and than let you go it means they probably didnt file any charges at that point. An arrest to me at least is when they take you to the precint and book you.

Yes, you MUST admit to your arrests AND provide documentation from the PD about them. USCIS runs FBI background checks so they can access ANY arrest, even if you were not convicted or it was expunged. If you lie, they will definitely find out and you will be accused of material misrepresentation and deported for life. So do not lie.

I think this thread has gone on for too long without anything productive being done besides trying to figure out if it's try or not and her defending her self. With that said the OP wants to know how and if she should put that she was arrested since its not on her record? I believe that you need to say yes to that question and that it should also ask if you were convicted where you should state no since the charges were dropped. You should also add a letter explaining what happened but don't make it too long or personal also if you can get a hold of the police report and a court certificate stating you have no record it would be great. I'm just stating what I would do since I am not a professional and haven't been in your situation.

it's NOT about believing her, leave that up to USCIS I really think a moderator needs to step in now! because this whole threat is about believing her story and not helping her!!!

If you use it right it can work. You have to put words one by one, like who+did what+... You can also check spelling on a computer. Or look at the dictionary if not sure how to spell. I'm already in a bottom of the hole, and I'm not digging, I'm just asking for advice. If you don't wanna help why are you here? So I sound too perfect to you? Guess what, I just came here, had my child, cooked, cleaned, learned English and tried to be a good wife. And trusted my husband as long as I could, until everybody started telling me what it could be like if he was more responsible. Yes, why are you here?

Of course because my husband isn't home, he is dating, I told you. Why is that hard to believe? He bought me a computer, it's nice of him, I never said he is a bad person, I said that he does these things and it doesn't help me to get my papers done. What's wrong with people having their bad side and a good side? My husband loved me, he sent me $400 every month when I was pregnant in Russia. Then things changed, he didn't like me anymore and started cheating. What's wrong with this logic? When I was in Russia we talked online, but come on it's different when you write and when you speak. Even at school we had English class but nobody could speak or understand. They don't teach that, it's another level. You learn faster around native speakers.

u file it honest thats the best way to go with the uscis. always be honest in ur petitions. and explain in a short way what happened : like were arrested charges been dropped.
u should can go and get the police record for ur arrest. so then u know what it says and can go by that.

murysa, check ur inbox.

Again, we have no way to know for sure that OP's story is legit but trying to poke holes in it based on her English or how domestic violence arrests work in your area is silly, IMO. I don't know what the hoopla is over her English, her written English is very similar to my husband's and almost identical to a foreign exchange student we hosted when I was in high school, who absolutely wrote that well after a year even though she didn't know a ton of English prior to coming. Again, I'm not saying the OP couldn't be lying but the best thing anyone can do is advise based on the idea that she isn't and leave it at that.
It is also clear that many people here have never been in an abusive relationship and do not understand the dynamics involved it in from either side. If you've never been there you'll never totally understand, but nothing she has said about the status of her relationship would come up as a red flag to almost anyone who has been there.
OP, obviously there is no point in continuing to hash out this thread. You've gotten advice on VAWA, I suggest you follow that if you have the evidence needed. I also suggest you contact a family law attorney. Your county may have resources for finding someone pro bono if you cannot afford one.

Not necessarily. It all depends how/when you learn. For me it was the other way around. I could write nicely in English but I had tons of trouble speaking. Why? Because I didn't have the chance to talk with other English speakers and practice it. On the other hand, I had read many books in English and watched lots of movies with captions. My written English, while not perfect or close to it, was easily 10 times better than my spoken one.
To the OP: if your story is true I sincerely hope you get the help you need. If your story is not true, shame on you for making fun of such problems.

And this has been proven many many times.