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I'm curious about the statement in bold (blue) below. Is a woman not allowed to visit her sister? Can you explain? I'm not sure if you've read Valsu's whole, twisted, sorry saga, but she didn't "just enter". She's been in the US for MONTHS and her husband didn't help her file for AOS. I also noticed in another post that you made that you stated that she should've filed herself (second quote, below). That might be difficult if she didn't bring the money with her, because she hasn't been able to work outside the home. You also seem to imply that the USC isn't obgligated to help file if the marriage is on rocky ground, though if you've read Valsu's posts, it seems that one of the main reasons IT IS on rocky ground is because he didn't making filing a priority. An the non-USC, I'd have been extremely angry at my spouse if he didn't help me file too. Women who are used to having a career may not be happy being forced into the role of homemaker.
I also feel it's extremely irresponsible for a VJ mod to suggest that it's fine not file within the suggested timeframe. Not filing on time is just asking for problems.
Seriously, it might be rude to suggest this, but as a mod I think you've been way out of line in several places in this topic.