Fight for Love

i got my answer thru USCIS just in case in the future someone wants to *ASK* similar question.
Q. What publicly funded benefits may not be considered for public charge purposes?
A. Non-cash benefits (other than institutionalization for long-term care) are generally not taken into account for purposes of a public charge determination.
Special-purpose cash assistance is also generally not taken into account for purposes of public charge determination.
Non-cash or special-purpose cash benefits are generally supplemental in nature and do not make a person primarily dependent on the government for subsistence. Therefore, past, current, or future receipt of these benefits do not impact a public charge determination. Non-cash or special purpose cash benefits that are not considered for public charge purposes include:
*Medicaid and other health insurance and health services (including public assistance for immunizations and for testing and treatment of symptoms of communicable diseases; use of health clinics, short-term rehabilitation services, and emergency medical services) other than support for long-term institutional care
*Children's Health Insurance Program (CHIP)
*Nutrition programs, including Food Stamps, the Special Supplemental Nutrition Program for Women, Infants and Children (WIC), the National School Lunch and School Breakfast Program, and other supplementary and emergency food assistance programs
*Housing benefits
*Child care services
*Energy assistance, such as the Low Income Home Energy Assistance Program (LIHEAP)
*Emergency disaster relief
*Foster care and adoption assistance
*Educational assistance (such as attending public school), including benefits under the
*Head Start Act and aid for elementary, secondary, or higher education
Job training programs
*In-kind, community-based programs, services, or assistance (such as soup kitchens, crisis counseling and intervention, and short-term shelter)
State and local programs that are similar to the federal programs listed above are also generally not considered for public charge purposes. Please be aware that states may adopt different names for the same or similar publicly funded programs. It is the underlying nature of the program, not the name adopted in a particular state, which determines whether or not it should be considered for public charge purposes. In California, for example, Medicaid is called "Medi-Cal" and CHIP is called "Healthy Families." These benefits are not considered for public charge purposes.
In addition, and consistent with existing practice, cash payments that have been earned, such as Title II Social Security benefits, government pensions, and veterans' benefits, among other forms of earned benefits, do not support a public charge determination. Unemployment compensation is also not considered for public charge purposes.
http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/menuitem.eb1d4c2a3e5b9ac89243c6a7543f6d1a/?vgnextoid=829b0a5659083210VgnVCM100000082ca60aRCRD&vgnextchannel=829b0a5659083210VgnVCM100000082ca60aRCRD

I agree with duriantaste this is what I don't like about this forum some people are getting nasty even you’re not even talking to them. Is just showing how they are in person Very Unprofessional.

aaawww i'm speechless. is that u in the photo..wow u really look like a female. very pretty!!
i have no advise but to wish u guys a goodluck!!!

congrats!!!
by the way they didn't by pass your EAD. lol
when u got your interview date it usually 5-6wks from the date they notify u....and in between those date you will received your EAD..that's exactly what happen with my husband AOS. we got his interview date 2wks ago and they just approved his EAD yesterday.
goodluck!!!

I agree with duriantaste this is what I don't like about this forum some people are getting nasty even you’re not even talking to them. Is just showing how they are in person Very Unprofessional.

wow goodluck!!!

immigration process is not about age gap or recent divorce or what so ever!!!
as long that you two proof that this relationship is BONAFIDE, i don't see any problems.
my advice before filing for petition right away perhaps consider collecting proof/evidence of the relationship..spend time together and enjoy the moments together!!!
goodluck!!!!

no RFE usually dated on the day they updated your case online to RFE they won't base it on your NOA1. plus, it will give u about 90 days to reply for your RFE.
but why wait that long? if you got an easy RFE send it fast(same day or the ff day)
I got RFE for my hubby K1 stage and again RFE for his AOS. I usually send it overnight thru USPS with signature waiver due to PO Box address. as soon as the USCIS got our RFE reply our status online always change same day or the ff day they got the RFE.
the good thing after about 10days we got our NOA2(k1 Stage)/and our status online went from RFE response review to testing and interview (AOS stage).
goodluck!!!!

if you cannot find a co-sponsor why bother to do so.
I was in the same situation like yours few wks ago. but instead of looking for co-sponsor I find another way...I started working a part time job to help me boost my income and ask my current employer to raise my hourly rate. I waited few wks to collect pay stubs before sending all my RFE's(AOS stage) and it work out. now we are just waiting for the AOS interview.
anyways in your situation. the sponsor need to try to find a full time job income for two household you just need to earn $ 19,387. then wait for about a month to send the paystubs to the embassy. goodluck!!!

if you cannot find a co-sponsor why bother to do so.
I was in the same situation like yours few wks ago. but instead of looking for co-sponsor I find another way...I started working a part time job to help me boost my income and ask my current employer to raise my hourly rate. I waited few wks to collect pay stubs before sending all my RFE's(AOS stage) and it work out. now we are just waiting for the AOS interview.
anyways in your situation. the sponsor need to try to find a full time job income for two household you just need to earn $ 19,387. then wait for about a month to send the paystubs to the embassy. goodluck!!!

if you cannot find a co-sponsor why bother to do so.
I was in the same situation like yours few wks ago. but instead of looking for co-sponsor I find another way...I started working a part time job to help me boost my income and ask my current employer to raise my hourly rate. I waited few wks to collect pay stubs before sending all my RFE's(AOS stage) and it work out. now we are just waiting for the AOS interview.
anyways in your situation. the sponsor need to try to find a full time job income for two household you just need to earn $ 19,387. then wait for about a month to send the paystubs to the embassy. goodluck!!!

if you cannot find a co-sponsor why bother to do so.
I was in the same situation like yours few wks ago. but instead of looking for co-sponsor I find another way...I started working a part time job to help me boost my income and ask my current employer to raise my hourly rate. I waited few wks to collect pay stubs before sending all my RFE's(AOS stage) and it work out. now we are just waiting for the AOS interview.
anyways in your situation. the sponsor need to try to find a full time job income for two household you just need to earn $ 19,387. then wait for about a month to send the paystubs to the embassy. goodluck!!!

if you cannot find a co-sponsor why bother to do so.
I was in the same situation like yours few wks ago. but instead of looking for co-sponsor I find another way...I started working a part time job to help me boost my income and ask my current employer to raise my hourly rate. I waited few wks to collect pay stubs before sending all my RFE's(AOS stage) and it work out. now we are just waiting for the AOS interview.
anyways in your situation. the sponsor need to try to find a full time job income for two household you just need to earn $ 19,387. then wait for about a month to send the paystubs to the embassy. goodluck!!!

if you cannot find a co-sponsor why bother to do so.
I was in the same situation like yours few wks ago. but instead of looking for co-sponsor I find another way...I started working a part time job to help me boost my income and ask my current employer to raise my hourly rate. I waited few wks to collect pay stubs before sending all my RFE's(AOS stage) and it work out. now we are just waiting for the AOS interview.
anyways in your situation. the sponsor need to try to find a full time job income for two household you just need to earn $ 19,387. then wait for about a month to send the paystubs to the embassy. goodluck!!!

no RFE usually dated on the day they updated your case online to RFE they won't base it on your NOA1. plus, it will give u about 90 days to reply for your RFE.
but why wait that long? if you got an easy RFE send it fast(same day or the ff day)
I got RFE for my hubby K1 stage and again RFE for his AOS. I usually send it overnight thru USPS with signature waiver due to PO Box address. as soon as the USCIS got our RFE reply our status online always change same day or the ff day they got the RFE.
the good thing after about 10days we got our NOA2(k1 Stage)/and our status online went from RFE response review to testing and interview (AOS stage).
goodluck!!!!

no RFE usually dated on the day they updated your case online to RFE they won't base it on your NOA1. plus, it will give u about 90 days to reply for your RFE.
but why wait that long? if you got an easy RFE send it fast(same day or the ff day)
I got RFE for my hubby K1 stage and again RFE for his AOS. I usually send it overnight thru USPS with signature waiver due to PO Box address. as soon as the USCIS got our RFE reply our status online always change same day or the ff day they got the RFE.
the good thing after about 10days we got our NOA2(k1 Stage)/and our status online went from RFE response review to testing and interview (AOS stage).
goodluck!!!!

as long that he found a full time job with hourly rate of $9.50. you guys will able to meet the poverty guidelines.
$ 9.50/hour x 40hrs/wk = $ 380
$380/week x 52 wks per yr = $ 19,760.
means that's more than enough.
it depend if he gets paid every 2wks then he needed to wait for 1 month to collect 2 pay stubs. or it he gets paid per week then 2-3 paystubs should be enough. but make sure to ask him to get an employer letter that it will indicate that he works full time job and the job is permanent.
up to a yr??? then your hubby have enough time to look for a full time job and I suggest to wait for few months atleast 3months to collect paystub. so that the embassy will honor it. usually up to 3months the employee is still under probation to be entitle for permanent job. but it not necessary it all depend which company.

if you cannot find a co-sponsor why bother to do so.
I was in the same situation like yours few wks ago. but instead of looking for co-sponsor I find another way...I started working a part time job to help me boost my income and ask my current employer to raise my hourly rate. I waited few wks to collect pay stubs before sending all my RFE's(AOS stage) and it work out. now we are just waiting for the AOS interview.
anyways in your situation. the sponsor need to try to find a full time job income for two household you just need to earn $ 19,387. then wait for about a month to send the paystubs to the embassy. goodluck!!!

i think it depend if the RFE is simple RFE's or much complicated RFE's.
last yr, i got RFE for not checking "NO" for criminal background. it took 10days to get my NOA2.

no as long that your husband/or co-sponsor meet the poverty guidelines. goodluck!!!

let just put it this way....for your "KARMA SAKE".....leave them alone!!! just imagine oneday u'll be with him. don't u think he might do the same to u? how can he fall in love that fast and fall out of love that quick? something is not right with this man.
yes it will hurt u now. but i think its better than being with him everyday and your life turn miserable!!

let just put it this way....for your "KARMA SAKE".....leave them alone!!! just imagine oneday u'll be with him. don't u think he might do the same to u? how can he fall in love that fast and fall out of love that quick? something is not right with this man.
yes it will hurt u now. but i think its better than being with him everyday and your life turn miserable!!

pictures are ONLY secondary evidence...as long that you guys really proof that this marriage is a genuine then you have nothing to be scare about...USCIS will see that in your face if you guys are really are couple or just pretending to be one.
goodluck!!!

lol i like your sense of humor after all you still manage to laugh at it which is a good things to avoid stress. right lol
by the way "happy anniv"...

wow i think it's better that he did that now than later.i can't imagine he'll bring you here in the US and decide later to walk away before the wedding.
obviously, this man doesn't love u enough to give up to you that easily.
how's your relationship w/him lately? any red flags? any sign his getting cold feet? or any arguments that make him doubt u?
anyhow you don't have to answer those if you don't want to.
just remember things happen for a reason.
goodluck!!!