Jodhilla

Wow man if you're getting this frustrated this early on then you'll probably get an aneurysm by the time your fiancee goes for AOS.

Nope. That is wrong wrong wrong. Sorry you have to go through this...
You will need the I-94 for AOS. ESTA anything will not get you anywhere with SSA either.
ESTA is a pre-approval for the Visa Waiver Program. You have a previous approval to travel visa-free to the US on that program. However, this time, you travelled with a visa, the K-1 visa. You need to be processed as a k-1 entrant and be given all the K-1 things, like I-94. ESTA has nothing to do with this entrance, and they are making silly excuses. They messed up.
It is their mistake not to give you the I-94. You need to go in person, get a supervisor, and get a I-94.

Hello fellow VJ'ers,
My contribution to the forum so far was to show the latest and greatest forms that you receive during your CR1/IR1 DCF London process.
Partly because:

I could not see them on the forum (latest embassy forms).
I have a scanner - so why not use it.
I get confused easily if I don't "see" the problem/challenge/expectation.

The last one for this part of the journey arrived this morning....i.e packet 4. Once again, as stated before on this forum it's only a letter, nothing more, nothing less.

I have one more question before we go over to the embassy on Thursday.
I have made copies of all the "documents" i.e marriage/police/birth certificates, but not of the "forms" DS-230 part II/I-846 etc. Surely they just take the "forms" and keep them or do they REALLY need another copy of all the forms.
I would appreciate someone that has actually completed this part to answer that, not someone that speculates about it.