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Hi "Bri & Mar", it is sad what the OP is going through, but we never knew exactly what is the other side of the story. It is not enough to determine once foreign spouse left the USC -- he or she just married for immigration purpose. It is not right to say the OP's wife just used him to get to the USA as we haven't heard her side. There could be true love, but there are other factors attributed why the relationship change. Right now, you are still in the visa process, you still never know what exactly gonna happen once you get to the US. There are lots of reasons --culture and traditions, money, etc. It is sometimes so difficult to totally adjust life once together in one roof. I could say this as I had been to the US thru K-1. My fiance seemed so very nice to me while he had 2 vacations here of 15 days each and we talked for over 3 years. We never had any arguments. All seemed to be very good for us. But when I arrived there -- all was just a nightmare! I wasn't treated very well especially with one member of the family. They are so attached to their belongings or things at home. They acted like very mean to me. With my almost 3 months stay there I proved that my Fiance loves me very much, but he couldn't fight for our love because of lots of fears. Things turned out not good while I was there. I was scared of how they can be mean to me. I decided not to marry though we already had our licence to marry. I came back home before my 90 days expiration. About 1-2 weeks of stay there, I could already tell that I won't last long if the way they treat me won't change. Very petty things they make it a big deal. I felt like I was dumb. I always talked to my Fiance about my feelings. He listened but it was so hard for him to do the right thing because of too many reasons. I felt really homesick and the more it really pushed me to come home. I had to stay out at the malls or anywhere most of times just to avoid staying in the house and experience more issues with the family. Good for me, I had some cash on hand and at my ATM when I went there so I enjoyed a little of America and did shopping just to lessen my hurts and frustrations. I always thought I have a good life here and a nice and secured job. I truly have loved my Fiance that was why I came to US -- sacrificing to be with him, but it didn't work out the way it should be. I wasn't happy in the US though it is a nice place to live in. I'm a woman who value myself- I cannot exchange it for green card. I was hoping to have a lifetime marriage-- not getting divorce afterwards, so what I've seen around me really scared me off. At least I tried my best and not regret later. I'm back home, having peace of mind and enjoying life once again.
I posted this to let others understand that if the relationship didn't work out -- please don't think that foreigners are just using USCs for immigration. Not everyone! There are truly good people around who have good faith and intentions -- just be nice and treat them fairly to have a lasting relationship.
OP, you may have seen your wife with another man, but you cannot make a conclusion that she is cheating you. I also have met nice friends there -- where sometimes I had to talk to them just to share what I feel deep inside my heart - releasing my frustrations and hurts because if not as if I was getting sick, crazy and heart attack -- but it doesn't mean that I was cheating. Remember, we don't have families and friends near us where we could run to if we have problems -- we are like stranger in America. There are times we have to talk it out just to feel better and make us realize that this is life that we need to accept and be strong enough. It could happen to your wife as well. We never knew. OP, May God bless you and hope you could move on with your life.

Is your wife in the US now? If yes AOS , if no continue with your CR-1 process.

Is your wife in the US now? If yes AOS , if no continue with your CR-1 process.

I am always a firm believer of "never lie to the USCIS" because it will come out and then there will be a world of trouble.

I am always a firm believer of "never lie to the USCIS" because it will come out and then there will be a world of trouble.

I am always a firm believer of "never lie to the USCIS" because it will come out and then there will be a world of trouble.

I am always a firm believer of "never lie to the USCIS" because it will come out and then there will be a world of trouble.

I'm sorry that my posts offended you, let me just say that from what you wrote it was totally unclear to me whether he did drugs once, repeatedly, whether such repeated use was disclosed or not. Please take the time to read your original post again and you will see what I am talking about. As to trolling or gaining pleasure from other people's pain, it's certainly not in my nature. I was just pointing out potential pitfalls that you may not have considered. Anyway, I'll take your advice and will stop worrying my pretty little head. Good luck.

Awesome , friend. I will tell you when I know the results of what we were previously discussing. It is always good to keep in touch and find out what you are doing in your life. We should definitely organize a get together where we spend time and catch up.
I will actually organize something this time, not like last time!
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I tried

You do not need that much evidence Nealxette. A lot of people have sent 1 picture or no emails and cards. While what you have is a good guide and general overkill/ frontloading, you do not need all these things!
Read the guides MJ. Be prepared to start again. Ask any questions you have here before you post anything new off.
Our K-1 petition was approved before we changed our course of action so feel free to ask me any questions.

Unfortunately, immigration is not a right, it is a privilege and not a right and thus you need to comply with USCIS rule to get that privilege.
As a nurse myself, I will not debate semantics on vaccines, how they can help protect people etc or how they work but I truly believe you should have to comply with the vaccine requirements to gain the privilege of emigration.
What does your fiancée think about vaccines? Afterall you have only mentioned your thoughts and it is her body they will be going into?

Unfortunately, immigration is not a right, it is a privilege and not a right and thus you need to comply with USCIS rule to get that privilege.
As a nurse myself, I will not debate semantics on vaccines, how they can help protect people etc or how they work but I truly believe you should have to comply with the vaccine requirements to gain the privilege of emigration.
What does your fiancée think about vaccines? Afterall you have only mentioned your thoughts and it is her body they will be going into?

Unfortunately, immigration is not a right, it is a privilege and not a right and thus you need to comply with USCIS rule to get that privilege.
As a nurse myself, I will not debate semantics on vaccines, how they can help protect people etc or how they work but I truly believe you should have to comply with the vaccine requirements to gain the privilege of emigration.
What does your fiancée think about vaccines? Afterall you have only mentioned your thoughts and it is her body they will be going into?

Unfortunately, immigration is not a right, it is a privilege and not a right and thus you need to comply with USCIS rule to get that privilege.
As a nurse myself, I will not debate semantics on vaccines, how they can help protect people etc or how they work but I truly believe you should have to comply with the vaccine requirements to gain the privilege of emigration.
What does your fiancée think about vaccines? Afterall you have only mentioned your thoughts and it is her body they will be going into?

Unfortunately, immigration is not a right, it is a privilege and not a right and thus you need to comply with USCIS rule to get that privilege.
As a nurse myself, I will not debate semantics on vaccines, how they can help protect people etc or how they work but I truly believe you should have to comply with the vaccine requirements to gain the privilege of emigration.
What does your fiancée think about vaccines? Afterall you have only mentioned your thoughts and it is her body they will be going into?

Sorry, your fiancee gave up on your because it is going to take a little longer? Is that right?
I feel so sorry for you , but for 1) VSC was slow before deferred action was introduced! and 2) Possibly this is a good thing that you found out now just how dedicated your fiancee is to you and your life together?

Oh, thanks for explaining. That makes sense!
Personally, I still don't see the overwhelming appeal of the US over Canada anyway.

Oh, thanks for explaining. That makes sense!
Personally, I still don't see the overwhelming appeal of the US over Canada anyway.

Lot's of countries offer medical tourism and it is actually really affordable and good quality.
I maybe wouldn't go to South America but I would definitely look elsewhere if my dental care was going to cost $9000 in the US.

They will pull it apart and reorder it anyway so anyway you present it , as long as everything is included is fine.

Your post made me smile
Congratulations on making it 8 years!

Firstly, I am so sorry for the loss of your unborn baby.
Secondly, you sound like you will be much better off without this man and I really hope you can in time move on and be happy.

Firstly, I am so sorry for the loss of your unborn baby.
Secondly, you sound like you will be much better off without this man and I really hope you can in time move on and be happy.

Goodluck

WAY to insult your fellow countryman.
Anyway...
OP this is a frustrating process. I know.
Approval rates on this site are determined by people updating their timelines, often people don't, they use this site for info, get it, leave and never update it; some people get divorced, some move back to their spouses country, some don't apply for ROC, some just forget to update their timelines! There are soooo many variables! Similarly if you have a bonafide relationship, don't be scared, prepare for the best, I would hazard a guess not too many people with bonafide relationships get denied.
Unfortunately you cannot blame Obama for the delays at the Vermont service centre. It has been slow for months but it was also not that slow when Obama was first in office and it has it's quick and slow times. Now is a slow time but that "slow" time started BEFORE deferred action was introduced so unless you are implying he should be at the VSC and approving applications himself, I am not sure how it could be his fault?
I wish you the very best of luck with whichever path you choose, my best advice would be to live your life to the very best of your ability, stop placing blame and being angry as your anger is unfounded and won't do anyone any good (Obama doesn't know you're made at him) and can only serve to negatively impact your life.