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    chastitynjoel got a reaction from reese1 in Job letter for K-1 Interview   
    I submitted my welcome letter which included my date of hire, my salary and my position. Remember, an employment letter is not required, but your employer should be able to provide one on company letterhead. What they really look at is the tax transcripts.
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    chastitynjoel got a reaction from Bumbero in NVC ROCKS   
    I figuered you would get it today because I also got mine!! YAY for us!
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    chastitynjoel reacted to Alex and Johnny in we are approved!!!   
    First of all reading all the interview reviews really help my husband and me and i want to thank all the vj memebers who took the time out to submit a review. Our interview time was 8:30am we arrived there at 7am we were told to wait before going into the line. at 7:30 am we went to line number 4 they gave us lucky number 214 then they seperated us. once inside we waited until 8:45am they called us to window 16 to turn in the cedula ,banco popular receipt, passport medical packet. then we sat down waited what felt like for an eternity at 11am they called us to window 26 it was a very nice white american guy. he asked me the following questions:
    when and how did i meet my husband?
    why did i come to dr? was it for vacation or business?
    he then asked to see pictures
    he asked what was the date of our wedding?
    where was the reception?
    he then stated that he had to review our case and for us to have a seat.
    i was so worried 10 minutes went by then they called our number
    and he asked my husband
    does he have trouble with the police here in dr or in haiti?
    did he turned in the birth certificate?
    then he said you visa approved, you can go pay the domex.
    my husband literally jumped up it was funny we said thank you and went to pay.
    now we are waiting to pick up the visa they said 2to 4 business days.
    tips i give:
    try to be there at least 1 hour before appointment time
    dress business casual, there were many people dressing too casual, you want to convey that this is an important event in your life so dress accordingly.
    there is no a/c i repeat there is no a/c so dress light and professional.
    keep a positive attitude go in there knowing that GOD has favor upon you and your loved one.
    be prepared! we brought everything just in case something happens, you want to have a peace of mind knowing you brought everything.
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    chastitynjoel reacted to melcom1122 in journey is over...he left me   
    i understand that this process gets lonely, but for you to take your wifes money and use it to move in with some girl and her three kids, while your wife is still pregnant with your baby, is just disgusting
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    chastitynjoel reacted to melcom1122 in journey is over...he left me   
    Yea.... It's a shame because he wanted the baby so bad we were both always sad that we couldn't have a Baby, and when we finally did that's how he repaid me..... If he fell In love with someone else I understand but he manipulaated me, I changed my number I do not speak to him at all
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    chastitynjoel reacted to Gracenp2 in journey is over...he left me   
    I could not agree more with his last statement!! I for one feel really embarrassed when I hear of things that man do let alone a Dominican! But like everyone else stated be strong and move on. He never deserved you! He's an idiot and soon enough he will realize it. Treat this guy like a cancer! Tu no lo necesitas Para nada! I know i might sound kind mean Pedro las cosas pasan por razone! Time williams heal everytning!,
    Good luck to you!
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    chastitynjoel reacted to GodsGift225 in journey is over...he left me   
    Sad sorry.... But God knows and understand why things happen. Breaks my heart to see our own people doing this type of things. But at the end of the day Thank god it happen like this. And as for your unborn it wasn't that babies time to be in this world nor with a "father figure" like your man. God doesn't give us things we are can not handle. I'm glad you where able to recoup as fast. That was the inner Lord by your side. As you stated "you're about to turn 24" enjoy this time cause one day he will regret what he did!
    God Bless you!
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    chastitynjoel reacted to Vanessa&Dago in journey is over...he left me   
    Hello there:
    I do not pretend to know you or your situation, but it seems like you got financially used and emotionally abused. I also know that it is easier said than done, but don't waste anything else on someone that clearly is not woth it. What goes around, comes around, karma can not be escaped.
    It might not be worth much, but be thankful that it happened now and not after all the trouble, the waiting, the frustration, the expence, etc. of going through the process.
    Sorry you are hurting, my heart goes out to you.
    PS. We men or Dominicans are not all the same. Men like him give the rest of us a bad rep. Hope you find someone that will cherish you for the person you are.
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    chastitynjoel reacted to Wendy javier in journey is over...he left me   
    Hello my name is Wendy I know that we dont know each other but couldn't help but to write to you.
    So sorry to hear of what you have gone thru.But stay strong and ask God for guidance he knows what is best for you.
    I hope that you truly find the trueperson who will Respect,Love and Honor you.
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    chastitynjoel reacted to melcom1122 in journey is over...he left me   
    It's bitter sweet .... I'm sad that I spent do much time on trying to get him here.... But I'm happy that it all over no more wishing no more crying no more depression .... and no more waiting I va finally move on with my life feels pretty good
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    chastitynjoel reacted to lynndy38 in No NOA2 at 217 days or 7 months and 4 days!   
    Im so sorry about your wait....you must miss your fiance so much. Its annoying because there doesnt seem a damn thing you can do about it....'fair' does not come into this process atall.....theres NOONE can tell you anything for sure during applying for a visa other than the fact they'll cash your check!!!!!
    Try keep focused on the fact you HAVE to be getting near the end,everyday is a step closer to being back with your fiance.
    About the passport evidence....cant the people at USCIS access our passport history? Wont they be able to see the days which we entered and left the USA?
    Stay strong,you'll soon be shopping in Walmart looking for English items!!!!!
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    chastitynjoel got a reaction from Miss M in Immigrant wife entered marriage in bad faith   
    You go girl! Ill never get that either!!!
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    chastitynjoel got a reaction from S_R in Immigrant wife entered marriage in bad faith   
    You go girl! Ill never get that either!!!
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    chastitynjoel got a reaction from ullnvrkno in Immigrant wife entered marriage in bad faith   
    You go girl! Ill never get that either!!!
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    chastitynjoel reacted to neoflasher in Noa2 Approval from VSC !!!   
    Congrats>.. :dance: They must have forgotten about mine.. bastards..
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    chastitynjoel reacted to Touch of Treble in this process is upsetting me...   
    According to your timeline you are only a week or two away from EAD. Relax a little and consider that he is not supporting you, you are married. You are both supporting each other. Money isn't the only way to support. I earn nothing at all and I have a daughter with me. My husband has a big commute of 4 hours each day and not a huge amount of money coming in. But I earn money negatively. In other words I do what I can to save from spending and I take some of the burdens for maintaining the household from his shoulders, he has more free time. I make sure he comes home to a tidy, serene home with a lovely meal ready. I send him to work with a home made lunch, I do what I can to make his days easier. He thinks that is worth alot more than the few dollars I could earn. Just something to think on...money is not always worth as much as we think it is.
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    chastitynjoel got a reaction from soheil in NOA 2 from CSC in 90 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   
    Not fair .. I filed in March.
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    chastitynjoel reacted to StephanieM in Considering Moving to Dominican Republic but waiting for CR1 process?   
    Neo,
    Agree with Chastity. I myself was one who read your topic and didn't reply. I simply didn't know the answer. There are soooooo many people on these forums, our knowledge is all on different levels, but sometimes if you wait a little longer than one person who does know the answer comes along to give you what you are looking for.
    I wish you luck in your decision.
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    chastitynjoel got a reaction from Ryan H in Considering Moving to Dominican Republic but waiting for CR1 process?   
    Neo,
    I think people were interested in your topic and what you had to say, but maybe did not respond because they did not know the answers to your questions. It is best to be sure of an answer than to try "guessing", isnt it? I am glad you got your questions answered.
    I too have contemplated relocating to D.R. I have faith though that his visa will get approved and that will not have to happen, but we all must do what we choose is best for us and our situation. I wish you the best of luck in whatever direction you choose to move in.
    Take care
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    chastitynjoel got a reaction from Louza in Considering Moving to Dominican Republic but waiting for CR1 process?   
    Neo,
    I think people were interested in your topic and what you had to say, but maybe did not respond because they did not know the answers to your questions. It is best to be sure of an answer than to try "guessing", isnt it? I am glad you got your questions answered.
    I too have contemplated relocating to D.R. I have faith though that his visa will get approved and that will not have to happen, but we all must do what we choose is best for us and our situation. I wish you the best of luck in whatever direction you choose to move in.
    Take care
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    chastitynjoel got a reaction from beejay in Considering Moving to Dominican Republic but waiting for CR1 process?   
    Neo,
    I think people were interested in your topic and what you had to say, but maybe did not respond because they did not know the answers to your questions. It is best to be sure of an answer than to try "guessing", isnt it? I am glad you got your questions answered.
    I too have contemplated relocating to D.R. I have faith though that his visa will get approved and that will not have to happen, but we all must do what we choose is best for us and our situation. I wish you the best of luck in whatever direction you choose to move in.
    Take care
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    chastitynjoel got a reaction from photomile in no NOA2?   
    Steph,
    SOOO much truth to what you posted. I am desperate for my NOA2 and I just filed not even a month ago. I guess when someone is really in love, it matters more?? I know I am really in love, not so sure about that other guy!
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    chastitynjoel got a reaction from villaspurs in Pregnant wife x-rayed   
    Matt,
    I have been in healthcare for 12 years and worked in "baby" intensive care units....there is more radiation exposure just by walking out to your car on a clear day than you would get from one simple chest xray. Since they shielded her stomach, rest assured that everything is ok!
    Chastity
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    chastitynjoel got a reaction from hikergirl in Pregnant wife x-rayed   
    Matt,
    I have been in healthcare for 12 years and worked in "baby" intensive care units....there is more radiation exposure just by walking out to your car on a clear day than you would get from one simple chest xray. Since they shielded her stomach, rest assured that everything is ok!
    Chastity
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    chastitynjoel got a reaction from JeanneVictoria in Pregnant wife x-rayed   
    Matt,
    I have been in healthcare for 12 years and worked in "baby" intensive care units....there is more radiation exposure just by walking out to your car on a clear day than you would get from one simple chest xray. Since they shielded her stomach, rest assured that everything is ok!
    Chastity
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