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he was trying to correct someone who used the expression " train of thought" by saying saying the correct word should have been trend . A"train of thought" is the more commonly used phrase and very correct too.

he was trying to correct someone who used the expression " train of thought" by saying saying the correct word should have been trend . A"train of thought" is the more commonly used phrase and very correct too.

he was trying to correct someone who used the expression " train of thought" by saying saying the correct word should have been trend . A"train of thought" is the more commonly used phrase and very correct too.

he was trying to correct someone who used the expression " train of thought" by saying saying the correct word should have been trend . A"train of thought" is the more commonly used phrase and very correct too.

interesting read. it seems only those who support pre nups are welcome and if you oppose it , people oppose your post sentimentally.

if she is getting citizenship through marriage then she needs to have been an LPR married to a US citizen for THREE years.

How would your fiancée respond to you making her sign a pre-nup? Have you talked about it already, what did she say?
We did not sign one but its very interesting to me to read about how other people do things.
I think,had my husband asked me to sign a pre-nup i would have been rather upset. I gave up everything in my country to live with him, moved my kids across the world for him. I have nothing left back home, not that it really matters it was a sacrifice i happily made, but it would have felt like an insult if he would have made me sign a paper after me doing all that for him...

Your post was intended to Cover your Butt and thats a fair question.
I'm going to agree with Gary. NO
You are doing a K-1 Visa Petition which means Marry in less than 90 days upon her arrival. OK.. Well, there must be a reason why you asked such a question.
Your Vows are going to be: To Love and to Cherrish til death do us part... Then, OH sign this paper first written by my Attorney.
The Pre-Nup must be read to her is her native laugauge in order to be enforceable. Otherwise, VOID.
Why throw a Steel Rod into the spokes before you even start.
I feel, your unsure of yourself. If you have these doubts, then you are not ready.
Your past is the past. Let it go... People will tell you stories and some true but never listen to them. You have to decide where you are.
Thats my prespective.
I agree to the NO. My explaination is below.

NO
we did write our own wedding vows and made them something we can commit to for our lifetime.

Don't you think this is a legitimate question for the CO to ask? Especially when you're NOT working and your fiance stated he's not the one financing your trips?
I can understand the doubts in the CO's mind, as she can foresee your fiance becoming a potential public charge when he arrives in the United States.
Lastly, a lot of the doubts and suspicion (and frankly the scrutiny the CO subjected you two to) could have been avoided with a bit more due diligence on both of your part - - by spending a bit more time to perfect the spelling of last names, middle names, adding his name to the child's BC ahead of the interview date and what have you. Honestly, I think some of the inconsistencies in your responses at the interview did you in. However, you can recover and get your case approved by rectifying some of the issues mentioned to erase any doubts in the CO's mind. I wish you the very best of luck!

Get another opinion from another lawyer. Here is how the government works. They may have made a mistake with your GC, but you made a bigger mistake by not telling them that you are divorced. By waiting for a second interview is not a valid reason for not disclosing information. You could have still obtained your GC after your divorce, it is just a different process. Now that you have obtained a GC under false pretense, they will revoke it, and you can be contacted by ICE.
Waiting for your wife to become a citizen will not occur, if she is a LPR based upon you having a GC. This will be a very big mess, and you REALLY need very good legal counsel.

I tell you, I hope some of us dont go crazy at the end of this journey I just got off the phone with hubby. I could not sleep after my post so called him couple of hours ago. I started rambling about how we should proceed to get the passport: he has to fly to abuja ( the state capital) to do this with court affidavit and police report). I was asking if his contact in our current city might be of help. he let me go on and on for few minutes and said "I dnt mean to interrupt but can I say something"?... I kept quiet and he went on : 'so you mean you did not hear the end of what i said yesterday?" he said when I asked him if he had the passport with him during the attack, he said yes he was taking it to his pastor to pray over after he is done with the day's activities but when the robbers asked him to give up the envelop he had, he informed them that it just contained papers so they took it and threw away on the street. After they rough handled him at gun point and went away with other valuables as mentioned, he went and picked up the envelop with the passport and documents. A good samaritan passing by also gave him some money right there .
I felt very foolish :bonk: :bonk: :bonk: :bonk: :bonk: but still thankful at the outcome . i had to come back here to let readers know this.
the moderators should feel free to delete the post if they want since the reason why i posted is no longer valid. unless my premature act of panic will help someone else relax from their stress.
I just bless readers in these forums who are always ready to comfort and encourage. Thnks everyone.

did he email the DS 3032 yet? do it nowish cos you really have to be proactive with NVC in a sweet way to get things moving( if you are in a hurry like me).
even though I knew how the NVC timeline worked, I still called them up and innocently asked why I cant pay the AOS bill yet and the site says to contact NVC, the lady explained " thats because we have not sent you the invoice yet so give it couple of days". the same day, i got invoiced. Same with the DS 3032, we emailed it 01/09 and again on 01/11. I know this takes couple of days but I could be impatient and I called and was given the wait 10-15 business days but same day 01/14, we emailed another one with "supervisor review" in the subject line and that got accepted next day. soon as i saw that I called 'wondering' why I cant pay the IV bill since our DS 3032 has been accepted and yet again was given the 20 days speech. next day IV bill was invoiced. :rofl:

Thanks! trust me now he also knows how valuable it is at this point. I mean I have sentimental attachment to our wedding rings( since I picked that design) but i didnt even fuss when he mentioned it was taken. Funny enough he had called me the previous day to say he had a nightmare about us and has been worried and praying. God sure did protect us out of His love.

OOOO I see it now saylin thanks, Dealing with twin 6 month olds and being near sighted doesn't helps .....and I over looked your beginning post dear So no need for sarcasm this way....

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm refiling.
Thanks for the help and clarification and notes from Dean and mtc.
Life would be too boring if we were all perfect.

Really? Was this necessary? How come sometimes people can post great information, and other times posts simply tear the OP apart? I'm sure by page 3 he realizes he's made a few mistakes.
Guess I am a great "man in the household" (I am Amy, by the way) as I take care of many of "things as the man in the household should". I rarely post on this site, mostly read and learn, but this post just begged me to stand up for what is right - and this is just not right!
Geez!

Thank you. I wish we would see more people more often simply say "Oops, I stand corrected" instead of 6 pages of trying to justify their error and confusing members looking for help. We all started at -0- and we all made mistakes.

you only need tha BARCODED sheet from the portal. make sure to place it infornt of yourr application. you will do the same with the IV barcode for the IV package when the time comes.

You are so ridiculously out of line here it's not funny. It is HIS choice to cheat. She plays no part in that. She does not control him. He makes his own choices. A good man doesn't cheat, no matter what "she does to cause it".

WOOOOOOh. WE ARE APROVED!!!!!
I just received a text few minutes exactly 7p EST to check my case online as it has been updated. With trembling hands i signed in and almost had a heart attack when I saw we have been approved.
I have gotten comfort from this site and I hope we all will get some good news soonest.
I knew something was about to happen when I called USCIS last week and was informed our case was sent to the local office Nov 17th and then my case was 'touched ' few days ago.
This is close enough to the timeline estimate that had given me Dec 20-28 I think.
hang in there guys!!!!!! It is well.

there is NO NEED for an attorney at this point. Not until she knows what this letter says. If it's just the standard letter about immigrant intent it is not grounds for needing a lawyer. if it says something like he admitted he lied and he'd planned on violating immigration laws, or that his marriage is a sham, that's different. They said he didn't understand English too well so I wouldn't put it past them to get him to sign something bad.

Even you admit that you both are having "too many" arguments. What is too many". siblings will argue, couples will argue but there is a level that becomes a little too much for others to take. what are these arguments based on?. You said you just arrived 4 months ago. what is your living arrangements like? considering the economy, do you have a job yet? if not how have you been handling your unemployment situation so far and what has your role in the house been like with chores. do you help out or does she go out to make the money to pay the bills and come home to have you demand or insist she serve you like she would have back in Nigeria.No one is asking you to become the maid just because you do not have a job yet but a litle help especially when she is givings signs that she needs it will go a long way. Nigerian culture makes it a little hard for some men to adjust when they arrive here and see themselves in the "subordinate" role. if the man can understand that this is only temporary and work towards establishing a mutually beneficial union for himself and the wife while he is adjusting, the better for them both.
She bore tha cost and pains of petitioning for you and enduring the long wait of USCIS/NVC so she must have felt something. Pamper her and bring her to a state of wanting to discuss your current situation and you guys openly admit where you are wrong and apologize with a sincere desire to change where needed. Then hope for the best.
IF after all said and done, you still find yourself alone, then it is not the end of the world.

Even you admit that you both are having "too many" arguments. What is too many". siblings will argue, couples will argue but there is a level that becomes a little too much for others to take. what are these arguments based on?. You said you just arrived 4 months ago. what is your living arrangements like? considering the economy, do you have a job yet? if not how have you been handling your unemployment situation so far and what has your role in the house been like with chores. do you help out or does she go out to make the money to pay the bills and come home to have you demand or insist she serve you like she would have back in Nigeria.No one is asking you to become the maid just because you do not have a job yet but a litle help especially when she is givings signs that she needs it will go a long way. Nigerian culture makes it a little hard for some men to adjust when they arrive here and see themselves in the "subordinate" role. if the man can understand that this is only temporary and work towards establishing a mutually beneficial union for himself and the wife while he is adjusting, the better for them both.
She bore tha cost and pains of petitioning for you and enduring the long wait of USCIS/NVC so she must have felt something. Pamper her and bring her to a state of wanting to discuss your current situation and you guys openly admit where you are wrong and apologize with a sincere desire to change where needed. Then hope for the best.
IF after all said and done, you still find yourself alone, then it is not the end of the world.