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    Olomi_811 got a reaction from Stuart and Thea in Irritated with American attitudes when ending a marriage   
    A petitioner should treat this process as though there was not a "return to sender" option. It's not fair to look at your role in this journey from a position of leverage and power. People mention the heart of the USC; it's bad enough that USCIS paperwork refer to people as ALIENS (hubby really took offense to that), but to have the frame of mind that only the USC has a heart implies that you believe your worth is more.
    When the relationship is USC & USC the issue of returning them is null. Can you truly say the hurt is greater when the person is from another country or is your mentality that you believe you've paid for this person so they owe you?
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    Olomi_811 got a reaction from jojolicious in Irritated with American attitudes when ending a marriage   
    Nothing irks me more than seeing "CAN I SEND THEM BACK?" or some variation of this. I admit with all the fees you pay the immigration process can feel like modern day slave trade. Know what you want, know who you are, and know who you are marrying before you dive into visa waters. Yes, some of our significant others come from economically struggling countries and others whose countries fair far better than the US. Your spouse is not an expensive shirt that you tuck the tag in, wear for a night, and return the next day. My husband is fine where he is and it touches me to hear him pray for the betterment of his country and the people. Our spouses are perfectly capable of sustaining themselves in their home country. If you examine the circumstances the quality of life may be somewhat advanced in the US, but the quantity you pay is the same. Your spouse's life is changed as well as their family's. Some of them endure ridicule and negativity, because they married you and not a fellow countryman.
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    Olomi_811 got a reaction from X Factor in Irritated with American attitudes when ending a marriage   
    Nothing irks me more than seeing "CAN I SEND THEM BACK?" or some variation of this. I admit with all the fees you pay the immigration process can feel like modern day slave trade. Know what you want, know who you are, and know who you are marrying before you dive into visa waters. Yes, some of our significant others come from economically struggling countries and others whose countries fair far better than the US. Your spouse is not an expensive shirt that you tuck the tag in, wear for a night, and return the next day. My husband is fine where he is and it touches me to hear him pray for the betterment of his country and the people. Our spouses are perfectly capable of sustaining themselves in their home country. If you examine the circumstances the quality of life may be somewhat advanced in the US, but the quantity you pay is the same. Your spouse's life is changed as well as their family's. Some of them endure ridicule and negativity, because they married you and not a fellow countryman.
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    Olomi_811 reacted to LIFE'SJOURNEY in I opened my eyes!!!   
    I believe this is what they all wanted. SAD, but the system was used not the individuals. To post was a cleanings of the soul.
    Good luck to you both going forward.
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    Olomi_811 reacted to Penguin_ie in K1 visa   
    Not quite sure what your question is- there is no "love of my life" visa.
    If you have physically met within the last two years and are willing to get married within 90 days of arriving in the USA, your US fiancee can petition you for a K1 visa. You will need to show bonafide relationship with photos together- preferably with relatives in the pics too; ideally several visits, emails, phone bills etc.
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    Olomi_811 got a reaction from Saylin in DS-230   
    Download and fill it out. Don't sign part II. Be sure to sign part I.
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    Olomi_811 reacted to Bec_Dipu in Conspiracy to deny....   
    This post really chapped my hide, so my response will be much testier than normal.
    I highly doubt this is some grand conspiracy to deny you. You didn't follow directions. Of course the USCIS is going to take your money. You sent them a package and asked them to complete work, which they did by reviewing it and recognizing that you failed to follow directions.
    Wait for the letter in the mail, it may be an RFE after all. If it is a denial, well, serves you right for not following directions. You have no one to blame but yourselves. And the only people who should be posting with righteous indignation about this situation are the people whose cases were delayed by a few hours because someone wasted his or her time reviewing yours, which wasn't even complete.
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    Olomi_811 reacted to memlaura in Irritated with American attitudes when ending a marriage   
    I am glad you posted this I agree with you 100%. My husband and I have a lot of red flags and we have an up hill battle. I have been told by tons of people that he is just after a green card. I dont care what others think I know him and I know what he means to me and I love him. If it doesnt work out between us then that is life. There is no need to punish someone because it didnt work out there was something there that made you fall in love so they cant be all that bad. Life is a gamble and an adventure I hope and pray to God that our adventure goes on forever together but you never know what is around the corner. If you feel the need for revenge the best revenge is to be happy and go on with your life. I was married for 25 years to a USC (him I would like to send to another country) when it ended I didnt see it coming but it came. I moved on I met someone who makes me happier than I have ever been in my life and it scares me to death that someone elses opinion of us can keep us apart... But once he is here he is here for as long as he wants to be if he leaves it will be because he wants to not me...
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    Olomi_811 reacted to Harsh_77 in Marriage fraud victim asking for advice..   
    That means the K1 was never legal, the marriage was never legal and the GC she got is not legal and she would be deportable.
    As recommended get a lawyer and let the USCIS know about the fraud, there might not be any immediate action, but when she goes for removal of her condition she would be stopped.
    If ever in future if she tries to get Citizenship she would be stopped based on your information, also you might not be bound to affidavit of support that you signed if what you are saying is true.
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    Olomi_811 reacted to Removed-02242014 in Tell me I can't do this   
    How about the fact that it is simply fraud?
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    Olomi_811 got a reaction from jojolicious in Irritated with American attitudes when ending a marriage   
    A petitioner should treat this process as though there was not a "return to sender" option. It's not fair to look at your role in this journey from a position of leverage and power. People mention the heart of the USC; it's bad enough that USCIS paperwork refer to people as ALIENS (hubby really took offense to that), but to have the frame of mind that only the USC has a heart implies that you believe your worth is more.
    When the relationship is USC & USC the issue of returning them is null. Can you truly say the hurt is greater when the person is from another country or is your mentality that you believe you've paid for this person so they owe you?
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    Olomi_811 got a reaction from Xanax in Irritated with American attitudes when ending a marriage   
    Nothing irks me more than seeing "CAN I SEND THEM BACK?" or some variation of this. I admit with all the fees you pay the immigration process can feel like modern day slave trade. Know what you want, know who you are, and know who you are marrying before you dive into visa waters. Yes, some of our significant others come from economically struggling countries and others whose countries fair far better than the US. Your spouse is not an expensive shirt that you tuck the tag in, wear for a night, and return the next day. My husband is fine where he is and it touches me to hear him pray for the betterment of his country and the people. Our spouses are perfectly capable of sustaining themselves in their home country. If you examine the circumstances the quality of life may be somewhat advanced in the US, but the quantity you pay is the same. Your spouse's life is changed as well as their family's. Some of them endure ridicule and negativity, because they married you and not a fellow countryman.
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    Olomi_811 reacted to aaron2020 in solution   
    Go get a lawyer.
    You knowingly submitted a passport with false information in it. It doesn't matter who made the mistake. You knew that information was false and you submitted it and under penalty of law and said that it was true. It doesn't matter if you get a new passport. The US already has the information about the false passport.
    While it may be common in lots of countries to use official documents with false information, the US does not take kindly to people providing those documents when seeking to enter the US.
    Go get a lawyer. You may be in deep trouble because of your previous denial and providing the US Embassy with a document containing false information
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    Olomi_811 reacted to belinda63 in Help!!   
    Can you say immigration fraud? Entering on the VWP or a visitor's visa with the intent to immigrate is fraud punishable by anything from no action to a life-time ban from the US. Since you have already filed the I-130 and have shown immigrant intent you might have problems even being permitted to enter the US. If you do you might be pulled into secondary inspection and questioned about your intent. If you answer that you are just visiting and then you file to adjust status, that is a material misrepresentation. If you tell the truth, that you came to get married and stay, you will be on the next flight back home.
    Best to just wait a few more months and finish the process the right way.
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    Olomi_811 reacted to Iyawo Ijebu in Expedite Petition for Nigeria   
    Probbaly the safest locales in Lagos State.
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    Olomi_811 reacted to Boiler in Nightmare of an Interview @ Mumbai 4/19   
    He did not state any opinions, just facts pertinent to the case.
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    Olomi_811 got a reaction from NevermindVz in Irritated with American attitudes when ending a marriage   
    Nothing irks me more than seeing "CAN I SEND THEM BACK?" or some variation of this. I admit with all the fees you pay the immigration process can feel like modern day slave trade. Know what you want, know who you are, and know who you are marrying before you dive into visa waters. Yes, some of our significant others come from economically struggling countries and others whose countries fair far better than the US. Your spouse is not an expensive shirt that you tuck the tag in, wear for a night, and return the next day. My husband is fine where he is and it touches me to hear him pray for the betterment of his country and the people. Our spouses are perfectly capable of sustaining themselves in their home country. If you examine the circumstances the quality of life may be somewhat advanced in the US, but the quantity you pay is the same. Your spouse's life is changed as well as their family's. Some of them endure ridicule and negativity, because they married you and not a fellow countryman.
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    Olomi_811 got a reaction from UK_Fan in Irritated with American attitudes when ending a marriage   
    Nothing irks me more than seeing "CAN I SEND THEM BACK?" or some variation of this. I admit with all the fees you pay the immigration process can feel like modern day slave trade. Know what you want, know who you are, and know who you are marrying before you dive into visa waters. Yes, some of our significant others come from economically struggling countries and others whose countries fair far better than the US. Your spouse is not an expensive shirt that you tuck the tag in, wear for a night, and return the next day. My husband is fine where he is and it touches me to hear him pray for the betterment of his country and the people. Our spouses are perfectly capable of sustaining themselves in their home country. If you examine the circumstances the quality of life may be somewhat advanced in the US, but the quantity you pay is the same. Your spouse's life is changed as well as their family's. Some of them endure ridicule and negativity, because they married you and not a fellow countryman.
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    Olomi_811 got a reaction from wissnan4ever in Irritated with American attitudes when ending a marriage   
    Nothing irks me more than seeing "CAN I SEND THEM BACK?" or some variation of this. I admit with all the fees you pay the immigration process can feel like modern day slave trade. Know what you want, know who you are, and know who you are marrying before you dive into visa waters. Yes, some of our significant others come from economically struggling countries and others whose countries fair far better than the US. Your spouse is not an expensive shirt that you tuck the tag in, wear for a night, and return the next day. My husband is fine where he is and it touches me to hear him pray for the betterment of his country and the people. Our spouses are perfectly capable of sustaining themselves in their home country. If you examine the circumstances the quality of life may be somewhat advanced in the US, but the quantity you pay is the same. Your spouse's life is changed as well as their family's. Some of them endure ridicule and negativity, because they married you and not a fellow countryman.
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    Olomi_811 got a reaction from X Factor in Irritated with American attitudes when ending a marriage   
    A petitioner should treat this process as though there was not a "return to sender" option. It's not fair to look at your role in this journey from a position of leverage and power. People mention the heart of the USC; it's bad enough that USCIS paperwork refer to people as ALIENS (hubby really took offense to that), but to have the frame of mind that only the USC has a heart implies that you believe your worth is more.
    When the relationship is USC & USC the issue of returning them is null. Can you truly say the hurt is greater when the person is from another country or is your mentality that you believe you've paid for this person so they owe you?
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    Olomi_811 got a reaction from NevermindVz in Irritated with American attitudes when ending a marriage   
    A petitioner should treat this process as though there was not a "return to sender" option. It's not fair to look at your role in this journey from a position of leverage and power. People mention the heart of the USC; it's bad enough that USCIS paperwork refer to people as ALIENS (hubby really took offense to that), but to have the frame of mind that only the USC has a heart implies that you believe your worth is more.
    When the relationship is USC & USC the issue of returning them is null. Can you truly say the hurt is greater when the person is from another country or is your mentality that you believe you've paid for this person so they owe you?
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    Olomi_811 got a reaction from Mrs. Best in Irritated with American attitudes when ending a marriage   
    Nothing irks me more than seeing "CAN I SEND THEM BACK?" or some variation of this. I admit with all the fees you pay the immigration process can feel like modern day slave trade. Know what you want, know who you are, and know who you are marrying before you dive into visa waters. Yes, some of our significant others come from economically struggling countries and others whose countries fair far better than the US. Your spouse is not an expensive shirt that you tuck the tag in, wear for a night, and return the next day. My husband is fine where he is and it touches me to hear him pray for the betterment of his country and the people. Our spouses are perfectly capable of sustaining themselves in their home country. If you examine the circumstances the quality of life may be somewhat advanced in the US, but the quantity you pay is the same. Your spouse's life is changed as well as their family's. Some of them endure ridicule and negativity, because they married you and not a fellow countryman.
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    Olomi_811 got a reaction from S_R in Irritated with American attitudes when ending a marriage   
    Nothing irks me more than seeing "CAN I SEND THEM BACK?" or some variation of this. I admit with all the fees you pay the immigration process can feel like modern day slave trade. Know what you want, know who you are, and know who you are marrying before you dive into visa waters. Yes, some of our significant others come from economically struggling countries and others whose countries fair far better than the US. Your spouse is not an expensive shirt that you tuck the tag in, wear for a night, and return the next day. My husband is fine where he is and it touches me to hear him pray for the betterment of his country and the people. Our spouses are perfectly capable of sustaining themselves in their home country. If you examine the circumstances the quality of life may be somewhat advanced in the US, but the quantity you pay is the same. Your spouse's life is changed as well as their family's. Some of them endure ridicule and negativity, because they married you and not a fellow countryman.
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    Olomi_811 got a reaction from Emsi.ismE in Irritated with American attitudes when ending a marriage   
    Nothing irks me more than seeing "CAN I SEND THEM BACK?" or some variation of this. I admit with all the fees you pay the immigration process can feel like modern day slave trade. Know what you want, know who you are, and know who you are marrying before you dive into visa waters. Yes, some of our significant others come from economically struggling countries and others whose countries fair far better than the US. Your spouse is not an expensive shirt that you tuck the tag in, wear for a night, and return the next day. My husband is fine where he is and it touches me to hear him pray for the betterment of his country and the people. Our spouses are perfectly capable of sustaining themselves in their home country. If you examine the circumstances the quality of life may be somewhat advanced in the US, but the quantity you pay is the same. Your spouse's life is changed as well as their family's. Some of them endure ridicule and negativity, because they married you and not a fellow countryman.
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    Olomi_811 got a reaction from mounir412 in Irritated with American attitudes when ending a marriage   
    Nothing irks me more than seeing "CAN I SEND THEM BACK?" or some variation of this. I admit with all the fees you pay the immigration process can feel like modern day slave trade. Know what you want, know who you are, and know who you are marrying before you dive into visa waters. Yes, some of our significant others come from economically struggling countries and others whose countries fair far better than the US. Your spouse is not an expensive shirt that you tuck the tag in, wear for a night, and return the next day. My husband is fine where he is and it touches me to hear him pray for the betterment of his country and the people. Our spouses are perfectly capable of sustaining themselves in their home country. If you examine the circumstances the quality of life may be somewhat advanced in the US, but the quantity you pay is the same. Your spouse's life is changed as well as their family's. Some of them endure ridicule and negativity, because they married you and not a fellow countryman.
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