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Yay, finally the end of the journey is getting close for me as well. My interview was today and I passed!! Oath is scheduled for next month.
 
So long story short, my interview was initially scheduled in August, but I asked for it to be rescheduled due to a planned trip overseas. Then it got rescheduled for November, and USCIS cancelled it for a reason unknown to me.
Finally it got rescheduled one final time (today). The officer was nice and professional, and I took less than 30 minutes.
 
The whole rescheduling thing definitely delayed the whole process by several months for me, but I don't regret doing it (I would have missed my brother's wedding overseas otherwise).
 
Congrats to everyone who passed! 🥳

I made some updates to the N-400 December 2021 Filers Google sheet:
- added a "received date" column to differentiate with the "date filed" (which might be the date someone sent their application by mail, if they didn't file online)
- "Biometrics Appointment Needed? - Notice Date", so that we can add the date of when we heard back about if we'll be scheduled to go for a bio appointment or not
- new column for bio appointment date (if you end up having one)
- added a comment on how to find your USCIS office based on your zip code (thanks oakland71!)
- added a " "Interview was scheduled" Notice Date" column, based on JGOliver's screenshot
 
I'm thinking we could also add a column to indicate who is doing the N-400 in addition to I-751, or if we're applying based on the 3 years or 5 years rule, but that might be overkill? Let me know.

MASH, since you're the very first poster in that thread, maybe that could be useful to new joiners if you edit your first post to mention that sheet?

one can easily identify their likely USCIS interview office.

All you have to do is go to this page and enter your zip code at the bottom of this page and press submit. it will tell you your nearest field office. Your n400 interview will happen at this office:

https://www.uscis.gov/about-us/find-a-uscis-office/field-offices

Here's a google sheet that I created quickly:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/11xHTs0yLIeoAXIW-O5iYOvRRvbriVgu7JVw8xQq8QDw/edit#gid=0
 
Feel free to add yourself to it!

Here's a google sheet that I created quickly:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/11xHTs0yLIeoAXIW-O5iYOvRRvbriVgu7JVw8xQq8QDw/edit#gid=0
 
Feel free to add yourself to it!

Here's a google sheet that I created quickly:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/11xHTs0yLIeoAXIW-O5iYOvRRvbriVgu7JVw8xQq8QDw/edit#gid=0
 
Feel free to add yourself to it!

Adding my name to the list since I just filed today!
 
I did it online and got a notice that they will reuse my biometrics, so that's cool.

This link is helpful: http://www.ssa.gov/pubs/10002.html#a0=2
"We issue three types of Social Security cards. All cards show your name and Social Security number.
-The first type of card shows your name and Social Security number and lets you work without restriction. We issue it to:
U.S. citizens; and
People lawfully admitted to the United States on a permanent basis.
-The second type of card shows your name and number and notes, “VALID FOR WORK ONLY WITH DHS AUTHORIZATION.” We issue this type of card to people lawfully admitted to the United States on a temporary basis who have DHS authorization to work.
[...]"
EAD is a temporary work authorization so the annotation will still be on the card. When you become a permanent resident, the annotation disappears (so you need to go back to the SS office to let them know your change of status, see here: http://www.ssa.gov/pubs/10002.html#a0=6).

Hmm, this is incorrect. About 50% of the AOS from K-1 cases are scheduled for an interview. It doesn't necessarily mean those cases are weak or have red flags. It depends on how busy your local USCIS office is (and some other reasons).
I got an interview, my case was nothing weak and I had no red flags. In fact my case was pretty simple. The interview was nothing difficult. I noticed that all other K-1 AOS applicants in my area (same local office) have been scheduled for an interview. Just taking a look at the Timeline tab on VJ shows it.
So, having an interview when AOSing from a K-1 is nothing abnormal.

You can call me Dido, I prefer.

This link is helpful: http://www.ssa.gov/pubs/10002.html#a0=2
"We issue three types of Social Security cards. All cards show your name and Social Security number.
-The first type of card shows your name and Social Security number and lets you work without restriction. We issue it to:
U.S. citizens; and
People lawfully admitted to the United States on a permanent basis.
-The second type of card shows your name and number and notes, “VALID FOR WORK ONLY WITH DHS AUTHORIZATION.” We issue this type of card to people lawfully admitted to the United States on a temporary basis who have DHS authorization to work.
[...]"
EAD is a temporary work authorization so the annotation will still be on the card. When you become a permanent resident, the annotation disappears (so you need to go back to the SS office to let them know your change of status, see here: http://www.ssa.gov/pubs/10002.html#a0=6).

This link is helpful: http://www.ssa.gov/pubs/10002.html#a0=2
"We issue three types of Social Security cards. All cards show your name and Social Security number.
-The first type of card shows your name and Social Security number and lets you work without restriction. We issue it to:
U.S. citizens; and
People lawfully admitted to the United States on a permanent basis.
-The second type of card shows your name and number and notes, “VALID FOR WORK ONLY WITH DHS AUTHORIZATION.” We issue this type of card to people lawfully admitted to the United States on a temporary basis who have DHS authorization to work.
[...]"
EAD is a temporary work authorization so the annotation will still be on the card. When you become a permanent resident, the annotation disappears (so you need to go back to the SS office to let them know your change of status, see here: http://www.ssa.gov/pubs/10002.html#a0=6).

You can update your card when you get your EAD or green card, whichever comes first. No problem.
If you update it when you get your EAD, you will still have to return to the SSA to update it when you get your green card (you have to let know if your immigration status changes).
SS card after update with EAD: Note saying "Valid for work with DHS authorization only" (DHS authorization = EAD)
SS card after update with the green card : No more note, just the SSN and your name. Same as US citizen one.

http://www.uscis.gov/files/form/i-131instr.pdf
Page 4, Part C. Advance Parole Document, point 1. It basically says you much attach an explanation sheet OR if you applied for AOS, to send a copy of the AOS receipt notice.
I guess you are going to mail your I-131 with your AOS application, like many people AOSing from K-1, so no notice needed.
These are some pretty common questions on the forum about the I-131. Next time, try to do a quick search in the search bar.

Hmm, this is incorrect. About 50% of the AOS from K-1 cases are scheduled for an interview. It doesn't necessarily mean those cases are weak or have red flags. It depends on how busy your local USCIS office is (and some other reasons).
I got an interview, my case was nothing weak and I had no red flags. In fact my case was pretty simple. The interview was nothing difficult. I noticed that all other K-1 AOS applicants in my area (same local office) have been scheduled for an interview. Just taking a look at the Timeline tab on VJ shows it.
So, having an interview when AOSing from a K-1 is nothing abnormal.

Yep, don't file for the I-130 or you're going to waste your money.
The cost of the AOS form is $1,070 total only. File also for a temporary work authorization (I-765=EAD) and temporary travel authorization (I-131=AP), as the fees for those forms are waived if filed at the same time of the AOS one. Plus, EAD and AP should be approved after 2-3 months, while your AOS application may take a long time. This way, you will be able to work and travel while your AOS will be pending.

C'est a partir de 3 ans de statut en tant que green card holder + toujours marié(e) a l'US citizen, attention. :-) Pas 3 ans de mariage, ou 3 ans depuis que tu es arrivé avec ton K-1.
http://www.uscis.gov/us-citizenship/citizenship-through-naturalization/naturalization-spouses-us-citizens
Mais oui, si t'es toujours marie, c'est 3 ans et non 5 !

Once the I-129F petition is approved, that is not the end. You only have an approved I-129F petition, not an approved K-1 visa. The petition approval just allows for the foreign fiance(e) to apply for a K-1 visa at the US consulate in their country abroad. They would need to apply, get a medical and be approved for the K-1 visa at an interview. Once the K-1 visa is approved, then they can use it to enter the US and have 90 days in which to marry.

J'y suis eligible donc ca m'interesse aussi ! (meme si je pense pas me lancer maintenant)

May is almost there, so let's start our thread!
California Service Center (0 applicant)


VJName..............Date of I-751...NOA1 Date....Biometrics.....Approved
Name..................--/--/--......--/--/--......--/--/14......--/--/--



Vermont Service Center (0 applicant)

VJName..............Date of I-751...NOA1 Date....Biometrics.....Approved
Name..................--/--/14......--/--/14......--/--/14......--/--/--



IMPORTANT!

* Make sure that your VJ Text Editor setting is set to Rich Text Editor.
* Go to the MOST RECENTLY POSTED VERSION of this list (go to the last post and scroll UP) and "Reply" to it, deleting the "quote" tags in your reply.
* Please DO NOT change the font, font size, add colors, stuff like that.
* Please PREVIEW before posting to make sure it is properly formatted.
* Please check that you have not deleted anyone's NAME & DATA.

Date of I-751 = The Date you sent your application
NOA Date = The Receipt Date on your original NOA letter
Biometrics = The Date of your biometrics appointment
Approved = The Date your case was approved

Ava, you did the right thing letting him go. Now you must be strong and focus on your life. To help you get over him will take time and healing. It's not easy giving up on someone or something you love, and you may feel you wasted your time as you put so much time tears and energy into the K-1 Process.
You have to understand, you did not give up, he gave up on you. You should feel proud of yourself for hanging in there all this time; and look on the bright side, you have that 1 and a half years of experience with both the K-1 process and a man whom you know not to get involved with. Your experience alone was not a waste of time, but a learning process, so for the next man you meet, you will know the red flags and how to avoid them. You will also be able to help your next gentleman with the K-1 process so that you can do it together like a loving couple.
Secondly, you should not feel embarrassed about your situation. Plenty of people in the world and on this site have had similar experiences. By sharing them with us, as difficult as it was, we had more insight on your situation and that actually helped us give you proper advice. You are a strong, intelligent, and brave young woman with a fruitful future ahead of you.
Finally, you are correct. No one should threaten violence toward you, even if they are kidding. I could not even fathom hitting my wife, let alone think about it. You did the right thing leaving this man, as he had the potential to physically abuse you, and possibly your children. I am happy you made the decision to keep yourself and future children safe.
So for now my advice would be:
1. Go on with your life and focus on your career. Give yourself at least 6 months to heal. You will find that with a clearer mind, you can get back into dating again.
2. Go out with friends and family. Have them listen to your story. It helps to talk about it and get reassurance that you made the right decision.
3. Change your email and block his phone number.
4. Do not contact him. He may try to contact you and apologize and get you to change your mind. Do not accept his invitation to communicate. Simply tell him, "I am sorry. I don't want to talk about it," (that should sound familiar to him ), then cut off the communication.
Stay safe and happy. God Bless you, Ava.

Dearest Ava---I have been a teacher for 41 years, and I have seen it all. I've also been in an abusive relationship. I am going to be brutal and talk to you like I would one of my former students. I still have contact with tons of them. This isn't judgment, this is seeing the truth as you have told it.
Ok, now what part of this entire relationship do you not understand?
1. He tells you marriage is only for having children. Don't you dare go there and get pregnant. You will be stuck for life in a ####### relationship with a non-existent father. AND you will be paying for all the expenses of raising a child, I believe it is close to half a million dollars in a lifetime (of course, that's if you are a good parent).
2. He asks if you want him to punch you...Honey, are you blind? He is telling you right there he is abusive. He has shown you numerous examples of how he is, but you keep asking if you can change him. The answer is HELL NO. His parents raised him and you see how THAT has turned out.
3. He doesn't work, won't work, and he has stated to you he doesn't want to work. And he has been a smart ### in his answers to you. What is hard to understand about that? Why should he work? His stupid mother has enabled him to be a dependent little mooch his entire life. You can bet the others living in that house area bunch of leeches also. How nice it would be to have a smart educated young lady like you to bring in his income and take care of them.
4. He has basically done nothing in this relationship. You have done all the work. Why is that? Because he is basically unable to be in a relationship AND he doesn't WANT to be in a real one. Who would want him honey? So he finds a sweet caring person, but suddenly that sweet person is going to be in his home. He must be wondering how he could possibly have enough energy to pretend to care about you when you get here. It's been all fun and games to him unless he has to give something of himself. Then he tells you basically that he doesn't care enough to do anything and expects you to live with that. Honey, what do you not understand about this? Believe a person when they are telling you how they are. Even his dad says he's not worth a damn. And, by the way, the paper the dad signed IS legally binding...Tell his dad that and see how much fun they have with that. Being an immigrant is very expensive and it's a long way to citizenship. It sounds like you have a wonderful life there in France. Don't give it up for a loser.
5. He plays games all day. OMG, that is a child that has no life nor responsibilities. I don't for a minute believe he has a college degree of any kind. Ask him for proof. What kind of family allows that behavior? The answer is: A family with no ambitions.
6. You say you love him. I understand that feeling. Been there, done that. But I can tell you this. When I was IN that relationship, I cried almost every single day, wondering why he acted like that. After a couple of years, I had had enough and got the hell out. OMG, you can't imagine regaining yourself. I have not cried since that day..and it's been almost 5 years. At least mine worked at a job, but he tried to shift blame for all issues on me. I had never been and never will be in a relationship like that again. And, yes he was from another country. He will beat you down until you think you are the problem. He's already doing that to you. At least mine waited til he was here...lol Yes, you are making excuses for his behavior just like I did. You are wondering why he won't change. Ok, here's the reason: HE'S AN ### AND DOESN'T WANT TO CHANGE. He came to see you for a big old vacation and fun time. And even then, I'll bet you saw a few episodes of the future. PLEASE get out of that denial. He is what he is, and he's not going to change. HE HAS EVEN TOLD YOU HE HAS NO INTEREST IN WORKING, CHANGING, CARRYING HIS SHARE IN THE RELATIONSHIP. AND ON AND ON...Listen to what he is telling you. It was fun for a while, but he's not going to make any effort. This is so sad.
7. You are a wonderful caring woman. You are a giver, and people like him love that. He gets what he wants with no effort. You are deluding yourself when you say you are going to "SEE" if he's really like that. Of course, he is. He has even told you he is. What more proof do you need? If you go there, I can predict your future. He will turn on some charm...I don't see him as capable of giving you much of his time or energy. After all, he has gaming to do. You will convince yourself you can change him. Even if he wanted to change, you would be living in hell AND with a huge group of do-nothings who sponge off the mom, who is not exactly a winner. BUT, Ava, he has told you in so many words he is not capable of love, doesn't want to work, and doesn't care. It's hard for giving people to realize that people can act like this, but it happens all the time. His family will put the screws to you because they need some more money coming in.
8. Why would you want to be in a relationship with him? Ok, sit down and make a list of all of his positives and all of his negatives. How do they stack up? Why do you stay in this relationship? What are you getting out of it? So far, you haven't told us anything positive about this "man." PLEASE listen to the people on this site. DO NOT GO THERE. Cut him off, and look for a real man. Don't beat yourself up because he is incapable of loving anyone. It doesn't matter if he's depressed or anything else. He has absolutely nothing to offer you. You will be out the $4,000 in no time. Save the money, keep your job, do not go there. You will be sorry. I can guarantee that. You are a caring wonderful woman. There are lots of wonderful men out there who would be so happy to have a woman like you. Don't throw your future away on this slug.
I have seen it on this site over and over again. A woman or a man is so "in love" (me included, although there were no signs of what was to come, amazingly) that they refuse to see the truth. And most of these don't have the evidence this man has already given you. He has all but put up a sign that says "Come if you want, but don't expect anything." I have a feeling he would be relieved if you did not come because then he would have to put in the effort to deal with you. Please don't take this to say that any of this is your fault. It's not. He latched on to someone that cared about him, entertained him in France, and has a great future. I doubt he ever thought it would get this far. Now he has to man up, and he is telling you over and over that he doesn't want to. Only disaster (to you) can come of this. Don't look back, run, immediately start chatting with nice people, and in a short while, you will wonder why you ever entertained a thought of being with him.
GOOD LUCK, AVA. You are a sweet woman with a generous heart. We love you, hon....

Odd
I see job signs up all over.

Not sure why he can not play video games equally as well in France.