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I am a Pinay. Tampo is an offshoot of being hurt rather than being angry. It will last for a day or 2 then everything's good again especially if an apology happened or when she realized that she was at fault. Oh did anyone mention "PMS"?lol!
Thowing things or making "dabog" though is tantrum - a childish behavior. Yes, it is saying "I need attention" and / or " I want to hurt you or me". Still, it is immaturely bratty.
Could be medications. Could be cultural. Could be she was just finding a reason to get out of the relationship. Or could be she wants to "breathe"?
You need to make her understand she is your wife. You are the man of the house. Show her you care but not too much. That could prolly be a reason why she is bratty too. Don't spoil her too much. She needs to "woman up".
She can make tampo or little dabog but no way she should try to be violent. That is not cultural. That is personal.
My thoughts. Hope things are getting better?

I am sorry, Singed, that you got this type of woman, a shame to my race. However, this is not cultural, this is personal. She has twisted values and priorities. The most that hurt me is the part about the kids. They are innocent...were. We can replace spouses but not our children, own flesh and blood ho did not make the decision for us who to marry next. I pray they would lead a better life ahead with you.
You have made some bad decisions along the way in that relationship. You had a say when it started. You have a say to end it- divorce her and don't sign her ROC.Go to ICE as suggested by more knowledgeable memebers here.Justice must be served.I may not have heard her side of the story but when you said she has harmed your kids..that's just unacceptable. If couples hurt each other, the kids don't have to be.
May you have learned BIG this time and I will keep you and your kids in my prayers.

I am sorry, Singed, that you got this type of woman, a shame to my race. However, this is not cultural, this is personal. She has twisted values and priorities. The most that hurt me is the part about the kids. They are innocent...were. We can replace spouses but not our children, own flesh and blood ho did not make the decision for us who to marry next. I pray they would lead a better life ahead with you.
You have made some bad decisions along the way in that relationship. You had a say when it started. You have a say to end it- divorce her and don't sign her ROC.Go to ICE as suggested by more knowledgeable memebers here.Justice must be served.I may not have heard her side of the story but when you said she has harmed your kids..that's just unacceptable. If couples hurt each other, the kids don't have to be.
May you have learned BIG this time and I will keep you and your kids in my prayers.

How's emotional infidelity?
Sorry you are going through this.
If I am in your shoes,either he does something about it consistently (and am willing to help him go through his "addiction" or fixation), go see a shrink or a marriage counselor or I leave.
Keep your chin up. He married you. There must be a good reason there. Talk to him?
God bless you!

I think the attempt of anyone to try to understand the culture of his/her partner is commendable. Seeking to understand before being understood - a plus!
There is no menial job, just menial mentality - I forgot the author.
Enjoy the rest of your Sunday!

I am a Pinay. Tampo is an offshoot of being hurt rather than being angry. It will last for a day or 2 then everything's good again especially if an apology happened or when she realized that she was at fault. Oh did anyone mention "PMS"?lol!
Thowing things or making "dabog" though is tantrum - a childish behavior. Yes, it is saying "I need attention" and / or " I want to hurt you or me". Still, it is immaturely bratty.
Could be medications. Could be cultural. Could be she was just finding a reason to get out of the relationship. Or could be she wants to "breathe"?
You need to make her understand she is your wife. You are the man of the house. Show her you care but not too much. That could prolly be a reason why she is bratty too. Don't spoil her too much. She needs to "woman up".
She can make tampo or little dabog but no way she should try to be violent. That is not cultural. That is personal.
My thoughts. Hope things are getting better?

I am a Pinay. Tampo is an offshoot of being hurt rather than being angry. It will last for a day or 2 then everything's good again especially if an apology happened or when she realized that she was at fault. Oh did anyone mention "PMS"?lol!
Thowing things or making "dabog" though is tantrum - a childish behavior. Yes, it is saying "I need attention" and / or " I want to hurt you or me". Still, it is immaturely bratty.
Could be medications. Could be cultural. Could be she was just finding a reason to get out of the relationship. Or could be she wants to "breathe"?
You need to make her understand she is your wife. You are the man of the house. Show her you care but not too much. That could prolly be a reason why she is bratty too. Don't spoil her too much. She needs to "woman up".
She can make tampo or little dabog but no way she should try to be violent. That is not cultural. That is personal.
My thoughts. Hope things are getting better?