KCJ

they will not ask you to turn on your computer. I have friends that have entered the US with "pirate" cd's containing software,movies and they never had any issues.

I used to dream of a romantic beach wedding but since I have to be practical, I think there's no need for that. It will be too expensive. Me and my fiance will do the same thing. The "drive thru" wedding :)haha. After all, the main reason why I want to marry him is because I love him and not because of what he can give me.
I know what you feel because we have this fairy tale fantasy as a woman but I guess we are grown ups and should see the reality of life. Some people want it to be memorable and others just want to brag about it. You'll be fine. Instead of feeling bad about it, think of activities that you can do together that could be captured by the camera, it's a proof of happy memories too.

Marriage must be founded with pure understanding... It's not about how grand the wedding is but how you keep the marriage works. If he can't seem to afford a big wedding for now then you must understand him... Again it's not about being big and opulent but how you'll keep it sacred... Sometimes we must learn how to appreciate simple joys and blessings to see how true happiness really means Good luck and all the best to both of you <3

No offense taken. I agree with you wholeheartedly. It was definitely my fault which I stated at the end of my story, and the only thing I can say is the marriage counselling I received, along with advice from my church and pastor was behind providing me the "hope" that she was sincere and would change. Of course, at that time, no one "suspected" she was scamming me.
I have a philosophy on her too--There's a good reason she left us and went to California--it was to go to work for Hollywood, because she was a great actor! Maybe we'll see her on the next soap opera.
In hindsight, I should have simply allowed her to be deported and let her deal with that crisis on her own, but I really believed she'd change--and certainly hoped she would seeing as we had endured a huge investment bringing her here, and acquired bills needing to be supported by two incomes.
Perhaps "excuses" now, but they were enough at the time to convince me to give it another shot. I guess some people don't give up as easily as others, and I can be hard-headed at times in that regard.

i think this person seeks attention...she/he might wanted to be the number 1 hot topic again...remember, the one who posted this,,,, is the same person who posted the wrong information about the DS-156 form whom his/her post became number1 hot topic last the other day...better ignore this person...i just reported his/her membership here, hope the vj admin will take an action on this useless member here....

i think this person seeks attention...she/he might wanted to be the number 1 hot topic again...remember, the one who posted this,,,, is the same person who posted the wrong information about the DS-156 form whom his/her post became number1 hot topic last the other day...better ignore this person...i just reported his/her membership here, hope the vj admin will take an action on this useless member here....

There is nothing to worry about. Since the Naturalization Certificate is what is being used as proof of citizenship, it is okay to send a photocopy. It does not make sense to send an original of such an important piece of paper.
See the thread here: http://www.visajourn...of-citizenship/

I wish I could offer you some good advice, but I have heard this story before. She had a life in her country before she met you and if she just married you to come to America, she needs to go back to her life. It is terrible that someone would do that to you, but it is very common so I am told. I personally will not let anyone take me for a ride. We go into a relationship or marriage to anyone and there is no guarantee, but if someone purposely sets out to hurt you, they do not deserve your concern. It is terrible for the child though.

Pretty quite unfortunate.I think she basically doesnt love u from the onset and she has a mission aside u coming down to the states.
It might have had to do with her past relationship with men.i believe she devotes more time to her kid than.she just might ve used u as a stepping stop.
I hate to read abt artificial marriage,mayb its high time u told her abt ur willingness to let off the stress in the marriage.i dont see her wanting u as much as u do.