Dante & Geor

My input.....it's not what you say, it's how you say it. Often times the intended audience gets caught up in how things are presented and not the message that was attempted to be relayed.....Public speaking 101. Works in the real world too. If one's going to use controversial terms and language then it should be explained in detail to defuse any unintended fallout.
Bob

Don't speak about 90% of the world, as this is so not true. It might be true in some 3rd world countries, but not 90% of the world.

If you really said it to your fiancee and her MIL. I already sorry for your soon to be wife. Control??? are you seriously using those words. Did you got a slave for you or a wife?
Sorry but it is just frustrating to read your post.

Darren has started another thread....... ................ I'm sorry but you'll not get too much sympathy airing out your 50's man/woman mentality here. I understand it may work for you but there's going to be many who have a problem with it. Best of luck with the MIL problems. Sometimes it's not what you say, it's how you say it to convince/encourage others to do the right thing or to modify behaviors.
Bob

She is mine now?
I control you?
Who wears the pants and dresses?
Purpose of your post? You have a fiancee not property.

Agreed. Most green card scammers at least make an effort to keep their sucker on the line until they get the green card. She's not even trying. My guess is she's either not capable of keeping up the charade, or she's incredibly stunning and her ego is telling her that she doesn't need to put forth any effort, or he's so hopelessly in love (mcat???) that she figures she's got it clinched no matter what she does.
To the OP: Don't even call her. She'll change her attitude faster than you can switch a light on and try to talk you out of it, and you'll be so happy to see her change in attitude that you'll let her do it. Just file for the divorce, and then go out with your buddies and get drunk.
BTW, hookers treat their johns better than that because they want them to come back.

First, just to clarify the Prostitute thing, the Prostitute is the one who receives pay and provides sex, the John is the one who provides payment and received sex. She is the Prostitute and you're her highest paying John!
Now if you want to use the labels "BLIND", "DUMB", "STUPID" then go right ahead.
I'm assuming shes physically stunning? Maybe you feel she's "out of your league"? If that's the case then your ego wants so badly to believe that you are worthy of a woman you've elevated so much.
The irony is that her actions have proven that her beauty is very shallow and masks a lot of ugliness just beneath the surface. She is the one who should be hoping she is worthy of a man such as yourself.
I think you know the answers to your questions and how she will not change if you bother to import her to the US.
In short if the sex is worth the expense then go ahead and bring her her but expect to lose that in very short order.
Otherwise just file for divorce locally (where you live) and move on with your life...

are you sick in the head? how can you mix a baby with a plane ticket? the OP is trolling, who is she to generalise a particular case? she offended some of the people who already have a baby concived before the visa process was over. if it complicates things for you and few other people it's a blessing for the mothers who had a baby this way or another. squeaky580 is a happy mother how can you troll about a baby being a burden or a complication? jesus christ, get a life

The advice I gave can apply to everyone across the board, regardless of their personal situations. The same advice is given by USCIS and also consulates. Telling people when they should or should not conceive in a relationship is different because, frankly, it's NOBODY'S BUSINESS- except that of the parties involved. The OP's post is one small step short of trolling, IMHO.

+50 for you
whoever said "abortion might be answer" keep that for yourself. i tried to get a baby this summer, and no, not for the immigration purposes, but for US!!!
when you KNOW your relationship will work out, and when you have decent conditions for the baby i dunno whats the problem with getting pregnant?
and thumbs up @KrisDanne.
before judging someone, JUDGE YOURSELF

babies are blessings! dont judge other people like you know everything.

Wow OP- Mind your own business!

that's total bullcrap. of course people who are already done with the whole process dont give a fluck about the ones that didnt start or are in the process of it. let's be serious not everyone affords to visit their parteners often and the higher income is the stupidest idea ever. it would ruin the lifes of thousand of people. just because some of them use k1 visas for immigration fraud doesnt mean a harder process would stop it, and it doesnt mean the fraud is as often as you think. 180 days instead of 90 yeah that is somehow logical. but 90 days is more than enough for a civil marriage required for AOS. whoever wants to get married religious and with big wedding with rainbows and sunshines can do it whenever they want

im sorry but i feel the process is already hard enough and many good couples end up taking a beating over it
sara

Why? You have listed no good reasons. All you did was make up some statistics.
I'm sorry, you have to realize you're a part of a forum full of people still going through the process and still finding it very difficult, stressful and emotionally draining. To have someone who is finished come on and say for no good reason that the process should be made even MORE difficult is a bit of a slap in the face, I imagine.

Poor little girl...

I hope Gretchen and the parents did not change their minds about her coming here in the US now that they know EXACTLY HOW YOU ARE. Control freak and "knows-all" guy even if not in the proper place. It's your way of organizing things that doomed you and not the ways in the Philippines. And you expect people and your girl's family to bow down their heads on you just because you are "the man" that you think of yourself?
On the lighter note, congratulations for the interview success. Now, Gretchen's JOURNEY will begin. Goodluck...to Gretchen.

It's not about the money, money, money
We don't need your money, money, money
:whistle: :whistle:

I really like how someone can be reminded what they said with a link.
If you don't like links... then how 'bout a quote?
(my wife has an excellent memory. You did use the word "agreement". and reading the entire sentence...seems like you set up a POD account. )

So, you took her parents to Manila not out of love, not to give them a chance to experience Manila, not for them to have a special trip with their daughter, not for you all to have one last time together before she leaves, not so they can be there to support their daughter; but so they can see exactly how you are.

You know, after thinking about this some more, I really think it was wrong to not pay the taxi driver. First, the directions given to him weren't the best possible directions. Why not give the address instead of saying St. Mary's when the place is really Good Shepherd? You said St. Mary's on Aurora and he took you to St. Mary's off Aurora. Seriously? You're angry at this guy for that little bit of miscommunication? It's not like it was only your time that was wasted. He wasted his time and his chances to make some money that he probably needs a lot more than you do. I really think you should have paid him for his efforts.

Congrats!
PS Stop talking 'bout the ex... this should mean nothing to you, since you don't love her anymore

Congrats!
PS Stop talking 'bout the ex... this should mean nothing to you, since you don't love her anymore

VJ Family -
My fiancee finally arrived on Friday 9/2 and my family and I were waiting for her with flowers and balloons at airport. I didn't travel with her.
During her POE, not a single questions was asked she explained. She was just asked for the brown/yellow envelopes since we front loaded application (there were 2). It took about 5 minutes. Harassment level was zero.
It's an awesome feeling to have my beautiful fiancee next to me. We live in San Francisco and she's been adjusting to the weather.
I bought her a North Face coat before she came and it came in handy. She definitely needed it. She seems really happy and already spoke to her parents via Skype a few times. Her parents miss her but happy.
As I mentioned before, being with my fiancee couldn't have been possible without your guidance.
For those still waiting, I'm sure when the time comes, it will be awesome for you as well.

OMIGOD! me is having a laughgasm