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    googled got a reaction from Unidentified in 221(g) Refusal at K1 Interview in Thailand. "Your Fiance Has Many Women!!" Player!"   
    Honestly I might sound like a jerk for saying this, but maybe you fiance has gotten cold feet. Before you think I am crazy look at what I am seeing. You say that you sent the evidence and the 221g says that they never got any. Your fiance was the one who is supposed to give it to them. You said that she said the CO said that you did not love her and would never marry her. My wife is Thai and she tells me all about the crazy stories of her friends back in Thailand and that sounds like the ####### they would say when they are trying to take advantage of some "dumb farang". I also think that mentioning the 4K was a bad idea and from my experience from giving your Thai inlaws money, they are not saving it for your wedding. It is probably half spent on gold and Thai Whiskey by now.
    I am not saying that you should accuse her of anything. I hope the everything she says is true and that this is a big misunderstanding by the embassy, you get it straightened out, and you two are together here in the U.S. Just be careful and protect yourself.
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    googled got a reaction from milimelo in 221(g) Refusal at K1 Interview in Thailand. "Your Fiance Has Many Women!!" Player!"   
    Honestly I might sound like a jerk for saying this, but maybe you fiance has gotten cold feet. Before you think I am crazy look at what I am seeing. You say that you sent the evidence and the 221g says that they never got any. Your fiance was the one who is supposed to give it to them. You said that she said the CO said that you did not love her and would never marry her. My wife is Thai and she tells me all about the crazy stories of her friends back in Thailand and that sounds like the ####### they would say when they are trying to take advantage of some "dumb farang". I also think that mentioning the 4K was a bad idea and from my experience from giving your Thai inlaws money, they are not saving it for your wedding. It is probably half spent on gold and Thai Whiskey by now.
    I am not saying that you should accuse her of anything. I hope the everything she says is true and that this is a big misunderstanding by the embassy, you get it straightened out, and you two are together here in the U.S. Just be careful and protect yourself.
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    googled got a reaction from Karee in 221(g) Refusal at K1 Interview in Thailand. "Your Fiance Has Many Women!!" Player!"   
    Honestly I might sound like a jerk for saying this, but maybe you fiance has gotten cold feet. Before you think I am crazy look at what I am seeing. You say that you sent the evidence and the 221g says that they never got any. Your fiance was the one who is supposed to give it to them. You said that she said the CO said that you did not love her and would never marry her. My wife is Thai and she tells me all about the crazy stories of her friends back in Thailand and that sounds like the ####### they would say when they are trying to take advantage of some "dumb farang". I also think that mentioning the 4K was a bad idea and from my experience from giving your Thai inlaws money, they are not saving it for your wedding. It is probably half spent on gold and Thai Whiskey by now.
    I am not saying that you should accuse her of anything. I hope the everything she says is true and that this is a big misunderstanding by the embassy, you get it straightened out, and you two are together here in the U.S. Just be careful and protect yourself.
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    googled got a reaction from Bumbero in 221(g) Refusal at K1 Interview in Thailand. "Your Fiance Has Many Women!!" Player!"   
    Honestly I might sound like a jerk for saying this, but maybe you fiance has gotten cold feet. Before you think I am crazy look at what I am seeing. You say that you sent the evidence and the 221g says that they never got any. Your fiance was the one who is supposed to give it to them. You said that she said the CO said that you did not love her and would never marry her. My wife is Thai and she tells me all about the crazy stories of her friends back in Thailand and that sounds like the ####### they would say when they are trying to take advantage of some "dumb farang". I also think that mentioning the 4K was a bad idea and from my experience from giving your Thai inlaws money, they are not saving it for your wedding. It is probably half spent on gold and Thai Whiskey by now.
    I am not saying that you should accuse her of anything. I hope the everything she says is true and that this is a big misunderstanding by the embassy, you get it straightened out, and you two are together here in the U.S. Just be careful and protect yourself.
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    googled got a reaction from C-ma'am in Can I apply K-1 Now?   
    I was in the same situation that you are in and I had to wait until the six month period was over. Read your divorce petition. If it says that you are not able to marry another person for six months, then you are not legally free to marry at this point and you are not able to file the petition until you are legally free to marry. So you have to wait until February to mail it in.
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    googled reacted to belinda63 in Brought fiance. And things didn't work out. She won't leave   
    You have no legal obligation to provide for her, the I-134 is not a legally binding document. Morally I believe from the information given you have done the right thing. You have provided her with an honest assessment of the relationship and indicated you did not wish to continue it. You have provided her with paid transportation, if she chooses to not accept the free ticket from you then she can pay for her own way home.
    I would just cut ties with her and move on.
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    googled got a reaction from abdelnish83 in what to say   
    My fiance has seemed more depressed over the last few days about this whole process taking so long. We are getting close to the end. We are waiting for the embassy to give us an interview date now. It really does hurt worse the closer you get to the end.
    She seemed really depressed this morning. She says people in the village ask her why it takes so long. They know other women with farang husbands and it did not take this long. I am so tired of hearing and saying things like, "Just hang in there, it will be over before you know it" and "Good things come to those who wait. What do I say to her when she wonders why it has to take so long?
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    googled got a reaction from Tahoma in embassy email- wrong fiance...   
    Hey. Let's not be too hasty here. This Daniel Patrik might be a nice guy.
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    googled got a reaction from pumpkinseed in embassy email- wrong fiance...   
    Hey. Let's not be too hasty here. This Daniel Patrik might be a nice guy.
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    googled got a reaction from missicy in embassy email- wrong fiance...   
    Hey. Let's not be too hasty here. This Daniel Patrik might be a nice guy.
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    googled got a reaction from Harpa Timsah in embassy email- wrong fiance...   
    Hey. Let's not be too hasty here. This Daniel Patrik might be a nice guy.
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    googled got a reaction from Caroline + Angelo in "Touched"   
    For a few seconds you get this warm tingly feeling.
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    googled got a reaction from B_J in income   
    My income is pretty gross after taxes.
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    googled got a reaction from Angeli in Withdrawing I-129F   
    I agree with jrmjia. Sometimes you have to give it time. I know early on in my relationship there were some cultural things that I did not understand, but I gave it some time and it worked out.
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