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Life's journey...I'd appreciate it if you wouldn't comment on post anymore. It's a pretty mean thing to insinuate that I am not telling the true story. I don't have one reason not to be honest about this nightmare. I'm seeking help and advice not more problems and headaches and definitely not ilspirited people. What is happening to people? Does everything have to be so difficult?

Doubt that, but thanks for your input. I am originally from Sweden and my boyfriend is Jamaican so the "back home" does not apply....Besides I immigrated many years ago...and I didn't "dump" anyone, I was the "dumpee" at the time

As we prepare to get another original copy of my fiance's birth certificate and as I wonder what other paperwork we may have lost to the "sealed envelope" handed over at POE I just wanted to remind those who haven't been to their interview yet to make sure they keep an original copy of such important paperwork. I got tired of making copies and didn't know they were going to take my fiance's birth certificate and not give it back. It is my understanding now that they would have accepted a photocopy. So...just another thing to think about as you prepare. Look ahead to what will be needed for AOS and what might be difficult to obtain once your significant other is no longer in their home country.

We have we own Caribbean forum!!!! RAEEEEEEEEEEEEEE WOIIIIIIIIIIII!! Mad a road! Thank God! Respect Ewok.
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NVC do tings a likkle differently. A when tings gonna change wid immigration policies and inconsistencies. CHo! They tell me one thing and when I do it, they tell me another. Confused yah....
Anyhow...how uno doing my fellow Jamaicans/ Ja'can spouses/significant others/mi Jamaican peopleeeeeeeeeeeeeee. Wha go dung?

Don't come in here and muck up my request. This is a genuine request and lest you are a Mod.....please be respectful.And YES I think its USCIS!yu renk like!

I havn't been on this website in so long. When I can remember going on this site mutiple times a day for a year while going through the k-1 process. I'm very thankful my husband Nattoy made it to this country and has been a better man for me than I could have ever imagined. He got a great job and mine is ok for now. We started out living with friends and now have our own apartment and continue to build our lives together. Things are not always easy as I had to be patient with him as he relied on me to show him the ropes. Sometimes I would get upset that he didn't know something. LOL Which is why I learned to be patient and understanding to someone in America for the first time. He is very smart and has come a long way. We even argued quit a bit after about 8 months of him being here, married life is a whole different ball game, but learning and growing in our relationship has brought us to a point where we treat each other respectfully for the most part. We have both givin each other many lessons and a richer life. I feel the love he has for me and am very greatful. Without this website I wouldn't have beable to do it. We will be married a year April 30th. I feel I've found a diamond in the rough:) Maybe some kids in a few years :)
For anyone affraid in the process,if your willing to do the work, and your motives are good and right, God will take care of the rest.

Hello my FL friend! I am so thrilled to see that you two are learning and growing on each other every day. Although we have only been married a couple of months that is the same substance I try and instill in our relationship. It is so easy to get annoyed and aggravated with the changes that have occurred in your life since your spouse has been here with you. For me, it is sometimes a real shock! But I have learned to center myself and remember that we are coming from two different worlds and have our own individual habits that we are trying to merge into one household! It is a learning game. But as you said... if its important enough, you learn to work through it. That's the real test!
Congratulations on your upcoming anniversary! I'm so thrilled to see you tow going strong! TTYS