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  1. California Service Center (2 applicants, 0 approved - 0%)

    VJName..............Date of I-751...NOA1 Date....Biometrics.....Approved
    LONG&KIEU.............01/02/14......01/--/14......--/--/14......--/--/--

    FOREVERWAITING........01/06/14......01/--/14......--/--/14......--/--/--

    Vermont Service Center (0 applicants, 0 approved - 0%)

    VJName..............Date of I-751...NOA1 Date....Biometrics.....Approved
    AmyWrites.............01/20/14......01/--/14......--/--/14......--/--/--

  2. Sending this after Jan 18, about ten days after the 90 day window commences;

    - affidavits from parents stating we live with them

    - joint bank account(s), showing he's been paying my medical bills

    - joint lease of our time in Arlington, VA

    - pictures of us

    - pictures of when his father came over to visit

    - thinking of getting affidavits from friends saying they know us

    - documents showing we went on a vacation together

    - taxes filed jointly

    Kind of stuck on what else to add?

  3. Actually it sounds better, whining about how you can't "consumate" the marriage as often as you want (which, by definition, only happens once), makes her look more like an object to you.

    Back to OP. Eh, good luck. You're a month in. This is just how things go. I personally would rather wait a few months than think my government doesn't care if fraudsters and the like pour in (and they already do, imagine how it would be if policies were more lenient).

  4. I can't help but chuckle that people think Russian women are not materialistic. Maybe it's because I lived far too long in wealthy-as-heck Moscow, studying at a university which caters to the best-connected in Moscow, and Moscow is very different from Russia, but women commonly want to marry/be a mistress just for money, and prefer to live with their parents or in a bad flat if it means being able to afford designer clothes, bags, and shoes, and generally they harshly judge others who do not have the same expensive things they do. The obsession with beauty makes for a very vain and materialistic group of females who will spend a lot of money on appearance; something you'll enjoy while looking at the girls in Russia but marrying into it is a different story. It's why I recommend any of my male friends looking to marry an Eastern European girl to look into Belarus, Ukraine, or Russian cities that are NOT Moscow or St. Pete.

    Back to topic. My husband has changed in a way he didn't expect; he has higher expectations about everything. Like, he gets annoyed at bad infrastructure. He believes he can "climb up the ladder" and doesn't have to be stuck in the same ####### position forever like in Russia. He complains if he gets a bad waiter or if a product he buys is broken, he'll return it. American dream indeed, he finally feels like things can progress.

  5. We dont argue. We dont fight.

    Of course you don't. You saw each other for what I'm sure was a romance-filled week worthy of bad reality TV, and talk some hours a day about your day to day lives, nothing controversial there.

    Everyone argues. That you're not means; a. you avoid talking about controversial topics or b. for whatever reason one or both of you doesn't disagree in order to keep the peace and attain something at the end of this.

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