Get out the house, run fast and never look back.
Call the police if he gets your phone or hurt you or threat you. Safety first, leave the house of threat at once..., been there done that -- with abusive American husband and mother in law. If you don't have place to go, find shelter. With your green card you can work, do not depend on your spouse. For those who is doing this, get yourself your own money and debit card. Again, go to safe place first. Do not worry, as green card holder, you have the right...I was in your place so I stayed with abusive husband and father to my child till I become US citizen for same fear you probably experiencing -- that fear to be separated with my child -- it was manipulation. Take care of yourself.