My visa journey is over right here

[applewow 0]

I just wanted to thank this site..I found good people here who always been ready to help with advice..

It's hard to realize,but my visa journey is over...

Friend of my fiance gave him a link saying that I am a scammer!!!

That I am asking money for travel,visa,etc and the date when somebody

added this information about me is 07 october 2007...

But to be honest before all of you and before God,I never were scammer,

never were looking online for man neither..Yes,when I was in Korea 2 years ago I used

koreanqupid.com site to find a friends in Seoul..

But once I found the man who I love,that was it...

I believe his friend added me in this scammer list,because Inquiry Date in this page about me is

07 october 2007 (united states) and he found out this page (like he is saying) on 09 october 2007...

And my surname in ,,Assumed Last Name,, is not that I have in passport, its my mained name on that site(and his friend knows it) ..so..how could I recieve the money from somebody if my surname in my passport is different???

My fiance lives with that guy and I believe he doesnt like us being happy.And I remember that

guy sent me message long time ago asking me to leave my fiance,I ignored him,but asked him why..he never aswered...

All what I wanted to say here is...I truely loved and love my fiance..And I wanted to be happy just like other people do...But I think,its not a right time for me yet...

I will try to find administration and find out how it could happen with me..But site says ,,Disclaimer : Entries listed below do not confirm a scammer or scam and may not be real names or fact.

Information below is the results of anonymous user scam inquires. Everything you read here should be independently verified by yourself. ,,

I just wanted to share with my pain in here and in a same time wish to all of you luck in your journey...

I just want to die,but life goes on and I have to survive!!!

I will do my best...

[joelunchbox 0]

I just wanted to thank this site..I found good people here who always been ready to help with advice..

It's hard to realize,but my visa journey is over...

Friend of my fiance gave him a link saying that I am a scammer!!!

That I am asking money for travel,visa,etc and the date when somebody

added this information about me is 07 october 2007...

But to be honest before all of you and before God,I never were scammer,

never were looking online for man neither..Yes,when I was in Korea 2 years ago I used

koreanqupid.com site to find a friends in Seoul..

But once I found the man who I love,that was it...

I believe his friend added me in this scammer list,because Inquiry Date in this page about me is

07 october 2007 (united states) and he found out this page (like he is saying) on 09 october 2007...

And my surname in ,,Assumed Last Name,, is not that I have in passport, its my mained name on that site(and his friend knows it) ..so..how could I recieve the money from somebody if my surname in my passport is different???

My fiance lives with that guy and I believe he doesnt like us being happy.And I remember that

guy sent me message long time ago asking me to leave my fiance,I ignored him,but asked him why..he never aswered...

All what I wanted to say here is...I truely loved and love my fiance..And I wanted to be happy just like other people do...But I think,its not a right time for me yet...

I will try to find administration and find out how it could happen with me..But site says ,,Disclaimer : Entries listed below do not confirm a scammer or scam and may not be real names or fact.

Information below is the results of anonymous user scam inquires. Everything you read here should be independently verified by yourself. ,,

I just wanted to share with my pain in here and in a same time wish to all of you luck in your journey...

I just want to die,but life goes on and I have to survive!!!

I will do my best...

I am so sorry to hear this.

But, a relationship is built on trust and also tests our trust in others.

He and you should have a good, frank discussion about you two.

If he loves you and trusts you, he should move forward. If he can't do those things, then it will be ended.

There are people in the world who misuse the internet to lie about other people. He should know this.

How long have you two known each other? It takes time to build trust.

One thing that will come out of this is that now you know that there is this information about you on the internet and now you can deal with it. Maybe he is not the one but this will prepare you to meet another?

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Thank you all for privat messages..

Yes,I am going to be okay..

First,I have to make things clear

and found out about all that happen..

I contacted administrator from site,

they say they are not responsible for

anything..It could be false and lie,site

it for anonimus users..

Well...I will get them to remove my name

from this site..

I knew my fiance for more than a year

and I loved him strong and passionate..

Its hard right now,very hard...

I think I wil just get a plan ticket somewhere and

will start my new life..Its very painful to be claimed

as a dirty word-scammer...

Sorry...

[tmma 467]

Apple-

First, I am sorry you are hurting right now-really I am...you deserve better than to be with a man who won't believe what you say when it's been him who has already been proven a liar in the past... I have to be honest here.

Not so long ago there was some..." controversy" [ to say the least] between you two about the petition number he gave you when he " said he filed"-he lied to you in Korea when you were together there and just yesterday he was on here asking about expediting the petition and now this ?

Truly-I would be booking myself a ticket to where I want to be and starting again. You are a lovely, intelligent woman, cut your losses now-move on-you can do better!!!!!!!!!!!

best wishes.

Edited October 10, 2007 by tmma

[Jasman0717 9]

So your fiance is believing his friend rather than you? And what does his friend know for sure?

[tucson_chick 0]

wow. as far as i remember you and your (ex) fiance have a lot of public drama going on (all the time).

wasn't there something that you didn't believe that he filed the I-129 bc you thought the case-number was a fake?

ohwell, i guess you guys are just dealing with things differently.

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anything we can do to help you out?

[DARUMA07 25]

Sorry to hear your unfortunate news! my thoughts to you is to keep your head up and never give up wanting to share your life with someone Special!! I believe there is someone out there just for you! Remember, it is your Fiance's loss! He will probably live to regret it! Try not to be bitter, just move on with your life! You will do Good!

Edited October 10, 2007 by dannyrmartin1

[Fandango 1,440]

wow. as far as i remember you and your (ex) fiance have a lot of public drama going on (all the time).

wasn't there something that you didn't believe that he filed the I-129 bc you thought the case-number was a fake?

ohwell, i guess you guys are just dealing with things differently.

It wasn't just the OP who thought the case number was dodgy....it was pretty much everyone here telling HER that it didn't sound right.

OP, I'm so sorry for you, but in a way I'm not because you're better off without someone like that!

[Dr. A ♥ O 203]

A relationship is built on trust and also tests our trust in others.

He and you should have a good, frank discussion about you two.

If he loves you and trusts you, he should move forward. If he can't do those things, then it will be ended.

There are people in the world who misuse the internet to lie about other people. He should know this.

How long have you two known each other? It takes time to build trust.

This is so what I needed to hear right now! Thank you!

I had my own break in trust with him in mid-September and it really threw me for an emotional loop. I've been having an emotional dilemma since unsure what to do one way or the other. After reading this it helped ground me better. I do love and trust him we've known each other for nearly four years. I feel I can move forward now.

Yes, I am feeling better again.

[oggle1 0]

A relationship is built on trust and also tests our trust in others.

He and you should have a good, frank discussion about you two.

If he loves you and trusts you, he should move forward. If he can't do those things, then it will be ended.

There are people in the world who misuse the internet to lie about other people. He should know this.

How long have you two known each other? It takes time to build trust.

This is so what I needed to hear right now! Thank you!

I had my own break in trust with him in mid-September and it really threw me for an emotional loop. I've been having an emotional dilemma since unsure what to do one way or the other. After reading this it helped ground me better. I do love and trust him we've known each other for nearly four years. I feel I can move forward now.

Yes, I am feeling better again.

These blogs are always attack me about how I should change or do something...

The truth is, I believe that my Lola is not some type of scammer, because the evidence is that she has continued to be with me through much trouble. Scammer do not do that.

They do not stick around to see if you are in good spirits.

I tried to explain to my Lola that I was given this link so we could remove her name TOGETHER, so it does not block our K1 petition. I did not get that chance.

She was deeply upset about it...

First, this does not have to stop our visa, because it is not an official site.

Second, It must be proven that she is a scammer. This is not possible, because she has not commited any crime...there is no evidence to be considered.

Third, she is who she is...scammers do not like to be known...my lola is a beautiful woman and not a woman that can be ignored.

Fourth, Her actions do not and have not matched what a scammer does.

I am saddened by all this which has occured, because I adore my lola and will never stop loving her...

I have never cared about what anyone had said about my Lola, because I am a grown man who is responsible for his actions. I have proven tI hat many times.

I have been told that when you are in a relationship to "listen to your woman/ man"

because there are certain people everywhere that will volunteer to dedstroy your life.

If someone tries to destroy your life you should never surrender it, you should fight until you win.....I am doing that with our love....I will never give up, and if i need to search the world for my Lola...I will!! If she is with another, I will still continue my search because I adore her and will forever.

They will do it and if you do not listen to you man or woman....they will win every time.

Lola is my woman and I will believe her always and not listen to mental garbage from others. I had placed my career, in Korea, in a situation that would end it...because I adore my Lola more than my life. She is my everything!!

I want my Lola to return to me today...If I do not see her again, I pray that we can meet in heaven, so all can be revealed and she knows that I love her

I wish that I could tell my Lola that......

Forever and always

you and I

Alvin and Lola

[~Laura and Nick~ 5]

It seems that the two of you really need to communicate! Something is fishy. Have you talked on the phone about this? Why are you responding to her in the open forum instead of sorting this out on the phone?

I wish you both the best of luck in whatever way you decide to go with this.

[afterforever 0]

I think you should tell her on the phone what you have written here on this website.

Honest communication and trust are the cornerstone of any great relationship

Good luck

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I think you should tell her on the phone what you have written here on this website.

Honest communication and trust are the cornerstone of any great relationship

Good luck

I am sorry to put dirty laundry in the open, but my Lola is so deep into what she wants and how she wants it that she is not willing to hear other thoughts and situations. Once this happens , you never get a chance to state what actually happened.

We argued about things we agreed about. I would tell her i agree and she would try hard to make me understand what she was saying. I enjoyed her strong will and passion.

I have always tried to be honest with Lola. Lola's biggest problem was allowing the past to stay in the past. I appologize for doing this, but I had needed to tell somebody.. I am in love but my love has left me...I have done no wrong here but it seem that I must be imprisoned to a life without my Lola.

I appologize again to everyone in VJ

alvin Barnes

[oggle1 0]

Apple-

First, I am sorry you are hurting right now-really I am...you deserve better than to be with a man who won't believe what you say when it's been him who has already been proven a liar in the past... I have to be honest here.

Not so long ago there was some..." controversy" [ to say the least] between you two about the petition number he gave you when he " said he filed"-he lied to you in Korea when you were together there and just yesterday he was on here asking about expediting the petition and now this ?

Truly-I would be booking myself a ticket to where I want to be and starting again. You are a lovely, intelligent woman, cut your losses now-move on-you can do better!!!!!!!!!!!

best wishes.

I did nothing wrong I did not accuse her of doing anything...I just wanted to clear everything up so it did not interfere with the visa. I have told my lola the truth and given her all information that I had to give....I have not lied to her since feburary, and I had learned my lesson then. Just because things do not match does not mean that some one is the perpetrator

of the crime.. I wish that I had a fair trial.... I did no wrong, but i have to pay for a crime.