Do you know the feeling ... ?

[BabyBlueSusie 1]

her friend is a jerk, and you shouldnt blame her for his mistake...just because he tried to kiss her doesnt mean anything...the fact that she told you what happened, does mean something, actually it means a lot...if she was thinking of doing something with her friend then she probably wouldnt have told you anything at all

if you trust her then you have to trust her 100%...its all or nothing in this game, because either it wont be something that youre worried about, or it will consume you because every second that you're not in contact is a second that she could be something dishonest

[M4rinus 1]

Its more that she needs some space because ive been sufficating her with my insecurity...

It will be ok.

She just needs a little time to figure out her head.

But we will keep calling and Ill visit her in December.

Thats when I intend to officially pop the question with ring and that whole thing

Im currently trying to find a smith that can make me the exact perfect ring for her...

[C and J 1]

Out of almost 2.5 years (roughly 900 days) of knowing my husband, we have spent 76 days together. That is 4 visits of 2-3 weeks at a time, 6 months apart for majority of our relationship.

It is hard and sometimes I become very depressed with the whole situation. He always manages to pick up my mood and remind me why we are both going through this heartache. One of the other posters is right, when you truly love someone you don't look at other people. When you're single, you're always looking for a potential mate but when you're happy with someone that need just disappears.

The process is long but you will get through it. Josh and I are over 4 months into the K3 process and are hoping it will be over in 6 more months. Waiting for this process to end and finally reunite us permanently is the hardest part of our relationship so far... because we know that light is at the end of the tunnel.

[Gareth's Girl 0]

Her friend is a jerk. If one of my friends did that to me, they would no longer be my friend. What he did is disrespectful to you and to her. There is nothing ok about that. I can understand why you might feel insecure after this happened. I am a little confused by your girlfriend's reaction. However, I do not know either her or you, so this could be completely normal for your relationship. I hope that everything works out for you and wish you the best of luck.

[Simon and Janet 6]

You're not alone. All of us here {except for a very few lucky ones} have had to spend some time apart from our SO's. You go through ups and downs emotionally. Some days are good, some are bad. Just try to keep your chin up...the waiting will be worth it once it's over because, and I have said this a few times...you will never take your SO for granted once they are here.

I can see how some days are good and some bad. I've been apart from Janet only a week and a half and i'm a miserable depressed wreck. Coming home and finding out my job no longer existed just magnifies the hurt right now. I really don't know how people have been able to be apart from their loved ones for years... I just couldn't imagine that pain. Of course I'd go through it if i had to, but that would just about sink me into full on depression.

The fact i'm posting this now let's you know i've had a bad day

I feel like, being the guy in this situation I shouldn't show so much pain and weakness, but I really can't control it. I'd love to be upbeat and positive right now, but how do you do that when the most important person in your life is a world away?

I have another 71 days until i see her again.... and I should be so grateful for that! Some people would do anything to be seeing their lover in that short amount of time. I take solace in the fact she loves me just as much as I love her, she's so much stronger than me and I bet she doesn't even realize it.

I think I just needed to get that out... and quit crying over what I really can't control. This should be a time we strengthen our relationship and appreciate how much stronger this situation makes us as individuals and as a couple.

ANYWAY... this day only has four hours left before it turns to 70 days lol.

[almaty 19]

2007..i hope the OP met his fiancee by now