Interview Notice

[amour-et-foi 7]

Hello all. I posted last week about my situation that my wife wants divorce with her I 751still pending. As it would happen I signed the divorce paper and the next day I check her case status and it updated to ready for an interview as of 9/16.

I have no idea how she will proceed. Our application was filed as joint couple in a committed marriage. Yet she requested divorce and although I tried to reconcile, I just broke down and agreed. But I have no idea what she can do if all USCIS knows is that we are still married as of the time of the interview notice. If she tries for a divorce waiver now with her interview coming soon I don't know how that will work. And I'm not going to be vindictive or anything like that. I'm always there for her. I just don't know how she will proceed.

[arken 4,197]

I think you'll find more peace just moving on and not thinking of her.

[Strontium 70]

"Ready to be scheduled for interview" status can last for quite awhile.  It has zero bearing on how long before an interview is scheduled.  She should just proceed with the waiver.

 

 

Edited September 21, 2021 by Strontium

[Marieke H 2,301]

Her ROC process is now hers to take care of. She can notify USCIS that she wants to switch to the divorce waiver now or even at the interview. It could still be a long wait until her interview anyway.

 

You really should not be checking her case status anymore. She wanted a divorce; let her take care of her immigration process, it is none of your business anymore.

[Crazy Cat 39,136]

1 hour ago, amour-et-foi said:

Hello all. I posted last week about my situation that my wife wants divorce with her I 751still pending. As it would happen I signed the divorce paper and the next day I check her case status and it updated to ready for an interview as of 9/16.

I have no idea how she will proceed. Our application was filed as joint couple in a committed marriage. Yet she requested divorce and although I tried to reconcile, I just broke down and agreed. But I have no idea what she can do if all USCIS knows is that we are still married as of the time of the interview notice. If she tries for a divorce waiver now with her interview coming soon I don't know how that will work. And I'm not going to be vindictive or anything like that. I'm always there for her. I just don't know how she will proceed.

She doesn't need you.  My advice:  Let it go, and seek happiness for YOURSELF.  Let her handle her own affairs.  As soon as she becomes a citizen, you will be free...

BE THERE FOR YOURSELF!!!!

Edited September 21, 2021 by Crazy Cat

[JeanneAdil 6,169]

you're worried she won't know what to do

she fled your house ,  got a lawyer and already has a divorce

she knows exactly what to do

 

it is u that is lost

 u need to forget her and move on 

take care of yourself

[Marieke H 2,301]

38 minutes ago, amour-et-foi said:

Discuss the topic or don't post.

The topic was that you did not know how she will proceed, correct?

 

3 hours ago, amour-et-foi said:

I have no idea how she will proceed. Our application was filed as joint couple in a committed marriage. Yet she requested divorce and although I tried to reconcile, I just broke down and agreed. But I have no idea what she can do if all USCIS knows is that we are still married as of the time of the interview notice. If she tries for a divorce waiver now with her interview coming soon I don't know how that will work. And I'm not going to be vindictive or anything like that. I'm always there for her. I just don't know how she will proceed.

I believe everyone who commented answered that question for you. You just don't like the answer. She will proceed without you, and you don't need to know how. She will figure it out. She can very easily switch to a divorce waiver.

[Unlockable 7,306]

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Edited September 21, 2021 by Unlockable

[mdma11 121]

Some members here can be so harsh with their direct takes on other's predicament. OP, I'm not sure what your question ultimately is or the point of your post, but do your best to help her if she were to ask for your help but until then being respectful of each other's wishes and space in times like these is paramount. Sounds like you may be hurting. Its understandable so be a good friend to yourself. As far as her immigration path moving forward goes, well its now different path for her. She's on her own and thats just how it works.

[amour-et-foi 7]

5 hours ago, mdma11 said:

Some members here can be so harsh with their direct takes on other's predicament. OP, I'm not sure what your question ultimately is or the point of your post, but do your best to help her if she were to ask for your help but until then being respectful of each other's wishes and space in times like these is paramount. Sounds like you may be hurting. Its understandable so be a good friend to yourself. As far as her immigration path moving forward goes, well its now different path for her. She's on her own and thats just how it works.

Yes I understand. Yet this is nothing about how I'm feeling. This is a forum about the visa process. I just hope people understand that and don't jump to conclusions. Durring this whole process I was charged with doing everything as was requested of me. The situation seemed unique so I thought I'd try to get information. That is all. 

[aznhouston 124]

It's clear to me that she no longer wants you in her life. File for divorce, protect your properties/assets, and let her handle the immigration herself. 
 

Whoever suggesting you helping her is wrong. The relationship is no longer bona fide. What do you think of two friends helping each other's get the green card by getting married? 
 

And remember you are responsible for her financially if she gets the 10-year GC. 

Edited September 22, 2021 by aznhouston

[JeanneAdil 6,169]

My post was not meant for meanness

but now that she and u are divorced,  she has to file and do her own divorce waiver

 

But if you divorce (or your marriage is annulled) before the two years have passed and you want to continue to live in the U.S., filing this petition jointly with your spouse will be impossible. You will still need to submit Form I-751, but will have to include a request for a "waiver" of the joint filing requirement.