😔 life is not fair ALWAYS. Or I can the consulate in Morocco casablanca

[bavana Havana 3]

I don't know what to say but my story is longer . I meet a woman from USA and we get married about 5 years ago. Out love story was nice. We applied for the ir1 visa with everything and proofs that our marriage is true . After one year or waiting the process she changed alot start to cheat on me and date other men there behind  I get hurt alot from this woman besides her unrespectful and lied Everytime  and from her and her family . It was a hell I didn't deserve that am good man. I was good with her   . I remember she told me if they don't approve the visa. She will leave me  because she don't love anymore.  Our relationship was like 5 years of time it along time we waited and even the process takes longer . People's advice told me that to go to the interview even if this problems between me and her. I went to there  . I have a hearing problem and people should be nice with me and understanding. But the officer were so rasict and doesn't care about my situation as we hear here many times they ask alot of questions  answered evethings  he told me I have admin procces. Have to wait. After two months they called me for second interview it was with two Moroccans work there and they were asking me the same but this time I felt like they unrespectful and hard with me it's like want to fight me  .  I was there for 3 hours  after they say we call you.  After one week I checked I found that my Visa is refused forever. I told her what happened with me  she laughed alot like she is happy they did it hurt me more. I know no one knows me but am good person I never think to hurt someone but it's fine. God will reward them back of all my suffer from this.  My advice to any men marry from USA don't make hopes alot Marrying a woman doesn't mean things will work out. Be sure the woman is ready to be petient and fight them  and she loves from her heart.  Not the onese one who love to drink alot and so everything with me. Every night   and who is moody alot and doesn't care about people feelings. Marry the right person. Before. Because your way is not easy it will take many years  atleast they refuse your visa  they won't care how you suffer.  . I have trust in God for me will reward me better  I believe.    Good luck to everyone  thank you for reading 

[Ryan H 3,790]

Moved from Process & Procedures to Progress Reports.

[JeanneAdil 6,187]

first i am so sorry this happened to u very sorry

next as to your advice i will add 

1. if the woman drinks a lot she doesn't even respect herself

2. she does not have to convert to Islam but if she does not respect your faith and support u during Ramada ,  she doesn't respect u at all

3. if she visits in Morocco and does not follow the dress codes like covering her legs and arms or she wears a bathing suit in public that shows everything,  she does not respect u or the country's morals

4. if she does not show kindness and respect to your family,  not a good thing

5.  if she smokes in front of your family or in cafe,  this embarrasses u and your family\

6.  a man and woman should always know the morals of the other and respect them/  it would be better to have the same moral attitude to raise children with no conflicts between the couple

 

Next,   there was no reason to go to the interview,   as she no longer supported the visa 

and where did you think you were going to live and work if you had come?   as a green card would have gone to her address

and sorry the Moroccan woman laughed at u 

and more important -if she wants a divorce and files for one in the US,  make sure the paperwork says your Moroccan address (u never lived here and another US woman tried to say the man was a Florida resident for easy divorce and he had never lived here)    And make sure you get copy of the divorce papers

 

all things happen in God's time   not  ours

allah yekbel

Edited July 11, 2021 by JeanneAdil

[Boiler 43,387]

Sounds like you dodged the bullet and found out just in time.

[Mezyan 149]

Sorry things didn't work out for you. You deserve to be happy in your relationship. 

 

I am slightly confused by reading your past posts though, the first posts from the account are from a woman who married a moroccan man. 

 

Regardless, I wish you the best in your future.

[bavana Havana 3]

On 7/14/2021 at 2:55 AM, Mezyan said:

Sorry things didn't work out for you. You deserve to be happy in your relationship. 

 

I am slightly confused by reading your past posts though, the first posts from the account are from a woman who married a moroccan man. 

 

Regardless, I wish you the best in your future.

She was only lying to me. I don't her whole life  . Little what she tell me I was trust her . I don't know it happens I didn't find anyone to advise me I can't all women are bad. But this one I marry was so bad  . doesn't respect me