My ex husband wants to marry someone else and bring her here

[marinacar 0]

Hi guys, I am new here, I got my GC (CR1) in Jan 2020 and filed for divorce last month because my husband cheated on me before I arrived to this country and after as well, divorce is still not finalized but will be soon.

My husband is obsessed with foreign women and apparently had multiple accounts on foreign dating sites, he always claimed that American women and masculine and are not family oriented.

Before I arrived I found out that he was communicating with a girl from Korea and was lying to her that he was getting a divorce and just waiting for it to be finalized a year before I even arrived to the US, he promised her that he will bring her here.I found out about this because he sent me a screen shot and he didn't notice that a message from her popped at the top, he told me that this was just for fun because he was bored. I forgave him.

Then two months before I arrived he said he is going to Mexico with his guy friends but later I found out that he actually went there to see a Mexican woman he met online, I found pictures on his phone and confronted him, he became very angry and said that he was cheating on me for 2 years and that this is my fault because the GC process took too long.

Then I left him, he started threatening me with deportation but it was just empty threats.

Now I saw on FB that he proposed to the woman from Mexico and probably planing on applying for K1 after he gets the divorce.

I texted him saying that him doing this for the 2nd time so fast is going to get him into trouble, but he said that he is going to say that I used him for GC and that this is what he told his soon to be wife and this is what she is going to say at the interview.

He said he is planing on saying that I applied for my GC without his permission, forged his signature and everything, this is what he told this woman, he is pathological liar.

He thinks it's okay to say something like this, they are both very stupid, and he has the "I am American so I can do whatever I want" attitude.

Now I am worried. do I have anything to worry about?

 

Edited September 6, 2020 by marinacar

[Boiler 43,388]

No

 

Well assuming his allegations are not true

[marinacar 0]

52 minutes ago, Boiler said:

No

 

Well assuming his allegations are not true

  of course that is not true! I even have a notarized letter from his mother saying how great we are for each other! 

[Crazy Cat 39,156]

2 hours ago, marinacar said:

Hi guys, I am new here, I got my GC (CR1) in Jan 2020 and filed for divorce last month because my husband cheated on me before I arrived to this country and after as well, divorce is still not finalized but will be soon.

My husband is obsessed with foreign women and apparently had multiple accounts on foreign dating sites, he always claimed that American women and masculine and are not family oriented.

Before I arrived I found out that he was communicating with a girl from Korea and was lying to her that he was getting a divorce and just waiting for it to be finalized a year before I even arrived to the US, he promised her that he will bring her here.I found out about this because he sent me a screen shot and he didn't notice that a message from her popped at the top, he told me that this was just for fun because he was bored. I forgave him.

Then two months before I arrived he said he is going to Mexico with his guy friends but later I found out that he actually went there to see a Mexican woman he met online, I found pictures on his phone and confronted him, he became very angry and said that he was cheating on me for 2 years and that this is my fault because the GC process took too long.

Then I left him, he started threatening me with deportation but it was just empty threats.

Now I saw on FB that he proposed to the woman from Mexico and probably planing on applying for K1 after he gets the divorce.

I texted him saying that him doing this for the 2nd time so fast is going to get him into trouble, but he said that he is going to say that I used him for GC and that this is what he told his soon to be wife and this is what she is going to say at the interview.

He said he is planing on saying that I applied for my GC without his permission, forged his signature and everything, this is what he told this woman, he is pathological liar.

He thinks it's okay to say something like this, they are both very stupid, and he has the "I am American so I can do whatever I want" attitude.

Now I am worried. do I have anything to worry about?

 

He has no power to control your immigration status.  I suggest you:

1.  Protect yourself physically and financially through a divorce attorney.

2.  Cut your ties with the husband.

3.  Move on with your life and Seek happiness for yourself.

Good luck.

[shapeshifter 14]

3 hours ago, marinacar said:

Hi guys, I am new here, I got my GC (CR1) in Jan 2020 and filed for divorce last month because my husband cheated on me before I arrived to this country and after as well, divorce is still not finalized but will be soon.

My husband is obsessed with foreign women and apparently had multiple accounts on foreign dating sites, he always claimed that American women and masculine and are not family oriented.

Before I arrived I found out that he was communicating with a girl from Korea and was lying to her that he was getting a divorce and just waiting for it to be finalized a year before I even arrived to the US, he promised her that he will bring her here.I found out about this because he sent me a screen shot and he didn't notice that a message from her popped at the top, he told me that this was just for fun because he was bored. I forgave him.

Then two months before I arrived he said he is going to Mexico with his guy friends but later I found out that he actually went there to see a Mexican woman he met online, I found pictures on his phone and confronted him, he became very angry and said that he was cheating on me for 2 years and that this is my fault because the GC process took too long.

Then I left him, he started threatening me with deportation but it was just empty threats.

Now I saw on FB that he proposed to the woman from Mexico and probably planing on applying for K1 after he gets the divorce.

I texted him saying that him doing this for the 2nd time so fast is going to get him into trouble, but he said that he is going to say that I used him for GC and that this is what he told his soon to be wife and this is what she is going to say at the interview.

He said he is planing on saying that I applied for my GC without his permission, forged his signature and everything, this is what he told this woman, he is pathological liar.

He thinks it's okay to say something like this, they are both very stupid, and he has the "I am American so I can do whatever I want" attitude.

Now I am worried. do I have anything to worry about?

 

Cut ties with him, he is trying to still control you and you dont need that, you should not be worried since you did not do what he is alleging.  Stay strong for your self, that's what most important.

[ohcoffeeeyes 120]

What a gigantic loser lol. 

 

Not any loss whatsoever. Success is the best revenge, succeed in your life.

 

Don't worry, he cannot get you deported unless he has proof you were using him as a Visa mill but considering he is trying to bring another woman in, he's going to be the suspicious one, not you. So don't worry about that. Get a divorce attorney and cut ties, protect your interests, only talk to him via the attorney. Best of luck.

[Orangesapples 1,954]

You can file for removal of conditions as soon as your divorce is done final btw, you don't need to wait for the 2-year expiration date. 

[geowrian 22,335]

I would just add that it sounds like he is excited to shoot himself in the foot. He helped you along the entire process to show a bona fide marriage. Now he’s going to say it was fraudulent, and he has somebody new to bring over? The common thread is him and the burden will be on them to show that this time it’s not fraudulent. He’s setting up a higher bar for himself IMO.

[ohcoffeeeyes 120]

50 minutes ago, geowrian said:

I would just add that it sounds like he is excited to shoot himself in the foot. He helped you along the entire process to show a bona fide marriage. Now he’s going to say it was fraudulent, and he has somebody new to bring over? The common thread is him and the burden will be on them to show that this time it’s not fraudulent. He’s setting up a higher bar for himself IMO.

He's wasting his own money on all these long visa processes, if he is that stupid cause he has some weird infatuation then its not water off OP's back...

[SalishSea 16,740]

14 hours ago, Lucky Cat said:

He has no power to control your immigration status.  I suggest you:

1.  Protect yourself physically and financially through a divorce attorney.

2.  Cut your ties with the husband.

3.  Move on with your life and Seek happiness for yourself.

Good luck.

Also:  unfriend him.  As tempting as it would be to watch his next disaster unfold on FB, you will feel better and healthier if you don't.

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

Stop texting, stop following him on FB and get on with living your life....

[Celebi 135]

I'm sorry you had to deal with this, OP. Before you unfollow/ unfriend, try to get as much proof as you can to make your evidences solid.