We moved and he basically stationed in a next country while I’m living with my mom. We share the bills in the house and my husband stands for food and the cable so he pays for that monthly. He was able to get me a credit card one in my name and one in his since he won’t be here to literally hand me money while he’s away. And yes the taxes were filed as married. That’s basically all we have so far but the lawyer says it looks good because we have longevity. We don’t have a choice where my husband