F2b Visa Complicated Situation

[rasel826 0]

My father applied for me in f2b category. He is a green card holder right now. priority date is 2016 . now 1 year ago i got married to a girl in Islamic way without letting my family know but didnt registry anything according to the country law .As she was 14 according to her birth certificate (though her real age is above 18). So basically in my country , The rule is u cant get married before 18. But in Islamic way u can . so did I. so there is no record in my country that im married. plus my wife is not adult to be married according to her birth certificate. will I be considered as married??? if yes. then I cant even show documents that i am married to in my country, The rule is u cant get married before 18. Should i keep my status as unmarried or what should i do?. Very confused.

[Just Paul 4,591]

For the US, married in any way or even appearing to be married is the same as being married.  Do not lie to US immigration.  You won't like the outcome.

 

Unfortunately there is no visa category for a married son of a LPR.  So I guess your fate is sealed until your father get US CItizenship.

Edited June 26, 2019 by Paul & Mary

[Roel 7,191]

Yes, you are married.

[rasel826 0]

8 minutes ago, Paul & Mary said:

For the US, married in any way or even appearing to be married is the same as being married.  Do not lie to US immigration.  You won't like the outcome.

 

Unfortunately there is no visa category for a married son of a LPR.  So I guess your fate is sealed until your father get US CItizenship.

But none knows that we are married. Only her and me. And we dont even live with eachothef

[rasel826 0]

2 minutes ago, Roel said:

Yes, you are married.

Yah but none knows. Only her and me. And we dont even live with eachother. How can embassy find out. ONLY if they torture us we will tell. Otherwise i dont see any option. Do u?   

[Roel 7,191]

Just now, rasel826 said:

But none knows that we are married. Only her and me. And we dont even live with eachothef

You want to lie to immigration and play games, that's on you. Don't get upset when they find out - and they can even revoke your future green card for lying.

Just now, rasel826 said:

Yah but none knows. Only her and me. And we dont even live with eachother. How can embassy find out. ONLY if they torture us we will tell. Otherwise i dont see any option. Do u?   

If you already know all the answers, why did you come here for?

[rasel826 0]

Just now, Roel said:

You want to lie to immigration and play games, that's on you. Don't get upset when they find out - and they can even revoke your future green card for lying.

I dont wanna play game or anythin. I just wanna know how will they find out if none knows about it.  

[rasel826 0]

3 minutes ago, Roel said:

You want to lie to immigration and play games, that's on you. Don't get upset when they find out - and they can even revoke your future green card for lying.

If you already know all the answers, why did you come here for?

I came out to see if there any other option that they can find out. Cuz getting married early age was a mistake. And cant risk my future anymore. Need solution. If u cant help then its fine. Cause if i dnt get the f2b visa then i will probably have to wait 12 more years till i  get the visa. Its too late and i wont be able to work ther when i go cuz i will be old. So for me its now or never   

[Daphne . 1,654]

Let’s put the question about them finding out to the side for a little bit..

So, you would then immigrate to The States as ‘unmarried’. What will happen then? Will your wife stay behind or do you want to bring her to The States eventually too? Because then the not being married part will become an issue. 

[Just Paul 4,591]

Just now, rasel826 said:

I came out to see if there any other option that they can find out. Cuz getting married early age was a mistake. And cant risk my future anymore. Need solution. If u cant help then its fine. Cause if i dnt get the f2b visa then i will probably have to wait 12 more years till i  get the visa. Its too late and i wont be able to work ther when i go cuz i will be old. So for me its now or never   

Did you not know you could not get married as a F2B?  There is no way to fix your mistake.

[rasel826 0]

Just now, Daphne K said:

Let’s put the question about them finding out to the side for a little bit..

So, you would then immigrate to The States as ‘unmarried’. What will happen then? Will your wife stay behind or do you want to bring her to The States eventually too? Because then the not being married part will become an issue. 

As i said i didnt registry anything its just a islamic commitment nothing written or anything.  I can re marry her in proper way later when i get GC 

[rasel826 0]

4 minutes ago, Paul & Mary said:

Did you not know you could not get married as a F2B?  There is no way to fix your mistake.

So should i risk it trying. Cuz for me its now or never. Dont take my questions roughly. It will help me making a decision  

[Just Paul 4,591]

13 minutes ago, rasel826 said:

But none knows that we are married. Only her and me. And we dont even live with eachothef

If you do immigrate aren't you afraid your wife or a jealous friend might turn you in?

[Just Paul 4,591]

1 minute ago, rasel826 said:

So should i risk it trying. Cuz for me its now or never. Dont take my questions roughly. It will help me making a decision  

No one here will tell you to break the Terms of Service of this site let alone US law,

[rasel826 0]

3 minutes ago, Paul & Mary said:

If you do immigrate aren't you afraid your wife or a jealous friend might turn you in?

My wife defenately will not. And im very polite guy. Dont hve much frnds.I dont have any enemy. I m confident none will harm me. I really dont wanna risk my future Just for a mistake in my life. As i said i just got married in islamic way. I can marry her in proper way when i get my Gc.