Daughter in law

[Georgia16 2,858]

16 hours ago, Rusk Marcotte said:

No the daughter is separated now before I met mom ! Actually she wants me to retire now and move to her ! I have been to Kharkiv 3 times it’s a nice city ! Yes they have problems ! The country is only what 15 years old ! Maybe 20 ! 

I am trying to boost my retirement and my pension ! I am figuring around 120,000 a month 

in there money when most only live on 15000 a month ! 

If all this happens and wife gets here and file for daughter after she is divorced and so on just be aware that she might not be able to just take her child with her. 

[Rusk Marcotte 20]

On 3/20/2019 at 1:00 AM, CEE53147 said:

The talk about stepdaughter divorcing so she can immigrate faster is troubling. Are you sure you are not being used?

No the husband hits her and she had left him before mom and I met ! No not being used ! She told me in first meeting she wants a man to love her ! She wanted me to move to her in the Ukraine and live there ! We will discuss this and figure it out ! No decisions have been made on that issue ! 

[SusieQQQ 11,584]

2 hours ago, Rusk Marcotte said:

No the husband hits her and she had left him before mom and I met ! No not being used ! She told me in first meeting she wants a man to love her ! She wanted me to move to her in the Ukraine and live there ! We will discuss this and figure it out ! No decisions have been made on that issue ! 

As said before, if having mom & daughter together anytime soon is paramount then moving to the Ukraine seems the only reasonable path.

Edited March 22, 2019 by SusieQQQ

[Rusk Marcotte 20]

38 minutes ago, SusieQQQ said:

As said before, if having mom & daughter together anytime soon is paramount then moving to the Ukraine seems the only reasonable path.

 

[Rusk Marcotte 20]

We will figure it out ! We might live here and there summers there and winters here ! Since the winter is harsh there !  Lol 

[gregcrs2 1,777]

3 minutes ago, Rusk Marcotte said:

We will figure it out ! We might live here and there summers there and winters here ! Since the winter is harsh there !  Lol 

Since your future spouse is coming to the US on a K-1, you've got some hurdles such as advance parole for her to be able to travel back until she can get her green card.  For you, there will be hurdles also as you can only stay 90 out of 180 days as a tourist in Ukraine.  To get more days than that, you will have to go through some hurdles to get a temporary residence permit which would need to be renewed each year.  Your idea of 6 months here and 6 months there is easier said than done.  If you don't speak any of the language, it's going to be difficult for you there.  Good luck!

[Boiler 43,429]

1 hour ago, SusieQQQ said:

As said before, if having mom & daughter together anytime soon is paramount then moving to the Ukraine seems the only reasonable path.

Agree

[Boiler 43,429]

15 minutes ago, gregcrs2 said:

Since your future spouse is coming to the US on a K-1, you've got some hurdles such as advance parole for her to be able to travel back until she can get her green card.  For you, there will be hurdles also as you can only stay 90 out of 180 days as a tourist in Ukraine.  To get more days than that, you will have to go through some hurdles to get a temporary residence permit which would need to be renewed each year.  Your idea of 6 months here and 6 months there is easier said than done.  If you don't speak any of the language, it's going to be difficult for you there.  Good luck!

Not practical to do as a PR anyway.

[gregcrs2 1,777]

1 minute ago, Boiler said:

Not practical to do as a PR anyway.

That's correct.  My personal experience is that at most, we have been able to spend 5 months a year over there.  That's with flying there 3-4 times per year.  So really, it's not practical and gets quite expensive.

[Rusk Marcotte 20]

Well I have been there 3 times each time I spent a month ! There are Ukraine’s that speak English 

and my wife can speak it for me ! We can always communicate using viber and goggle translate ! That seems to work out well ! As far as flying every 6 months that not a issue for me 

as far as cost is concern ! Yes when she arrives 

I will file for the appropriate documents so in case she has to fly back for any deaths are sickness she will be able to ! 

 

[Boiler 43,429]

Bearing ion mind your stated requirements that is a lot of time and money to waste bringing her to the US.

[SusieQQQ 11,584]

24 minutes ago, Rusk Marcotte said:

Well I have been there 3 times each time I spent a month ! There are Ukraine’s that speak English 

and my wife can speak it for me ! We can always communicate using viber and goggle translate ! That seems to work out well ! As far as flying every 6 months that not a issue for me 

as far as cost is concern ! Yes when she arrives 

I will file for the appropriate documents so in case she has to fly back for any deaths are sickness she will be able to ! 

 

If you’re planning to move there or spend half a year there regularly, I assume you will make a decent effort to at least become conversational in the local language too.  Duolingo has Ukrainian as far as I know.

[Rusk Marcotte 20]

Yes when she comes I had asked her to tech me Russian ! If not to speak but understand at least! I am sure I will pick up some of the language! Yes I thought about just moving there but I wish to work until at least 65 yrs of age !