Missing evidence help!!!

[Holdingon88 7]

My interview date is close and  im soo nervous. I was screenshoting facebook convo and we was talking on there since first year we met 2010 but i see that its only showing me messages oldest is from 2015 so 2010- n some of 2015 is missing . He been down here to see me 3 times 2015 when we got married in august and same year in october and oct last year we dont have a pile of pictures . and whatsapp  messages have  also gone missing because change of phone so what to do in a case like this some chatlogs  missing also so besides little pictures of the time he came to see me hotel confirmation of when he was here  2015-2018 convo recent chatlogs will that be good enough??

[Just Paul 4,591]

The only thing that is important is the proof of the bonafide marriage.  Screenshots from 2010 won't "prove" anything.  Do you proof that you have lived like a married couple?

[Holdingon88 7]

27 minutes ago, Paul & Mary said:

The only thing that is important is the proof of the bonafide marriage.  Screenshots from 2010 won't "prove" anything.  Do you proof that you have lived like a married couple?

What would be good proof to show we lived like married couple because he is in u.s im in another country...  just the visits also have Wu reciepts some chatlogs /call logs and few pictures hopefully that is good enough...

Edited March 18, 2019 by Holdingon88

[SalishSea 16,750]

14 minutes ago, Holdingon88 said:

What would be good proof to show we lived like married couple because he is in u.s im in another country...  just the visits also have Wu reciepts some chatlogs /call logs and few pictures hopefully that is good enough...

Even with living apart, married couples can add one another as beneficiaries of insurance, retirement accounts, investments, etc.  Do you have any of that?

[Holdingon88 7]

25 minutes ago, Jorgedig said:

Even with living apart, married couples can add one another as beneficiaries of insurance, retirement accounts, investments, etc.  Do you have any of that?

No unfortunately. 

[Just Paul 4,591]

1 hour ago, Holdingon88 said:

No unfortunately. 

Can't make a guess about your situation based on your timeline. 

 

Since your interview is so soon you will have to live with what you have. Chatting online and getting money isn't much proof that you act like a married couple.

 

There were plenty of thing that could have been done even prior to the marriage and even after.

[Holdingon88 7]

26 minutes ago, Paul & Mary said:

Can't make a guess about your situation based on your timeline. 

 

Since your interview is so soon you will have to live with what you have. Chatting online and getting money isn't much proof that you act like a married couple.

 

There were plenty of thing that could have been done even prior to the marriage and even after.

Ok well i hope everything goes good with what i have 

[carmel34 3,529]

9 hours ago, Holdingon88 said:

Ok well i hope everything goes good with what i have 

If your interview is soon, you can take additional evidence of a bona fide marriage relationship, but there is no requirement that the CO has to look at or consider it.  They typically review the documents submitted with the petition and everything submitted at the NVC stage before the interview and make a preliminary determination based on all of that.  Then they ask questions for clarification.  We see lots of examples here on VJ of couples who are denied a visa at the interview for lack of evidence of the relationship, even when they have the evidence with them at the interview--the CO just refuses to look at it.  So the worst case scenario if that happens, is you will be given the opportunity to submit the documents after the interview for consideration.  That may add more weeks to the process but if you have the proper evidence you should eventually get approved.  Good luck!

[Holdingon88 7]

18 minutes ago, carmel34 said:

If your interview is soon, you can take additional evidence of a bona fide marriage relationship, but there is no requirement that the CO has to look at or consider it.  They typically review the documents submitted with the petition and everything submitted at the NVC stage before the interview and make a preliminary determination based on all of that.  Then they ask questions for clarification.  We see lots of examples here on VJ of couples who are denied a visa at the interview for lack of evidence of the relationship, even when they have the evidence with them at the interview--the CO just refuses to look at it.  So the worst case scenario if that happens, is you will be given the opportunity to submit the documents after the interview for consideration.  That may add more weeks to the process but if you have the proper evidence you should eventually get approved.  Good luck!

Ok thanks ,  im thinking about making my husband come with me to the interview do you think thats best ?

[dwheels76 5,459]

1 hour ago, Holdingon88 said:

Ok thanks ,  im thinking about making my husband come with me to the interview do you think thats best ?

He won't be allowed in to the embassy.  I won't worry about it you been married 4 years work with what you have. At interview it's usually too late for any evidence anyway so hopefully what you submitted is all they need. Relax and be calm at interview it is well.

[Amadia 711]

When I put together my evidence for them, they did not look at my Skype call logs, pics of vacations spent together or anything of the fluff that was added to my packet.

Sometimes we freak ourselves out by overthinking this then your interview comes up and you get your case approved...don't fret and just calm your nerves

[Holdingon88 7]

45 minutes ago, dwheels76 said:

He won't be allowed in to the embassy.  I won't worry about it you been married 4 years work with what you have. At interview it's usually too late for any evidence anyway so hopefully what you submitted is all they need. Relax and be calm at interview it is well.

Yes spouse can come at embassy in jamaica .ok thanks i will try and relaxed

[Holdingon88 7]

31 minutes ago, Amadia said:

When I put together my evidence for them, they did not look at my Skype call logs, pics of vacations spent together or anything of the fluff that was added to my packet.

Sometimes we freak ourselves out by overthinking this then your interview comes up and you get your case approved...don't fret and just calm your nerves

Yes well thats good to know , hopefully i have a nice CO like you and ,everything goes smooth for me.

[carmel34 3,529]

2 hours ago, Holdingon88 said:

Ok thanks ,  im thinking about making my husband come with me to the interview do you think thats best ?

Yes, I suggest that if your husband can be there it always helps for moral support, to keep you calm, and then if the CO wants to ask him a question he's there to answer.  Also read the Kingston interview reviews here on VJ--lots of great information and the questions asked of others will be likely asked of you since the staff will most likely be the same.  Good luck with your interview!  Spouses/fiances ARE allowed in the embassy for interviews in Kingston according to the VJ Jamaica forum.

55 minutes ago, dwheels76 said:

He won't be allowed in to the embassy.

[Holdingon88 7]

16 minutes ago, carmel34 said:

Yes, I suggest that if your husband can be there it always helps for moral support, to keep you calm, and then if the CO wants to ask him a question he's there to answer.  Also read the Kingston interview reviews here on VJ--lots of great information and the questions asked of others will be likely asked of you since the staff will most likely be the same.  Good luck with your interview!  Spouses/fiances ARE allowed in the embassy for interviews in Kingston according to the VJ Jamaica forum.

It sure will be good if he can come. I have been reading the kingston reviews to get a feel of how it will go ,this site and all the caring support from everyone here is  just amazing #thankful